Men..., Are We Really, That Simple ?

[Mr Quim]

This probably only applies, in a long term Relationship, with a significant other .

My wife has made lots of Sandwiches, and even brought Me a Beer .
But, She's never followed this exact suggestion, so I can't comment from personal experience .

I think, I would remember an Event like this . LOL

Cheers

 

[badbadboy]

Sandwiches always test best when made for you. :nod:

 

[blakealridge]

I mean...I feel like this would work on all the genders. Can't imagine a guy making me a sandwich, bringing me a (non-alcoholic cuz I'm sober) beer, and fucking off for hours. I'd probably cum right then and there.

 

[sybian]

I mean...I feel like this would work on all the genders. Can't imagine a guy making me a sandwich, bringing me a (non-alcoholic cuz I'm sober) beer, and fucking off for hours. I'd probably cum right then and there.

Cheddar or Marbled on that?......I may have a problem finding the non-alcoholic, as I've never been in that section of the liquor store.




.............and yes, some of us are really that simple.

 

[blakealridge]

As some of my clients know, a vegan burrito will do the trick....and you can always ask a sales clerk I think we're all pretty simple. we just like being thought of, looked after, loved, and respected. <3

Cheddar or Marbled on that?......I may have a problem finding the non-alcoholic, as I've never been in that section of the liquor store.




.............and yes, some of us are really that simple.

 

[Lady Companion]

One of the most consistent complaints that I hear from my suitors and male friends is that they don't feel appreciated in relationships. So much has been done in the last 20 years to push the value of a woman to bring about equality - but in some instances, it seems to have been overshot.

Men often feel as though they are simply expected to do their share, without any gratitude being given. They will constantly compliment the woman, thank her for her share of duties, and really try to make her feel special. However, that seems to set a baseline of expectations, in that all the extras he gives then become expected, are not appreciated, and forgetting to do something causes grief, rather than receiving any thanks for doing it in the first place.

Are men really that simple? Honestly, I think people are that simple. We enjoy both creating value and being valued.

I feel it is important for all of us to show genuine appreciation to the people in our lives, attempting to point out a dozen positive things for each criticism that may arise. Gratitude can come in the form or words, actions, or any other way that is well received by the other party.

And the most amazing thing about showing our appreciation is that WE become so much happier in our lives. The attitude of gratitude creates the space for grace.

I'm going to go make my dog a sandwich now. I know he IS that simple! ;-)

 

[sybian]

One of the most consistent complaints that I hear from my suitors and male friends is that they don't feel appreciated in relationships. So much has been done in the last 20 years to push the value of a woman to bring about equality - but in some instances, it seems to have been overshot.

Men often feel as though they are simply expected to do their share, without any gratitude being given. They will constantly compliment the woman, thank her for her share of duties, and really try to make her feel special. However, that seems to set a baseline of expectations, in that all the extras he gives then become expected, are not appreciated, and forgetting to do something causes grief, rather than receiving any thanks for doing it in the first place.

Are men really that simple? Honestly, I think people are that simple. We enjoy both creating value and being valued.

I feel it is important for all of us to show genuine appreciation to the people in our lives, attempting to point out a dozen positive things for each criticism that may arise. Gratitude can come in the form or words, actions, or any other way that is well received by the other party.

And the most amazing thing about showing our appreciation is that WE become so much happier in our lives. The attitude of gratitude creates the space for grace.

I'm going to go make my dog a sandwich now. I know he IS that simple! ;-)

"The attitude for gratitude creates the space for grace"

I like that....it has a trace of Cowboyography.

 

[papillion]

One of the most consistent complaints that I hear from my suitors and male friends is that they don't feel appreciated in relationships. So much has been done in the last 20 years to push the value of a woman to bring about equality - but in some instances, it seems to have been overshot.

Men often feel as though they are simply expected to do their share, without any gratitude being given. They will constantly compliment the woman, thank her for her share of duties, and really try to make her feel special. However, that seems to set a baseline of expectations, in that all the extras he gives then become expected, are not appreciated, and forgetting to do something causes grief, rather than receiving any thanks for doing it in the first place.

Are men really that simple? Honestly, I think people are that simple. We enjoy both creating value and being valued.

I feel it is important for all of us to show genuine appreciation to the people in our lives, attempting to point out a dozen positive things for each criticism that may arise. Gratitude can come in the form or words, actions, or any other way that is well received by the other party.

And the most amazing thing about showing our appreciation is that WE become so much happier in our lives. The attitude of gratitude creates the space for grace.

I'm going to go make my dog a sandwich now. I know he IS that simple! ;-)

Well stated, and I heartily agree, being gratefull is 1 of the keys to happiness