Massage Parlor etiquette and modus operandi for a newbie

[explorations500]

Hello MP pros,
I am a relative newbie as far as using Asian massage parlor services go. The only time i visited a massage parlor, my $200 session lasted for just 5 mins. It basically went like this - I tell the girl that i am looking for FS. I then pay her the agreed upon rate. She then starts to give me a CBJ and I ejaculated 2 mins into the act. The girl then tells me that only one shot is allowed per session and so, the actual act didn't even happen. I was super-embarrassed with what happened and left the parlor quickly.

So, I was hoping for some of the pros here to sort of lay out the etiquette and the mode of operation for a newbie like me.

Some questions that cross my mind -
1. When you book a 30 mins or 1 hr long session, do you actually spend the length of the session, or is it like get into the act quickly and leave?
2. Are the services strictly limited to CBJ and FS, or can it be more GFE like experience with DFK, Body Slide, tea bagging allowed?
3. How much do you tip (as a percentage) after the session?
4. Will appreciate it even more if you can share any other info on what your typical massage parlor experiences consist of, so that folks like me can learn to do things the right way without embarrassing ourselves

P.S: I am sexually very inexperienced - almost a virgin, except for a two awkward instances of having sex. My inexperience may have contributed to my not reading between the lines when using the service. I am considering escort services, but am scared to move forward, considering how i messed up even the supposedly straightforward MP experience.

Thanks!

 

[Hatershate37]

Aight. Spend the extra money and go see Polly at Face 2 feet and then - generally speaking - be disappointed with the vast majority of parlor's here (results may vary, however).

1. You are supposed to get your time.
2. Menu's may vary. Much like a drive thru, confirm your order before proceeding ahead.
3. In terms of a best-case scenario, all prices should be agreed upon beforehand.
4. Do your research beforehand. Read up on as many bad experiences on this forum as possible in order to paint yourself the best possible picture in terms of your expectations compared to harsh reality of any given situation that may present itself.

Good luck and stay safe.

 

[explorations500]

The amp scene is usually a fuck factory. The girls are anxious to get you gone. Try find a lady outside a shop that does multiple shots. There are plenty of ladies that won't try cut your time. Keep reading reviews and find a lady that suits your needs.

Thank You. This seems to be a sage advice!

 

[explorations500]

Aight. Spend the extra money and go see Polly at Face 2 feet and then - generally speaking - be disappointed with the vast majority of parlor's here (results may vary, however).

1. You are supposed to get your time.
2. Menu's may vary. Much like a drive thru, confirm your order before proceeding ahead.
3. In terms of a best-case scenario, all prices should be agreed upon beforehand.
4. Do your research beforehand. Read up on as many bad experiences on this forum as possible in order to paint yourself the best possible picture in terms of your expectations compared to harsh reality of any given situation that may present itself.

Good luck and stay safe.

Thank You. I am piqued to see Polly now

 

[southcentralperb]

while Polly is good, she is not for everybody. she doesn't do FS at all, and even DATY and CBJ are YMMV. a good HJ and bodyslide and seeing her sexy body are guaranteed though. but a bit expensive compared to other shops.

MSOG is usually extra $, and unfortunately most girls will end your session when you cum. maybe do massage first or hold back the finish until later in the session. or just book 30 mins instead.

not all shops do FS, but i would say most of them do. figure out what you're looking for, find a shop that does it, and read reviews and such.

tipping beyond the price of entry + paying for the extras is totally optional. tbh i only tip if service is phenomenal or we end up staying over the time i paid for. that's maybe 10% of my sessions

 

[explorations500]

There is a lady named Amy at 4617. Does an amazing bodyslide and hj. One of the nicest girls I have met. Nice smile. Let her know you finish quick and ask her about multiple shots or just a long massage and tease first. She has a great attitude and smile. Hands are great.

Thank You. Appreciate this input.

 

[explorations500]

Next time you ask a question post in the 411 section.

My apologies. Didn't realize that I was posing in the wrong section.

 

[explorations500]

while Polly is good, she is not for everybody. she doesn't do FS at all, and even DATY and CBJ are YMMV. a good HJ and bodyslide and seeing her sexy body are guaranteed though. but a bit expensive compared to other shops.

MSOG is usually extra $, and unfortunately most girls will end your session when you cum. maybe do massage first or hold back the finish until later in the session. or just book 30 mins instead.

not all shops do FS, but i would say most of them do. figure out what you're looking for, find a shop that does it, and read reviews and such.

tipping beyond the price of entry + paying for the extras is totally optional. tbh i only tip if service is phenomenal or we end up staying over the time i paid for. that's maybe 10% of my sessions

Thank You. Appreciate the detailed response.

 

[GentlemanJack69]

Hello MP pros,
I am a relative newbie as far as using Asian massage parlor services go. The only time i visited a massage parlor, my $200 session lasted for just 5 mins. It basically went like this - I tell the girl that i am looking for FS. I then pay her the agreed upon rate. She then starts to give me a CBJ and I ejaculated 2 mins into the act. The girl then tells me that only one shot is allowed per session and so, the actual act didn't even happen. I was super-embarrassed with what happened and left the parlor quickly.

So, I was hoping for some of the pros here to sort of lay out the etiquette and the mode of operation for a newbie like me.

Some questions that cross my mind -
1. When you book a 30 mins or 1 hr long session, do you actually spend the length of the session, or is it like get into the act quickly and leave?
2. Are the services strictly limited to CBJ and FS, or can it be more GFE like experience with DFK, Body Slide, tea bagging allowed?
3. How much do you tip (as a percentage) after the session?
4. Will appreciate it even more if you can share any other info on what your typical massage parlor experiences consist of, so that folks like me can learn to do things the right way without embarrassing ourselves

P.S: I am sexually very inexperienced - almost a virgin, except for a two awkward instances of having sex. My inexperience may have contributed to my not reading between the lines when using the service. I am considering escort services, but am scared to move forward, considering how i messed up even the supposedly straightforward MP experience.

Thanks!

I'm relatively new as well.. I've posted my reviews in the massage and escort forums. My first experience was much like yours and was not pleasant. If you're looking for advice, start with what you're looking for.. IE what city? any preferences? age/ethnicity/activities... Then take some time to look at the reviews. You can generally find what you're looking for if you know what you want and the members here are really great about sharing information.
Answers. 1. not counting the first time.. i have booked 1 hr and have stayed for the full hour 2. the services are limited by what the SP offers and your cash supply. 3. Tipping is up to personal preference. 4. You can see my posts about Private Paradise (bad experience) Surrey Yuna/Jenny (good) and Swan Lake Yumi, Swan Lake Amy (AMP good experiences). figure out what you want and it's somewhere on this forum

 

[Forum mod]

moved to 411 this time. Please pay attention to where you are posting.

 

[WestCoaster19]

Like everything else in life, you'll get better with experience.

Try talking to SP's about a two shot rate. I find I'm more relaxed knowing I have a second shot coming up in a session.

 

[vset33]

Hello MP pros,
I am a relative newbie as far as using Asian massage parlor services go. The only time i visited a massage parlor, my $200 session lasted for just 5 mins. It basically went like this - I tell the girl that i am looking for FS. I then pay her the agreed upon rate. She then starts to give me a CBJ and I ejaculated 2 mins into the act. The girl then tells me that only one shot is allowed per session and so, the actual act didn't even happen. I was super-embarrassed with what happened and left the parlor quickly.

So, I was hoping for some of the pros here to sort of lay out the etiquette and the mode of operation for a newbie like me.

Some questions that cross my mind -
1. When you book a 30 mins or 1 hr long session, do you actually spend the length of the session, or is it like get into the act quickly and leave?
2. Are the services strictly limited to CBJ and FS, or can it be more GFE like experience with DFK, Body Slide, tea bagging allowed?
3. How much do you tip (as a percentage) after the session?
4. Will appreciate it even more if you can share any other info on what your typical massage parlor experiences consist of, so that folks like me can learn to do things the right way without embarrassing ourselves

P.S: I am sexually very inexperienced - almost a virgin, except for a two awkward instances of having sex. My inexperience may have contributed to my not reading between the lines when using the service. I am considering escort services, but am scared to move forward, considering how i messed up even the supposedly straightforward MP experience.

Thanks!

I m new too. I learn everything here, reading every threads... If you are Chinese or know the language, Four Seasons 5533 would be the best to start. They have all young ones there. Ask the lady who answer the phone which ones do FS. Also read all Four Seasons 5533 threads here. Talk to the SP that you want 2 shots before starting and agree to the price. Four Seasons is in Kingsway and pretty clean. I would do a 30 minutes session to start. Reach (a shop name ) is also very good. The ladies are all nice looking and most of them offer FS. Reach has 3 locations and places are clean and very nice. Expect to pay 250 for FS. I have tried Miya and Karssaga and both are honest and nice. And there are Asian Fever and Xiao-dimsum. Both shops have very nice ladies. The websites have all information. Read all the threads here on these 2 AMP's then you know which ladies to avoid. Then, there's the famous Swan Lakes in Richmond. I dare not to go there yet. It's fun to read all bro's adventures at that place. I would find a nice auntie to start myself.. but l mostly do HS now and have lots of fun..Have fun and hopefully meet you somewhere...

 

[GentlemanJack69]

I m new too. I learn everything here, reading every threads... If you are Chinese or know the language, Four Seasons 5533 would be the best to start. They have all young ones there. Ask the lady who answer the phone which ones do FS. Also read all Four Seasons 5533 threads here.

So Four Seasons is a no-go if you don't speak Chinese?

 

[Har-Don]

These guys have given you excellent advice.

I sometimes like the unknown and prefer to pay for the room fee upfront and wait to negotiate later. Go in, pay the room fee, take a solo shower and lay down face down on the table with your towel draped over your butt. They will almost always start with a massage and usually ask you about extras when you're about to flip over near the end of the session. Obviously it depends on the lady but I find the lady sometimes teases you more to get you more aroused if things haven't been negotiated before hand. But if you're going to do that you gotta make sure that you're thinking with the right head when you flip over. You can blow through a lot more money if you don't negotiate up front. .

As far as prices go... PERB is your friend. Most people include pricing in their reviews. Sometimes the followup comments from other people provide the most information so read the whole thread. Keep in mind almost all the ladies at AMPs will try to upsell you. Nothing wrong with that but just know that going in. If you prefer a session with a set rate you might want to try a SP or micro.

Good luck to you.

 

[white Ninja]

If you want half service go to a place famous for their half service .
If you want full service go to a place famous for their full service .

A good place or good provider will still honour your time and give you a massage after if you want . Time must include your shower time after though , ( 5- 10 min ) .

you simply got stuck w a provider who doesn’t prioritize customer experience , my guess is she doesn’t have many regulars as a result .

you will likely have to try a few ladies before you find one you really click with.

look up you preferences on perp if you have any such as age and race .

when your new stick w places that have good reviews and even try to stick w providers who have at least a couple good reviews .

2nd shot rare in MP’s but if it does happen it would have been negotiated before the start of the appointment.

if you excite easily don’t feel self conscious, many guys have the opposite issue as well.
stick w cbj’s then for sure instead of bbbj’s .

I personally don’t like providers to give me head until I’m nearing the end of my session . Reason being they are usually much more skilled at it then most ladies and I know its going to bring me close to finishing quick .

Next time if you wanna try a different approach you can try this ; take your time .

Don’t rush to take her clothes off, leave them on for a few minutes . Enjoy her beauty , her perfume , the beauty in her eyes. even her lovely hands , you might simply enjoy a little small talk w her at the beginning, Kiss her body , legs, stomach, back neck, kissing , lfk, dfk, sometimes I start by offering some massage to the provider as I quite enjoy massaging a beautiful women who is naked . You get the idea

I personally find 45 min is the magic number for me but either way I book 15 min more than what I think I need as I prefer to have too much time instead of not enough.

Good luck

 

[explorations500]

If you want half service go to a place famous for their half service .
If you want full service go to a place famous for their full service .

A good place or good provider will still honour your time and give you a massage after if you want . Time must include your shower time after though , ( 5- 10 min ) .

you simply got stuck w a provider who doesn’t prioritize customer experience , my guess is she doesn’t have many regulars as a result .

you will likely have to try a few ladies before you find one you really click with.

look up you preferences on perp if you have any such as age and race .

when your new stick w places that have good reviews and even try to stick w providers who have at least a couple good reviews .

2nd shot rare in MP’s but if it does happen it would have been negotiated before the start of the appointment.

if you excite easily don’t feel self conscious, many guys have the opposite issue as well.
stick w cbj’s then for sure instead of bbbj’s .

I personally don’t like providers to give me head until I’m nearing the end of my session . Reason being they are usually much more skilled at it then most ladies and I know its going to bring me close to finishing quick .

Next time if you wanna try a different approach you can try this ; take your time .

Don’t rush to take her clothes off, leave them on for a few minutes . Enjoy her beauty , her perfume , the beauty in her eyes. even her lovely hands , you might simply enjoy a little small talk w her at the beginning, Kiss her body , legs, stomach, back neck, kissing , lfk, dfk, sometimes I start by offering some massage to the provider as I quite enjoy massaging a beautiful women who is naked . You get the idea

I personally find 45 min is the magic number for me but either way I book 15 min more than what I think I need as I prefer to have too much time instead of not enough.

Good luck

Thank you for the comprehensive response. Lots of actionable inputs here. I am definitely someone who excites easily and feel very self-conscious of it.

 

[vset33]

So Four Seasons is a no-go if you don't speak Chinese?

No, English ok. The lady who pick up the phone understands English really well. I think she maybe the real owner.. just thinking.

 

[vset33]

3244 Vivi is the lady that seems to enjoy doing long slow hand jobs. She would literally do the whole session sitting between your legs. Amy at 4617 and Yoyo at smart spa in Richmond are the two nicest ladies I have met. There are many great providers. Just read the reviews and take another shot so to speak.

Amy 4617, where I can find her?

 

[explorations500]

3244 Vivi is the lady that seems to enjoy doing long slow hand jobs. She would literally do the whole session sitting between your legs. Amy at 4617 and Yoyo at smart spa in Richmond are the two nicest ladies I have met. There are many great providers. Just read the reviews and take another shot so to speak.

Thank you for the very useful references. I intend to give one of them a visit soon.

Also, I could be wrong but when I looked up 4617 on LL, I only see the names of Sasa, Lisa, and Mimi. Looks like 'Amy' might be going by the name of 'Mimi'?

 

[vset33]

Ask for Amy. She wears a geisha outfit. Monday and Friday I believe. Might be more days.

Oh, I remember that place. It's on 6th St.. S/B in New West but is a part of bby. All young Koreans, a strictly HS shop. Just Ms+he. Lots restrictions. Can't even touch. No extras... Can't cum with fully clothed lady. I told her to stop, get up & left. Remember the SP kinda laughs at me... Must be not Amy. Will try again and look for Amy.