Would you talk to people the same way you would even type or reply or attack someone online?
Yes, yes, and been there done that.....not with the SP scene, but from a community FB group that didn't like what I had to say. Then when the admins organized a live meet, the person I was arguing with confronted me, and ....well, it didn't work out so well with him... He left the meet, went home and left the FB group. Funny how it happened, but kind of sad too, because everyone saw how diplomatic I was being, he was just too insulated his digital space that he never realized the real world existed....People were more impressed with me standing by my convictions in the real world, than shy away just to please people.....
would you review the SP you just saw and tell her verbally everything you were going to write?
....and explain what to who?.....Big Bubba Pimp Daddy outside? Or the other half of her bipolar personality that will blow the rape whistle or pull a weapon on you, when you're pushing for services she is blatantly shorting you on what was agreed before? Maybe call the cops? Not much one can do if a provider gave bad service, despite what she was promising. Best to just leave it alone, take what she gives, leave and write about it later, instead of confronting her directly about it just to be safe.
I mean, being fair, if it was a top-shelf VIP professional girl, or someone you've frequently see now and then, and she's having an off-day, and you're wondering why you're not getting great service you're used to. It wouldn't hurt to imply a lack of quality.
..but more often than not, most of these encounters in this hobby are one-time events between individuals, meeting a stranger, not knowing who they are or where they're from, getting intimate, and never seeing them again. They don't have much to gain or lose once the money changes hands, other than maintaining a good reputation for repeat business for as long as they intend to stay in the trade.