Is it overkill to dress up in suit or sportscoat/dress trousers for a session?

Bridge

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I guess wet weather cycling gear doesn't really cut it, although it does have a bit of the "Scott of the Antarctic" appeal!!
 

Jethro Bodine

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Date night with the wife clothes you haven't worn for a couple years. Now you want to wear them to visit an SP or three. You'll probably look good in a pine box in a plum color not your typical work/business suit. There'll be some overkill, like your wife having you resuscitated so she can do you in all over again...:ROFLMAO:
Gotta agree. Unless you are planning on changing into your suit in a parking lot once you've left the house, how the hell do you explain to your wife that you're wearing your "date night" suit to go visit your sick uncle in the hospital or whatever other excuse you come up with, while leaving her alone that evening?
Cheers
J
PS: Wear whatever you like. SP's could care less. It's more important to be on time, behave like a gentleman, be respectful, give them a great orgasm and bring the appropriate donation.
 
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uncleg

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Gotta agree. Unless you are planning on changing into your suit in a parking lot once you've left the house, how the hell do you explain to your wife that you're wearing your "date night" suit to go visit your sick uncle in the hospital or whatever other excuse you come up with, while leaving her alone that evening?
Cheers
J
PS: Wear whatever you like. SP's could care less. It's more important to be on time, behave like a gentleman, be respectful, give them a great orgasm and bring the appropriate donation.
...and here I thought they were supposed to give me one....I been doing this all wrong.:oops::oops:
 

PuntMeister

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Gotta agree. Unless you are planning on changing into your suit in a parking lot once you've left the house, how the hell do you explain to your wife that you're wearing your "date night" suit to go visit your sick uncle in the hospital or whatever other excuse you come up with, while leaving her alone that evening?
Cheers
J
PS: Wear whatever you like. SP's could care less. It's more important to be on time, behave like a gentleman, be respectful, give them a great orgasm and bring the appropriate donation.
The SP Doth Care!

I wear my James Bond suit and strut confidently, it’s 97% chance of a serious thru-the-zipper epic BJ. And the prolonged assertive dis-robing and energetic CFM sex is even better. Oh-ya, dress to impress works both ways baby!

I show up in sweat pants and a stinky tee, my mileage just went metric.

Sexy is as sexy does. Dress with intention. Soft ‘OMG’ leads to really good things IMHE. (E=Experience in case you’re a typo douche nazi).

-Punt.
 

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Gotta agree. Unless you are planning on changing into your suit in a parking lot once you've left the house, how the hell do you explain to your wife that you're wearing your "date night" suit to go visit your sick uncle in the hospital or whatever other excuse you come up with, while leaving her alone that evening?
Cheers
J
PS: Wear whatever you like. SP's could care less. It's more important to be on time, behave like a gentleman, be respectful, give them a great orgasm and bring the appropriate donation.
As I mentioned earlier, I partake in this hobby with my wife's permission :)
 

Jethro Bodine

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The SP Doth Care!

I wear my James Bond suit and strut confidently, it’s 97% chance of a serious thru-the-zipper epic BJ. And the prolonged assertive dis-robing and energetic CFM sex is even better. Oh-ya, dress to impress works both ways baby!

I show up in sweat pants and a stinky tee, my mileage just went metric.

Sexy is as sexy does. Dress with intention. Soft ‘OMG’ leads to really good things IMHE. (E=Experience in case you’re a typo douche nazi).

-Punt.
I'm not saying you show up in a ratty pair of cut off jeans and a mustard stained, torn t-shirt but there are certain things that are more important to an SP whether you show up in a tailored suit or not.
Cheers
J
 
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beavereric

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When I was working DT in a professional office, I would go after work and in my office attire. Now that I am no longer going into the office, it has become rather difficult to avoid suspicion to dress up to go to Wallmart or Canadian Tire. Or whatever excuse one would use.
Have not notice any change in service.
 

Chuckerbie

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Ya I owned a suit once. Got married in it and also to the ten year grad reunion.
Blue collar working class all my life.
Jeans and a tee.
So if I was a professional it might be a different story. I am sure most providers would love to have you show up in a suit and tie. It usually says you got money and let’s face it that is truly what they are after.
If I was looking for eye candy for my well dressed arm to take out on the town I could see wearing your best clothes.
I show up very clean and well groomed. I am not lonely. I am surrounded by woman in my life. I am sure that most of us do care about their providers but really all we want is an hour or two of great sex.
But of course this is only my humble opinion.
 

SolidSnake

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Don't judge a book by its cover, especially when the cover is meant to be taken off right away in a session. It's not a social call, or at least it's not supposed to be. Many people forget that. If you want to dress up, go out and do it with your SO. At least you wear those clothes for longer, they won't eat into precious time and appreciation is guaranteed.
 

Mr. J

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I usually have a special suit jacket on hand for meetings. It belonged to my grandfather, and it's been a pretty big hit with a few of the ladies I see.
 

islander1-1

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Not to sure about the rest of you guys… practically every SP I have had the pleasure of meeting… practically all have a special outfit, silk robe, boustier, or a fancy lingerie set, to impress me. To be frank, I am not impressed with some of them. I would be the happiest if they just wore a nice bathrobe or satin kimono top only, nothing else. That being said I can only guess from this maybe they prefer their gents to wear something really nice,a little dressed up for a special moment. I will have to try this next time to see one of my faves. I wonder how she will respond.
 

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I normally wear nice jeans/chinos and a button up shirt to my sessions. Wondering if it would be overkill to show up in a suit or sportscoat/dress trousers? I've amassed a collection of tailored clothing that I used to wear on date nights with the wife, but now that we have a kid (and another on the way) and with covid, I haven't been able to wear them in a couple of years and wouldn't mind the opportunity to dress up again. For the suits, it's not your typical work/business suit, have a few made of interesting fabrics/patterns/colors (e.g. fresco wool, donegal tweed, check patterns, plum color, etc.). Would like to hear from the ladies if you enjoy having us dress up, or would it be kind of weird?
I tend to wear clothes I am not very fond of. The majority of SP's have absolutely nowhere to hang your garments. It truly sucks if you have a nice jacket or cardigan and simply have to throw it on the pile in the corner.
Geez...get a coat rack or go to Home Hardware, spend a buck fifty and get a couple hangers :mad::mad:
 
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