How many visits with an SP before you move on?
Getting back to the original title of the thread, where the number of times cited as one reason a client may not want to continue to see a provider, other reasons include stepping outside the boundaries of the fantasy that was paid for, something Charlee astutely points out.
Stepping outside of the prescribed fantasy results in overhead that may or may not be welcome. So, what you are NOT definitely NOT paying for starts to creep into the picture. Examples include:
- A provider's kid pops out of a room she was told to stay quiet in, instead asks mommy for a glass of water. Oops.
- Fake ooh's and aah's, exaggerated complements and pretend awe at the massive size of your member. (LOL) A red flag for girls that have few regulars and this is their inexperienced attempt to improve client retention
- Getting a look-see of a provider out in the real world, for example, losing her shit at a grocery store checker.
- Yet another example that serves to toast the fantasy when reality intrudes might be a provider losing her shit on twitter for all to see.
- Inviting a provider to your home, and some things go missing. Oops. Sticky fingers.
- Other bridge-burning activities include unauthorized self-tipping. Those are moments of weakness a girl chooses to sacrifice repeat business.
Renting the privilege of driving in a Bugatti is great for photo-ops and a lifetime memory for one of modest means, but the price of admission does NOT later include a duty to pay for a typical $20,000 oil change. That is an example of undesirable overhead.
Seeing providers equates to dining on that fabulous chicken or steak in a fancy restaurant. When confronted directly with the explicit details of the path that that food arrived on your plate and the cigar-smoking chef in the kitchen you don't see, that alters the memory of that experience one can't unsee. Many people are vegans for that reason because they are empaths that choose not to filter out unpleasantries.
In my case, most of my ongoing regulars get that way not because of a fantasy they are fulfilling or selling, it is *because* of their flaws and how they dealt (or are dealing) with various issues, combined with the fact the sex is the same or it continues improving. The best providers intuitively and instantly understand their client's unstated needs and adapt and mould themselves, chameleon-like, to appropriately mesh with those needs. In my experience, higher prices are more reflective of the provider's marketing skill and social media acumen as opposed to their real-world persona. Or, "a sucker is born every day". Hence, the high value of reviews to be viewed by the would-be suckers.
In many cases, providers have successfully elevated themselves into a higher price bracket, but if their veneer cracks, that can result in them losing clients. Worst-case scenarios I've seen they fall into a depression and withdrawal and go right back to whence they came. Too bad and so sad, but clients don't care because the "don't care" part of the price.
