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How do you take it when a woman would rather be single than try a date with you?

BallzDeep

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So why are you here?
its an answer that goes around in circles im afraid. i dont understand the concept personally of joining a hooker review board to discuss everything and anything but pooning but maybe thats just me. there are countless other boards to talk politics/gambling/hockey/etc why this one?? i find it kind of strange.
 

BallzDeep

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You find it strange do you? Guess we could go round and round on that one ;)

I think JJ put it best, even though you didn't seem too enamoured with the response. Tough luck! :nod:
5300 posts on a hooker review board in 2.5 years and not a single comment in edgewise on even a single review or lady. if you cant figure out whats wrong with the picture, youre beyond help. :nod:
 

Pirate Code2

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What a lot of guys fail to understand is that women don't NEED men nowadays. I repeat: WOMEN DON'T NEED MEN NOWADAYS. Let that reality sink in.

Yet a lot of guys will continue to beat themselves up over something they have no control over. The smart ones who weren't blessed with model tier facial aesthetics will check out of the dating market altogether and just see sp's.
This is the closest post I've seen that considers the fact that, believe it or not, there are actually women who DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP, NO MATTER WHO WANTS THEM. Just like the men who don't want relationships!!!
The only difference is women don't need men to get their sexual needs met... toys can be much more effective, and she might just not want anyone to clean up after.

I, on the other hand eventually got bored of life just being about me. She may change her mind and decide to date again or she may not. Maybe it's about you and maybe it's not...

The answer is still NO. So move on!
 
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BallzDeep

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It takes a village to raise a pooner and we want you to be well rounded and knowledgeable on a variety of subjects besides sex when we're done with you. :nod:
and every village has its idiot as they say. your time would be better spent training that one to post/contribute in ways other than nods and burps and farts in the lounge. :)
 

Tugela

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Why because she might like you as a friend or even more horrific She isn't attracted to you in that way. For whatever reason she never ever wants to knock boots with you.

Find someone else this one has no interest in you. That's easy to understand.
No it is not, because it is incomprehensible that women don't swoon when he looks at them.
 

sevenofnine

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You know
Its pretty simply.
Improve you and you will have better relationships.

Stop blaming the world for your problems and issues.

Change the way you think, and have the right attitude and your world will change with it.
Your life is not some one elses fault, its your own.
 

D12

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So tell me Einstein, how do they know you are cheap if you never even take them on a date? Is it because they see the label in your suit is Harry Rosen J.P. Tilford instead of Brioni? Is it because they see you drinking Tim Horton's instead of Starbucks? Or maybe because you drive a Cadillac instead of a BMW?
Just saying I would rather drive a Cadillac over a BMW
 

kauffman

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Something one can never pinpoint
A woman I know after working with her for a few months dumps her common law when she finds out he's cheating. We work together when I visit and get along well, and she says she likes working with me when I work overtime at her location. I give her a few months to "recover" and ask her out on a date. She says she's learned not to date at work. Another month passes and she starts dating another coworker in her office.
Im gonna take a wild stab in the dark and guess that she was tryinbg to not hurt your feelings by saying she learned not to date at work because she didnt want to date YOU. If anyone met someone they were interested in im sure that old rules would not apply. Just because something didnt work in the past doesnt mwean it wont work with a different person at another time. When someone falls for someone for real generally "rules" are not what governs our choices. Over time when learning occurs people's rules change to accomodate new information. If we all chose a set of rules and rigidly adhered to them then how would we be open to new experiences? You are just feeling hurt or jealous im guessing because she has found someone she's interested in enough to bend the rules where she wasnt willing to for you.
 

kauffman

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Something one can never pinpoint
you dont have to be in a relationship for life to not be just about you. Ever heard of meaningful work? Volunteering? raising children? charitable causes? causual dating? There are many different things about life that make it about more than oneself. That's a pretty strange statement in my opinion. Are you seriously expressing that a person that doesnt want a relationship or chooses to be single lives a selfish existence?
 

kauffman

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Something one can never pinpoint
exactly.
so, maybe your feelings are hurt a little. trust me, you'll get better.
on the other hand, if she wastes your time, you'll never get it back.
Time is never wasted if you are making conscious choices and engaging in new experiences. We learn from everything especially failures. If noneof our time was ever "wasted according to this way of looking at things then we'd all get what we wanted on the first try and live a perfect existence. Learn grow and enjoy the time you spend with anyone. They are choosing to spend their time with you as well. It's a gift both ways if you spend your time appreciating things about one another and taking a chance. lighten up
 

kauffman

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Something one can never pinpoint
you don't know already that women often try to be gentle, and will often use any kind of excuse rather than just straight out telling the guy that he is not even close to what they would ever be interested in romantically
EXACTLY. Women are taught to be polite and consider other's feeling while men tend to be more straigh forward. This is why there is so much confusion. Direct women are often called "bitches" and indirect women are accused of being misleading or leading someone on. Either way it's funny that the blame is always on something the woman is "doing" to wrong the man
 

kauffman

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Something one can never pinpoint
Come on big guy, don't worry, move on. There are a ton of other women out there. You don't need that shit in your life. Find another. You sould like you are doing the right things in life. You got your priorities in line. Her lose your gain.

Find a good SP. Or hell yea find 3 SPs and do an elimidate event. It works for me.

Now I know why I gave up on the dating shit long ago.
You know I honestly feel sorry for men., It must suck to be male. One thing i know women dont need to do is ever think about how to get laid. There are few women in the world that couldnt go get laid at almost anytime anywhere by someone. WOmen rarely get turned down. And when they do im pretty sure it's like a volcano erupted. I may scoff at men someotimes for what seems like ridiculous stretegizing but then ive never had to think about it. SO glad to not be male.
 
Oh please Peaceguy. Just brcause some of choose the hobby over dating does not mean we are sick. Some of us just donot want to go thought that shit to find out there is no happy ever after.

Fuck as many SPs you want find a few you can live out fantasies with. If I want to feel loved and married I will hire a SP to be my wife for the weekend. If I want to make out with the hot chick in my office. I hire a SP to be my personal assistant and ass fucker until she can not take it any more. That is the beauty of the hobby you can live out your fantasies with out the shit that comes with it. Life is too short for rejection and the drama.

What the fuck do I know.... I just live my life the way I live my life.

Well said Dickson. Totally agree with you. It took me awhile to figure that there probably won't be a happily ever after.
Life IS too short to be playing games. Why stress yourself out and feeling miserable with dreams of finding the perfect mate? If it happens then it happens.
 
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