How do you take it when a woman would rather be single than try a date with you?
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It means you are cheap. You are looking for free sex and they are looking for love and see you are not being honest. Most woman do not care about looks, but sincerity. But they have to weed out the losers and will see again those who treat then as persons rather than sex objects, or who belittle them or think they are stupid (even if they are) They seek persons who show sincerity and numbe rone proof of sincerity is by spendining money or time on them and laughing at their stories.
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Are you kidding? What possible reason do you have to expect that every woman in the world would be attracted to you? You seriously think that the only good reason a woman wouldn't want to be with you is because some guy got there before you? You need to adjust your sense of reality you're drowning in a vortex of narcissism.I can handle it easily when I ask a woman out and she says she's in a relationship, but I find it hard to take when I find out they're single and still say no.
So tell me Einstein, how do they know you are cheap if you never even take them on a date? Is it because they see the label in your suit is Harry Rosen J.P. Tilford instead of Brioni? Is it because they see you drinking Tim Horton's instead of Starbucks? Or maybe because you drive a Cadillac instead of a BMW?It means you are cheap. You are looking for free sex and they are looking for love and see you are not being honest. Most woman do not care about looks, but sincerity. But they have to weed out the losers and will see again those who treat then as persons rather than sex objects, or who belittle them or think they are stupid (even if they are) They seek persons who show sincerity and numbe rone proof of sincerity is by spendining money or time on them and laughing at their stories.
I reserve comment, just not enough info.
Why not tell us the whole story? I'll go get a case of beer and a bag of popcorn.
Why not tell us the whole story? I'll go get a case of beer and a bag of popcorn.
Flip it around, would you honestly go out with any woman who showed interest just because you're single?I can handle it easily when I ask a woman out and she says she's in a relationship, but I find it hard to take when I find out they're single and still say no.
A woman I know after working with her for a few months dumps her common law when she finds out he's cheating. We work together when I visit and get along well, and she says she likes working with me when I work overtime at her location. I give her a few months to "recover" and ask her out on a date. She says she's learned not to date at work. Another month passes and she starts dating another coworker in her office.I reserve comment, just not enough info.
Why not tell us the whole story? I'll go get a case of beer and a bag of popcorn.
Regular drip is .50 cents more at Starbucks, so it's not the label. A fuergel man is a sexy one. Pick what is important to you and what will enhance your life. If you need designer suits for work, or if you see long term value because you wear them everyday and the less expensive ones wear out faster, have at it but if it's to show off a shell that isn't real, we girls can smell that. If you live credit card max'd out or pay cheque to pay cheque. Security is knowing you have a roof over your head, food in your belly and wheels under your ass, the labels are just sugar coating. Timmy's has great sandwiches, but so does Ruth Chris.So tell me Einstein, how do they know you are cheap if you never even take them on a date? Is it because they see the label in your suit is Harry Rosen J.P. Tilford instead of Brioni? Is it because they see you drinking Tim Horton's instead of Starbucks? Or maybe because you drive a Cadillac instead of a BMW?
So she doesnt like you in that way, gave you a reasonable excuse to let you down easy, and fucked up the excuse because she actually found someone she does like...A woman I know after working with her for a few months dumps her common law when she finds out he's cheating. We work together when I visit and get along well, and she says she likes working with me when I work overtime at her location. I give her a few months to "recover" and ask her out on a date. She says she's learned not to date at work. Another month passes and she starts dating another coworker in her office.
Thats life, find someone else.
Beat me to it...you don't know already that women often try to be gentle, and will often use any kind of excuse rather than just straight out telling the guy that he is not even close to what they would ever be interested in romantically
I live within my means. I try and save money and do things myself when I can. I shop at Harry Rosen, but just buy the J.P. Tilford house label because I can't justify the $500 + difference for a Canali or Zegna suit. I buy shoes in the U.S. because they can be $100 cheaper there for the exact same pair of shoes. I bring my lunch to work because it saves money and allows me to count my calories better.Regular drip is .50 cents more at Starbucks, so it's not the label. A fuergel man is a sexy one. Pick what is important to you and what will enhance your life. If you need designer suits for work, or if you see long term value because you wear them everyday and the less expensive ones wear out faster, have at it but if it's to show off a shell that isn't real, we girls can smell that. If you live credit card max'd out or pay cheque to pay cheque. Security is knowing you have a roof over your head, food in your belly and wheels under your ass, the labels are just sugar coating. Timmy's has great sandwiches, but so does Ruth Chris.
I try not to buy things until I've met my savings goal and avoid impulse purchases.
Does a baseball player walk away after strike 1 ? Take a step back and reassess the situation.A woman I know after working with her for a few months dumps her common law when she finds out he's cheating. We work together when I visit and get along well, and she says she likes working with me when I work overtime at her location. I give her a few months to "recover" and ask her out on a date. She says she's learned not to date at work. Another month passes and she starts dating another coworker in her office.
If you feel that strongly for her, try again. But most of all be honest and give her time and space.
She will know that you really care (if you are sincere), if its meant to be, she will come to you.
The Basics of Attracting a Woman. (Attraction is not a choice, you push the right buttons the right way and most of the time she can't help herself)
The Foundations of Attraction
She has to get the impression you are healthy (in good shape, virile), have good social intuition/intelligence, have a good sense of humor and are emotionally healthy.
The Attributes of Attraction
She must get the impression you have some Status, somewhere (at work, in the community, but especially your social circle), and that you are doing reasonably well financially. You should have a cool lifestyle (clothes, car, residence, hairstyle), project a strong masculine identity, show her other men respect you and are willing to let you be the leader, be a successful risk taker and be passionate about whatever your life's purpose is.
You must be challenging to her, show confidence, and it really helps if she gets the impression other women like you, or want you (and not your mother or sister!).
...YET YOU ARE STILL NOT THERE. She's just attracted, now you have to make it stick. You have to make her want to chase you!
Qualification
Get her to qualify herself to you. She'll need your subtle help on this, but you have to get her to answer questions or make statements to you so that she asserts the NON-sexual things that make her a desirable person for a man to want to get to know her better. She has to get the impression you will walk away if she doesn't prove herself to you, and she won't want this if she has invested her time and energy proving herself to you.
...NOW you're ready to arrange a date.
The Foundations of Attraction
She has to get the impression you are healthy (in good shape, virile), have good social intuition/intelligence, have a good sense of humor and are emotionally healthy.
The Attributes of Attraction
She must get the impression you have some Status, somewhere (at work, in the community, but especially your social circle), and that you are doing reasonably well financially. You should have a cool lifestyle (clothes, car, residence, hairstyle), project a strong masculine identity, show her other men respect you and are willing to let you be the leader, be a successful risk taker and be passionate about whatever your life's purpose is.
You must be challenging to her, show confidence, and it really helps if she gets the impression other women like you, or want you (and not your mother or sister!).
...YET YOU ARE STILL NOT THERE. She's just attracted, now you have to make it stick. You have to make her want to chase you!
Qualification
Get her to qualify herself to you. She'll need your subtle help on this, but you have to get her to answer questions or make statements to you so that she asserts the NON-sexual things that make her a desirable person for a man to want to get to know her better. She has to get the impression you will walk away if she doesn't prove herself to you, and she won't want this if she has invested her time and energy proving herself to you.
...NOW you're ready to arrange a date.
Women chose the man
We have very little to say about it
They know when we are interested. they cant help but notice
But your only going to get a date if they are interested in you .You have to know how to see tbose sign
Any thing else your just buying some one company if you think your .fine cloth ... fancy car good job and house will get you the girl. It will but only as long as they dont see the right guy
We have very little to say about it
They know when we are interested. they cant help but notice
But your only going to get a date if they are interested in you .You have to know how to see tbose sign
Any thing else your just buying some one company if you think your .fine cloth ... fancy car good job and house will get you the girl. It will but only as long as they dont see the right guy
dating isnt about being fair and sometimes things are said to try to make you feel better. perhaps she just likes him better. It happensgood post, there are a lot of people out there with a very twisted perspective of reality, unfortunately
The Basics of Attracting a Woman. (Attraction is not a choice, you push the right buttons the right way and most of the time she can't help herself)
The Foundations of Attraction
She has to get the impression you are healthy (in good shape, virile), have good social intuition/intelligence, have a good sense of humor and are emotionally healthy.
The Attributes of Attraction
She must get the impression you have some Status, somewhere (at work, in the community, but especially your social circle), and that you are doing reasonably well financially. You should have a cool lifestyle (clothes, car, residence, hairstyle), project a strong masculine identity, show her other men respect you and are willing to let you be the leader, be a successful risk taker and be passionate about whatever your life's purpose is.
You must be challenging to her, show confidence, and it really helps if she gets the impression other women like you, or want you (and not your mother or sister!).
...YET YOU ARE STILL NOT THERE. She's just attracted, now you have to make it stick. You have to make her want to chase you!
Qualification
Get her to qualify herself to you. She'll need your subtle help on this, but you have to get her to answer questions or make statements to you so that she asserts the NON-sexual things that make her a desirable person for a man to want to get to know her better. She has to get the impression you will walk away if she doesn't prove herself to you, and she won't want this if she has invested her time and energy proving herself to you.
...NOW you're ready to arrange a date.
i,m always amazed that men think true love can be attained by strategy. WHat about finding a woman that is right for you? Love doesnty require strategy but wining a woman for all the wrong reasons does and you'd better anticipate that if love comes along, she'll chase that. And maybe behind your back!
Who said anything about "true love"? Who said "about finding a woman that is right for you" Not me. Not the OP. This is just to get a date.i,m always amazed that men think true love can be attained by strategy. WHat about finding a woman that is right for you? Love doesnty require strategy but wining a woman for all the wrong reasons does and you'd better anticipate that if love comes along, she'll chase that. And maybe behind your back!
Well, at least I get laid.Oh, vay, how delusional can you get. No wonder you guys have to pay to get laid. The ego of some men. Ay carumba!
Filmgeek, the rite of passage on the board is to TOFTT then post a review. And how many reviews have you published? Let me see...there it is....ZERO. Until then, you are just another gadfly who can't get it up anymore with a computer keyboard and too much time on his hands.
Pop a blue pill, whip that 59 yo cock of yours into a frenzy, TOFTT, then post a review. A decent one. If you need examples, just punch in my handle into "user name" on advanced search and watch 50 or so reviews pop up. And those are just the review threads I have started.
Come on, TOFTT AND POST A REVIEW!
What I do is congradulate myself for trying, convince myself it's her loss, come on here to see what the latest flavour is & jump on that.... But that's me, I'm a poonerI can handle it easily when I ask a woman out and she says she's in a relationship, but I find it hard to take when I find out they're single and still say no.
Come on big guy, don't worry, move on. There are a ton of other women out there. You don't need that shit in your life. Find another. You sould like you are doing the right things in life. You got your priorities in line. Her lose your gain.I live within my means. I try and save money and do things myself when I can. I shop at Harry Rosen, but just buy the J.P. Tilford house label because I can't justify the $500 + difference for a Canali or Zegna suit. I buy shoes in the U.S. because they can be $100 cheaper there for the exact same pair of shoes. I bring my lunch to work because it saves money and allows me to count my calories better.
I try not to buy things until I've met my savings goal and avoid impulse purchases.
Find a good SP. Or hell yea find 3 SPs and do an elimidate event. It works for me.
Now I know why I gave up on the dating shit long ago.
Oh please Peaceguy. Just brcause some of choose the hobby over dating does not mean we are sick. Some of us just donot want to go thought that shit to find out there is no happy ever after.A lot of delusional points of view on display here. Which of the many candidates will be the next one in the papers with a freezer full of body parts??
To the OP. my sympathies (though limited), but for the rest of us it is better they choose to not date you & remain single than to date you & subsequently choose lesbianism.
Fuck as many SPs you want find a few you can live out fantasies with. If I want to feel loved and married I will hire a SP to be my wife for the weekend. If I want to make out with the hot chick in my office. I hire a SP to be my personal assistant and ass fucker until she can not take it any more. That is the beauty of the hobby you can live out your fantasies with out the shit that comes with it. Life is too short for rejection and the drama.
What the fuck do I know.... I just live my life the way I live my life.
