Oh Master I am sorry to say it has never worked for me. It is a nice idea but no real success with that plan of attack. I just get the wrong women interested in one thing and that is the money and power. Not the kind of women you really want in your life. But that is just my experience.
How do you take it when a woman would rather be single than try a date with you?
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What a lot of guys fail to understand is that women don't NEED men nowadays. I repeat: WOMEN DON'T NEED MEN NOWADAYS. Let that reality sink in.
Yet a lot of guys will continue to beat themselves up over something they have no control over. The smart ones who weren't blessed with model tier facial aesthetics will check out of the dating market altogether and just see sp's.
Yet a lot of guys will continue to beat themselves up over something they have no control over. The smart ones who weren't blessed with model tier facial aesthetics will check out of the dating market altogether and just see sp's.
The best thing to do is just keep it bottled up inside, push it down into your gut where it can ferment. Think of all the reasons why she wouldn't want to be with you. It might be hard to to find reasons so you better write them down if you think of some, make a list. Tell yourself that there must be something wrong with her.
Also start a scrapbook, include pics of her and include newspaper articles if they exist. Drive by her house and have smoke a cigarette while watching. Thats what I do, seems to work.
Oh and make sure you don't tell anyone, people are crazy, they might not get it.
She is just not into you.
Move on, try someone else and respect what she has already told you or it will become an uncomfortable work situation.
Works for me. But this abbreviated social algorithm just maximizes the chances of getting to a date, making the hit so a guy can run to first base. Kissing, make-out, seduction are past this.
But it does have early qualification built-in, finding out if she could be trouble, is she compatible, any early warnings to tell a guy to walk away, and so on.
If he can, a guy should add light appropriate friendly and social touching (high 5s, touch the back of the elbow, gently "accidently" brush up against her, a handshake), esp on high-notes (she's laughing at your jokes) but nothing that might be interpreted as creepy (esp in a work situation). Just innocent stuff. Women like to be touched, but it has to be a natural measured progression over time.
The strongest sentiment on this thread among posters is to not get hung up on her; there are other fish in the sea. I certainly agree with that. I came at the OP's query as asking what he might be doing wrong. Another guy succeeded where he feels he failed. Most likely, as implied by many here, the luck of circumstances. But there are ways of improving one's odds.
So, basically what you are saying is that you are a predator.Works for me. But this abbreviated social algorithm just maximizes the chances of getting to a date, making the hit so a guy can run to first base. Kissing, make-out, seduction are past this.
But it does have early qualification built-in, finding out if she could be trouble, is she compatible, any early warnings to tell a guy to walk away, and so on.
If he can, a guy should add light appropriate friendly and social touching (high 5s, touch the back of the elbow, gently "accidently" brush up against her, a handshake), esp on high-notes (she's laughing at your jokes) but nothing that might be interpreted as creepy (esp in a work situation). Just innocent stuff. Women like to be touched, but it has to be a natural measured progression over time.
The strongest sentiment on this thread among posters is to not get hung up on her; there are other fish in the sea. I certainly agree with that. I came at the OP's query as asking what he might be doing wrong. Another guy succeeded where he feels he failed. Most likely, as implied by many here, the luck of circumstances. But there are ways of improving one's odds.
Um, ok....
How do these girls react when they find out who you really are? That should make for some entertainment for a fly on the wall!! :nod:
yeah, instead of her being honest and not wanting to date you.....would you prefer she be dishonest, let you take her out numerous times, string you along....and dump you after 10 unproductive dates? She was trying to save you some effort and grief....
exactly.
so, maybe your feelings are hurt a little. trust me, you'll get better.
on the other hand, if she wastes your time, you'll never get it back.
while i think the juvenile PUA shit is a farce, i understand his point. i dont really understand people such as yourself (though there are better examples like HunkaBurninLuv with 5500+ posts and ZERO reviews let alone a 411 post) that come here to wax passionate on an escort review board and contribute little to nothing of any notable substance besides their own self absorbed opinions.
did the chess club kick you out so now youre here?
that was jaw-droppingly poignant of you sevenofnine, I often feel the same when I read the new posts lately
not a lot of people bother putting the internet equivalent of their best foot forward on the board any more
