AMG’s post was good. I am not good at control yet but I once had fun playing with a tantrica in Chicago who gave me some info
avoid fapping in the way most men do: to bust a nut asap. We essentially train ourselves over and over to drag race… no wonder we don’t last.
when you jerk off, get better at knowing your arousal between 1 and 10 (point of no return). Don’t get too close to 10. Get better at being aware of where you are. Ramp up and down. Get familiar with what 7 feels like, 8, 9…
Need to try to stay 6-7 at first during intercourse unless you get really good at control. Easy to go from 8 to 10 in 2 seconds and you canreact.
play with a tantrika who can teach you the breathing and energy management techniques. It’s fun btw, highly recommended and I wish we had a good practitioner where I live
get good at kegals, BOTH the tightening and relaxing step. The relaxing combined with breathing is necessary to help redistribute the tension that will lead to busting.
I’d like to dedicate some practice towards being multi-orgasmic without ejaculation but have a long way to go 😂
avoid fapping in the way most men do: to bust a nut asap. We essentially train ourselves over and over to drag race… no wonder we don’t last.
when you jerk off, get better at knowing your arousal between 1 and 10 (point of no return). Don’t get too close to 10. Get better at being aware of where you are. Ramp up and down. Get familiar with what 7 feels like, 8, 9…
Need to try to stay 6-7 at first during intercourse unless you get really good at control. Easy to go from 8 to 10 in 2 seconds and you canreact.
play with a tantrika who can teach you the breathing and energy management techniques. It’s fun btw, highly recommended and I wish we had a good practitioner where I live
get good at kegals, BOTH the tightening and relaxing step. The relaxing combined with breathing is necessary to help redistribute the tension that will lead to busting.
I’d like to dedicate some practice towards being multi-orgasmic without ejaculation but have a long way to go 😂
