happily married

[morementum]

Everyone is different and I don't judge but for me I cannot see paying an escort for sex if I was married. Marry the person you want to be with at dinner and in bed and if you are not happy then leave but don't stay married if you are not happy in a part of it. Just for me anyway. Same when with girlfriend when I have I don't even consider seeing escort.

 

[Slapshot1]

It's really quite interesting to hear the different opinions of people regarding marriage and seeing SPs. For myself, 20 years, kids, pets, mortgage, toys, career, so on and so forth. Overall I would have to say that it's been what some would see as a "happy" marriage. Of course nothing is ever perfect as there have been ups and downs like anyone else. There had been periods of time over the years where we would go six months without having sex. Funny thing though, it wasn't until last year when I saw my first SP. Loneliness, lack of love and sex, a desire for variety? I've ruled them out. I have a loving family and the respect and support of countless friends and continually meet new ones through my volunteer work as a coach in a number of sports. I have seen my SP three times on business and a couple of times off the clock for a visit as she travels with her day job and frequents my city once a month or so. She is very understanding that considering my hectic schedule and staggering expenses that not every time she comes here will be a transaction and yet, she continues to communicate with me on a regular basis. As hindsight is always 20/20, I feel what drove me to seeking out the services of an SP, was to throw a wrench into my "ground hog day". Do something that is a little risky to break up my day in and day out same ol same ol. I didn't expect to form a relationship that one day may end. Do I love my wife? You bet. Do I love the SP? No, but I do have a level of respect and admiration for her that is very high. Where do I go from here? I'm not sure, but I do know this, if tomorrow and the next day and the day after that are just like today, I may need another break from my ground hog day

 

[newatit]

Many of us could tell the original story that started this thread. I have been married a long time, and had various SP only relationships through the term. They kept me married at times when my wife was in moods that meant no sex sometimes for weeks or months. And they told me to stay with my wife, that what was out there wasn't worth it, to make the change.

And to this day, it is still all true. Haven't had sex with wife for 12 years but we still live together and get along.