Guys, seriously. Porn is not real life

[204fun]

When I first got into seeing SP's I'll admit that a lot of my motivation was to live out some fantasies of wild sex related to the things seen in porn. What became interesting was I found that almost anytime I booked a PSE style session I ended up enjoying it less than the good GFE sessions I had experienced with other providers. The main reason for this was I realized that I didn't have the stamina or sexual prowess to bang like a porn star and that while the thrill or some of the things we may have been doing was fun, the sex overall wasn't nearly as enjoyable.

In the end, true hardcore porn is entertainment and meant to provide a thrill, but not necessarily be a road map or a "how to" on what sex should look like on a regular basis.

With all of that being said, I still love the few times a year where a few of my favorite ladies allow me to indulge in a true COF finish, which is a fantasy that was fully conditioned into me through viewing porn and is only acted on with full consent from both parties.

 

[SuggestiveTitle]

I hate when I'm asked to be the step mom or daughter to a client, wtf no way dude.

I have a daddy tattoo on my thigh, that's because my irl partner i call daddy and he is a real dilf not because I want to do dad&daughter sex. Yucky 🤢 🤮

The 'step-sibling/parent' scenarios are a click-bait phenomenon that must be getting views or it wouldn't be so prevalent. Group, swapping, and anal sex were the taboos of porn in the past, and so I expect the new 'incest' taboo is here to stay as well. It has definitely limited what I'd click on to watch, and often just scanning titles can kill off the mood entirely.

But I don't need to understand it. People like what they like and this is one of the things that come bundled into our free society. However, I am concerned for future generations as the lines between informed consent and predatory abuse become blurred by this particular 'fantasy' format.

I want to add that, as someone who is currently combating a 30 yr porn addiction by investing in real experiences with talented angels in the SP realm, I deeply appreciate the rare providers such as yourself who deploy positive, fun, sexual energy while being understanding and supportive of the range of challenges men face in the management of their sexuality when there is so much misguidance.

Carry on.

 

[SuggestiveTitle]

I think for some, perhaps many/, seeing escorts can have some of the same reality altering influences presented for porn.

I'll test this theory by offering a Tinder date $300 to 'finish the night on a positive note.'

 

[steverino]

Make it $400.

 

[rlock]

Guys, as a whole group, you/we have got to stop comparing the real world to porn. It's fucked your heads up and created a ton of completely unrealistic expectations. The ladies in those videos are ACTING. Very few, if any, women want to be fucked like that in the real world. It's not about pleasure, it's about camera angles and looking good in frame. ...

I agree. Porn has its uses, and some good fantasies to be had at times, but there are also a lot of stupid things going on there too. And the worst thing is, the stupidest things seem to come and go in trends that make no sense.
Of course some things are hotter inside your head than in real life.

I'm just going to put this out there: it's not just on the client side. I've had sessions where the SW was clearly educated by porn, trying to imitate certain styles/techniques that might be trendy online, but do nothing for me in the real world. Sometimes I've even been surprised by her suddenly doing something on the extreme end of things which I never asked for. Awkward trying to figure-out how to react to something like that while mid-fuck. When I'm having sex with someone (even a paid someone) in my head, I want to know she wants it - not that she's doing something which she (wrongly) thinks is expected of her.

So let's amend the advice to say porn is not the holy gospel of all fucking which people must be faithful to.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Porn is why nobody has pubic hair any more.

Twenty-year-olds hooked on Viagra is because of porn, as is their future inabilty to do without it.

I am totally done if anyone spits on me - that's become a porn go-to that's seeped into real life for a lot of SP's.

 

[UhOh]

Porn is why nobody has pubic hair any more.

Twenty-year-olds hooked on Viagra is because of porn, as is their future inabilty to do without it.

I am totally done if anyone spits on me - that's become a porn go-to that's seeped into real life for a lot of SP's.

Porn has had positive and negative impacts.
Shaved pussies a big plus.
Spitting and drooling over my dick a big turnoff.

 

[Uncled]

Spitting and drooling over my dick a big turnoff.

I‘m a sick bastard.

I would pay extra for that.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I actually find some of the porn sites very educational.

 

[ashley]

Though, I find pleasure in sexual activity that is depicted in pornography. Ultimately, it varies from person to person and what arouses them.
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[rockinbods35]

Porn has had positive and negative impacts.
Shaved pussies a big plus.
Spitting and drooling over my dick a big turnoff.

Deep throating and gagging on my cock. For some that is a huge turn on.
For me, not so much. It actually hurts when a women tries to take my member all the way down her throat as my dick doesn’t bend that way, lol. I prefer soft steady and with rotating hand action.

 

[SuggestiveTitle]

Though, I find pleasure in sexual activity that is depicted in pornography. Ultimately, it varies from person to person and what arouses them.
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Www.templeofashley.ca

Yaaasss!! And that right there makes all the difference! The minute I sense that who I am with is doing something from an expectation, obligation or that they simply don't enjoy, it just neutralizes my interest. Pour just a bit of that crazy fuck-lust sauce all over the event and it's a white-hot rocket to everywhere all at once! In this regard, porn can be great imagination fuel with the right accomplice. Finding those gems in the SW realm is a rare and addictive occurrence.

 

[rickyn]

For some porn may be real life.
Have a friend who is a former sp, yes that's how we met 😂
She says as a SP she was purposely pretty vanilla with her clients. But as a civilian she was into choking,hair pulling, spitting,slapping and all that. For her it was total intimacy,and the only way to get off and could never do it with clients.
I guess it's like the opposite of the no kissing rules some sp have, saving it for their partner.

 

[Equity Market investor]

100% agree. 70's forest hunt a true turn off for me lol.

I take porn with a real grain of salt. But, for me, that's how I discovered BDSM. So much that it had me visit a few ladies here in Vancouver for some very real light BDSM play. Real hard core BDSM acts are definitely not up my alley of interest.

Truth though, I do enjoy being dominated by a hot lady 😉😎👍. Nothing beats that. I love it and I hardly say no to that. Some femdom acts are fun.

Shaved pussies a big plus.

 

[rubylabellexo]

For some porn may be real life.
Have a friend who is a former sp, yes that's how we met 😂
She says as a SP she was purposely pretty vanilla with her clients. But as a civilian she was into choking,hair pulling, spitting,slapping and all that. For her it was total intimacy,and the only way to get off and could never do it with clients.
I guess it's like the opposite of the no kissing rules some sp have, saving it for their partner.

Yes, there are many things I would explore in my personal dating life with trusted partners, but never allow with a client. There are boundaries I prefer to maintain for my own peace of mind

 

[wakka wakka]

I wouldn't expect a PSE from my real gf or wife.. But if some sp is willing to do it for a price I'm down... Its all fantasy anyways

 

[angry anderson]

Porn is most definitely not real life. In porn, girls know how to suck cock. Real life not so much. Too complicated most likely.

 

[jgg]

Porn is most definitely not real life. In porn, girls know how to suck cock. Real life not so much. Too complicated most likely.

No such thing as a bad BJ.

 

[Forum mod]

No such thing as a bad BJ.

100% incorrect. Toothy BJ from girl with braces can not only be bad, but painful and potentially require a trip to the ER.

 

[jgg]

100% incorrect. Toothy BJ from girl with braces can not only be bad, but painful and potentially require a trip to the ER.

Sounds like personal experience?