Guys, seriously. Porn is not real life

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Guys, as a whole group, you/we have got to stop comparing the real world to porn. It's fucked your heads up and created a ton of completely unrealistic expectations. The ladies in those videos are ACTING. Very few, if any, women want to be fucked like that in the real world. It's not about pleasure, it's about camera angles and looking good in frame. I cannot tell you how many providers I have heard about this issue from over the years. Guy meets her for the first time, expects to have a gonzo porn movie session, choking her, pile driving, crazy angles and best of all, constant badgering for not wearing a condom because they don't in porn movies.

In the industry, the talent is STI tested regularly, spending hundreds and even thousands of dollars to do so. They map out the scene like a surgical operation, boundaries are set and if the more extreme stuff in on the table, there's total informed consent and a bunch of extra money, combat pay if you will. Safety is always considered and when it's not, a scandal often erupts. Expecting a provider here to mimic this for you is completely insane. Worse, you try that with a lady who knows better and your session is over and maybe your ass is kicked. When that happens, don't come here to post your negative review and expect much support.

Seriously, get over this obsession with porn. On top of the expectations of the lady, it also has completely warped your pleasure centers. Even the most amazing, gorgeous and passionate woman can't get you off if all you do is fantasize about and jerk off to porn constantly.

Ok rant over, a review today with just this issue set off the soapbox speech.
Well everything mentioned here is totally true as extreme things in porn not only mess with mind but make sex less pleasurable for both sides, but the only thing here conflicting with my thoughts is why the post is only directed to guys? What about the providers selling PSE experience with higher price tag? Isnt it encouragement to use those porn styles? There are numerous providers who are offering impact play for guys. Overall what I am saying is apllicable for both sides to not buy or sell these expectations.
 
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I think for some, perhaps many/, seeing escorts can have some of the same reality altering influences presented for porn.
 
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Guys, as a whole group, you/we have got to stop comparing the real world to porn. It's fucked your heads up and created a ton of completely unrealistic expectations. The ladies in those videos are ACTING. Very few, if any, women want to be fucked like that in the real world. It's not about pleasure, it's about camera angles and looking good in frame. I cannot tell you how many providers I have heard about this issue from over the years. Guy meets her for the first time, expects to have a gonzo porn movie session, choking her, pile driving, crazy angles and best of all, constant badgering for not wearing a condom because they don't in porn movies.

In the industry, the talent is STI tested regularly, spending hundreds and even thousands of dollars to do so. They map out the scene like a surgical operation, boundaries are set and if the more extreme stuff in on the table, there's total informed consent and a bunch of extra money, combat pay if you will. Safety is always considered and when it's not, a scandal often erupts. Expecting a provider here to mimic this for you is completely insane. Worse, you try that with a lady who knows better and your session is over and maybe your ass is kicked. When that happens, don't come here to post your negative review and expect much support.

Seriously, get over this obsession with porn. On top of the expectations of the lady, it also has completely warped your pleasure centers. Even the most amazing, gorgeous and passionate woman can't get you off if all you do is fantasize about and jerk off to porn constantly.

Ok rant over, a review today with just this issue set off the soapbox speech.
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Who is saying porn is all highly coordinated and safe?
Internet porn comes from every corner of the globe, it’s not all screened for safety in San Fernando Valley.
The number of comments from providers here and elsewhere about guys thinking gonzo porn, choking, face fucking, gagging, tears and unsafe acts are the way you are supposed to have sex is the issue. It's not every guy, but a disturbing number of guys think what they see hardcore porn stars doing on screen is what sex is supposed to be like.
The slow download of Tiffany Amber Thiessen's see thru mesh bathing suit photo shoot. Slowly getting lower and lower
Word back in the day was that when her acting career hit the skids, she was available for bookings. A measly 10K per session. Not personally confirmed, but it was everywhere there for a minute back in the days of the Big Doggie board.
 
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When I first got into seeing SP's I'll admit that a lot of my motivation was to live out some fantasies of wild sex related to the things seen in porn. What became interesting was I found that almost anytime I booked a PSE style session I ended up enjoying it less than the good GFE sessions I had experienced with other providers. The main reason for this was I realized that I didn't have the stamina or sexual prowess to bang like a porn star and that while the thrill or some of the things we may have been doing was fun, the sex overall wasn't nearly as enjoyable.

In the end, true hardcore porn is entertainment and meant to provide a thrill, but not necessarily be a road map or a "how to" on what sex should look like on a regular basis.

With all of that being said, I still love the few times a year where a few of my favorite ladies allow me to indulge in a true COF finish, which is a fantasy that was fully conditioned into me through viewing porn and is only acted on with full consent from both parties.
 
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