Gifts

[Eden]

While all of the expensive and outrageously priced stuff is nice, I am sure. I prefer the little things, ones that say I thought of you at this time or when I saw this. Someone that I saw recently, whom I have shared a couple of incredible sessions with gave me a cd - he didn't know whether I would like it or not but he knew that I had just bought a new car and he wanted to buy me my first cd, I will forever remember that! Another friend brought me strawberries, you could tell he was just being so thoughtful - it was great and I did not expect it and they were the most succulent things that I ever did taste (btw I asked him if he would like some and he said no that he had brought them for me).

Just for everyones knowledge yes I have had many other gifts given to me, jewelry, clothing, etc. I was picking out some very recent situations (just so that I don't offend anyone), and don't get me wrong no matter what I appreciate it and I still think that it is the thought that counts.

I guess what I am trying to say is, you guys should not be expected to bring gifts over and above the donation that you already have made it is your cash still isn't it? But also there are still some of us gals out there who still do appreciate you with or without gifts in tow!
Eden

 

[threepeat]

One Christmas, I bought my ATF a gold necklace from Tiffany & Co. However, it was meant as a one-time thing, and while I have given her other gifts for special occasions, they have been much more sane.

 

[Venuschic]

My ATF gift received by a client was the time a very special man gave to me (along with his man juice) 2 Grey Cup tickets with hotel, and there were many other gifts and cards but that one stood out.

Aside from receiving gifts I also treasure the occasional phone call from clients who say "how ya doin you...and...you are remarkably the cat's pygamas!" Hey, I am a real softy what can I say...this is a lonely place to be at times.

 

[hazbeen]

"gifts"

I usually always go to a second session with something. If I like the babe enough to see her again I always figure WTF a little something has always been appreciated. Most items arent that expensive but I do think about what would get a smile. Flowers are too throw away, lately its been a house plant for a couple newly moved girls, a bottle of wine, lucky bamboo plants, girl guide cookies, cute socks, a cute looking summer T shirt that shell "model for me" quite often Ive heard too how much she has been wearing or using said item too. To me its been just the thought has been appreciated.

 

[IceG]

i have no problem with any of you guys who want to buy a gift for a sp. it is your money and your "relationship" with the sp and you should decide what is appropriate. there is absolutely nothing wrong with being generous. i would just be concerned that some dudes think that it is going to "make the sp" like them better. How a sp feels about you will be determined by a complex set of factors that varies with each sp. if your gift is truly a gift then i have no issues, but many (NOT ALL) give with expectation strings attached.

i don't think there are many sps who are totally manipulating some guys into buying them presents, but there are probably a few out there. it is really easy for a beautiful sp to take advantage of a lonely rich dude. i will leave that as simply pointing out the obvious.

i guess all i am saying is that if you are a customer/client then just be careful that you are not getting played like a fiddle.

i always give an extra "tip" on top of the "usual tip" when i have a good time but i don't ever buy a present and bring it in. I am not trying to insult or offend any of you who do that stuff (as i said, it is your money and your choice-so do what you will) but i would just feel like i was trying too hard to have her like me. when i give an "extra" tip, it is for the great time i just had and nothing more.

if we are going into the realm of "presents", i would rather just know her in her real life and then maybe i would give her a personal present in a real world setting, but i could not bring a gift to a sp in a mp. i could give a woman who was a sp a present in her real world setting, but in order for the present to actually have any real meaning, i would have to know the woman behind the sp. Otherwise, it just seems too contrived for me, but that is just my opinion.

 

[hornydude]

Ahhh...

I say 200 bones or whatever the cost is, a thanks, and a slap on the ass on the way out the door should do.

Save the Lexus, earings and shit like that for when your GF catches you with a hooker or finds a condom wrapper on your car floor board.

The voice of reason speaks!