Gfe

[Lolita]

Just like the previous post,

You'd be expecting to have sex with your girlfriend sans condom. Unless you were willing to do the same thing with an SP instead of running for a Glad garbage bag to cover yourself up before fucking, then a BBBJ is not an issue.

Considering the activity and risks, GFE service could (should) be interpreted as including the following: DATY, FS, general schmarmy romantic crap, and leaving without a forced smile.

 

[vancouverman]

Nice try Vancouverman !! I know what you're up to ! HUH !

me???? I'm just a memory of the glurious past.

 

[memyselfandI]

Ok, I do not know who you guys dated, but I do not remember any GF that allowed MSOG, that provide BJ covered or not, that would allow any upper lips action once the lower lips were touched.

What we are really asking for is GFE as we fantasize how it was and without the 30 minutes of begging.

You been dating the wrong women appartently..

 

[Sydney]

more importantly, how many of your previous and current girlfriends gave you a CBJ?

Hopefully all of them, if you were intimate early in the relationship.

Every woman should protect herself with a new lover, until given the chance to get to know and fully trust him. That is usualy lacking in the sp/client arrangement, the time it takes to get to know enough about the other person enough to trust them with possibly your life.

As well, your gf would (hopefully) not be sleeping around. As sp's we have a responsibilty to be safe, for ourselves and our many clients who are trusting us to do so. Your gf takes only the chance for herself.

As for the (few unknown) bbbj providers not being reviewed as offering such, that part of a session should be left unmentioned as it would be offered
(IF and in rare cases, I'm sure) only when both parties feel they have established enough trust and that of course is at the discretion of the 2 involved.
Not something anyone who just calls up should ever think he is worthy of receiving.

Unless, of course, the sp advertisers it as a regular service. In which case it has probably been reviewed as such.

In any case, I would not offer it, nor have I been (seriously) asked to. Those that do openly provide it, I think you need to re-evalute your selfworth. I mean that with respect.

Daty is another thing altogether which also carries risk. That is the choice of the client, if he wants to partake. The safer we ladies are, the safer the daty for our admirers. Men are not obligated to go down but because so many enjoy it, they have a right to a safe pussy.

Find a provider who offers the level of gfe that you are comfortable with as it does vary.

Sydney

 

[Mchatte]

Tinkertailor, to answer your question regarding "physical interaction beyond the act itself," I think that refers to such things as spooning, cuddling and affectionate touches - the kind of things you might get from a girlfriend before and/or after sex.

Couldn't agree more Jodie and I strongly believe that DFK is also very important. I really enjoy my long conversations, acts of silliness and bust a gut laughter with my favorite SP and not having a BBBJ does not make our GFE relationship any less memorable.

If I had intentions of quickly jumping on an SP with my eyes closed and pumping away 'til climax, then I may as well close my eyes and do the 5 finger shuffle.

Tom Arnold said on the one of the talk shows he was on that he sits on his hand until it's numb and then he jerks off with his eyes closed because it feels like someone else's hand.

M

P.S. I believe that the chances of a session with an SP becoming a GFE improves proportionately with the number of times you see her. Then you get to know each other and everyone is relaxed.