Gfe

[tinkertailor]

maybe this topic was covered before , but lately i am getting very mixed feedbacks

read some good reviews of SPs in Vancouver, and the sessions were all described as GFE
but there's no BBBJ? why is that?
specially when DATY is allowed, but still no BBBJ?

isn't there enough pooner looking for BBBJ in Vancouver?
isn't there enough demands for BBBJ in Vancouver?



if anybody knows any good SPs who will provide BBBJ, please PM me. thank you.

 

[tom25]

This is one of those topics that's been covered over and over and over again. do a search and you should find lots of reading.

Most high end sp's won't do BBBJ because they value their health and don't want to take the risk. It isn't demand ... its supply. Most won't do it.

There is a real difference in pooner attitudes. Frankly, I don't want to see an sp that does BBBJ. Others will disagree.

I'm in total agreement with sexygirl's defn. of GFE ... it isn't about whether there's a party hat on.

Tom

 

[dakota30]

That is YOUR definition of GFE.

My definition of Girlfriend experience is kissing both sets of lips. CBJ, full-service, very sensual non -rushed MSOG.

Excellent definition Sexygirl!

 

[tinkertailor]

Excellent definition

from PERB Consolidated Newbie Guide written by a very respected member states

GFE = Girl Friend Experience, providing aspects of social and physical interaction beyond the act itself.

well? what is the physical interaction beyond the act itself?
more importantly, how many of your previous and current girlfriends gave you a CBJ?


p.s. I am not here to stir a pot. I am only asking and looking for
1. what I believe the key element of the totally enjoyable sexual experience and
2. why there`s such lack of BBBJ providers in Vancouver (specially with higher premium compare to the rest of country)

 

[luckydog71]

Ok, I do not know who you guys dated, but I do not remember any GF that allowed MSOG, that provide BJ covered or not, that would allow any upper lips action once the lower lips were touched.

What we are really asking for is GFE as we fantasize how it was and without the 30 minutes of begging.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Agreed LD!

Ok, I do not know who you guys dated, but I do not remember any GF that allowed MSOG, that provide BJ covered or not, that would allow any upper lips action once the lower lips were touched.

What we are really asking for is GFE as we fantasize how it was and without the 30 minutes of begging.

Real girlfriends seldom allow MSOGs, unless you hit them at the right time (like once in a blue moon). And they value their sleep more than FS. That's why I gave up on real GFs years ago. I prefer fake ones now.

 

[vancouverman]

read some good reviews of SPs in Vancouver, and the sessions were all described as GFE
but there's no BBBJ? why is that?
specially when DATY is allowed, but still no BBBJ?

why don't you ask for bareback.... you will have it as real as it gets.
I bet, Hitrack can direct you to the corner where you can get it for $20.
Will it be enough of GFE experience for you?

 

[Jodie]

Ok, I do not know who you guys dated, but I do not remember any GF that allowed MSOG, that provide BJ covered or not, that would allow any upper lips action once the lower lips were touched.

And that's assuming you didn't get the usual, "I'm too tired. I have a headache. I don't feel well. It's that time of the month again." Now that's what I call GFE

Tinkertailor, to answer your question regarding "physical interaction beyond the act itself," I think that refers to such things as spooning, cuddling and affectionate touches - the kind of things you might get from a girlfriend before and/or after sex.

 

[Johnsam]

p.s. I am not here to stir a pot. I am only asking and looking for
1. what I believe the key element of the totally enjoyable sexual experience and
2. why there's such lack of BBBJ providers in Vancouver (specially with higher premium compare to the rest of country)

Let me help you stir the pot.

I think the question to ask is why there's such [a] lack of reviews of BBBJ providers?

 

[Verb]

Real girlfriends seldom allow MSOGs, unless you hit them at the right time (like once in a blue moon). And they value their sleep more than FS. That's why I gave up on real GFs years ago. I prefer fake ones now.

I dunno know about that one...


I remember that my ex can go all night(3 hours) before passin out....

 

[hitrack]

why don't you ask for bareback.... you will have it as real as it gets.
I bet, Hitrack can direct you to the corner where you can get it for $20.
Will it be enough of GFE experience for you?

Your going to give the track a bad name

 

[BabyBelle]

I guess I set the bar a little high..
To me, GFE includes BBBJ, kissing, MSOG, cuddling, talking, daty..

 

[Maury Beniowski]

I dunno know about that one...


I remember that my ex can go all night(3 hours) before passin out....

Maybe that's why she left you, eh?

 

[samantha_van]

2. why there's such lack of BBBJ providers in Vancouver (specially with higher premium compare to the rest of country)

Aids,HIV,chlamydia,gonorrhea, hep b and c
are just a few reason for me!!!

 

[vancouverman]

not everyone can jump so high .....

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

uhhhh....cuz were not interested in dying

Curious do you allow DATY? IMHO your risk to exposure is about the same as BBBJ.

A simple cold sore is herpes and can be transferred by receiving oral sex "Finally, if you have a cold sore and put your mouth on your partners genitals (oral sex), you can give your partner genital herpes. "


Here's what the CDC has to say about HIV infection from oral sex :

Can I get HIV from oral sex?
Yes, it is possible for either partner to become infected with HIV through performing or receiving oral sex. There have been a few cases of HIV transmission from performing oral sex on a person infected with HIV. While no one knows exactly what the degree of risk is, evidence suggests that the risk is less than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex.

If the person performing oral sex has HIV, blood from their mouth may enter the body of the person receiving oral sex through

the lining of the urethra (the opening at the tip of the penis);
the lining of the vagina or cervix;
the lining of the anus; or
directly into the body through small cuts or open sores.
If the person receiving oral sex has HIV, their blood, semen (cum), pre-seminal fluid (pre-cum), or vaginal fluid may contain the virus. Cells lining the mouth of the person performing oral sex may allow HIV to enter their body.

The risk of HIV transmission increases

if the person performing oral sex has cuts or sores around or in their mouth or throat;
if the person receiving oral sex ejaculates in the mouth of the person performing oral sex; or
if the person receiving oral sex has another sexually transmitted disease (STD).
Not having (abstaining from) sex is the most effective way to avoid HIV

 

[vancouverman]

now.. DATY will be as rare as BBBJ.

no wonder Second Annual Worl DATY Championship never happen.

 

[ecskim]

Just thought I would brought it up, BBBJ have more risk for transmitting hepatitis B than DATY.

 

[Fudd]

Wouldn't it be great if there was a magic pill that would cure all these diseases?
Then all we would have to worry about is the accidental pregnancy.
Any body know how that HIV vacine that was announced a few months ago doing?

 

[Yman]

DATY contest ?

Nice try Vancouverman !! I know what you're up to ! HUH !