For the women ."What are you looking for .in life?"

[johnsmit]

Yes that what I am asking ..and if you say ... a nice guy...stable...with a job..A house..
That is fun..treats me well..and is caring " Or any answer similar...I'll say that who he want to get what you are looking for and want. Buts not what you are looking for..
Just be honest about it .

 

[76duster]

Here's something for you to watch if you're a "nice guy" and are looking for a woman:

 

[johnsmit]

Opp spelling errors

It was ment to say " That's not what a women really want .." even if they say they do .. .So thus the question. .

And no women has answered .!!!

 

[PierreCoeur]

Well I happen to look for vintage Louis Vuitton purses, Vintage Tupperwear and Red Rose tea figurines. You did say looking right? IMHO we are looking for a place where we can be at peace, a place where we belong, and someone that gets us.

I don't get it. People collect Red Rose Tea figurines??

 

[PierreCoeur]

Some of us do, haha! And I should have put this guy there to show I was being silly. The serious answer is right below it.

And I should have put that same fella beside my statement Have an awesome day !

 

[LADY-VIA]

Well I happen to look for vintage Louis Vuitton purses, Vintage Tupperwear and Red Rose tea figurines. You did say looking right? IMHO we are looking for a place where we can be at peace, a place where we belong, and someone that gets us.

Looking for a partner that gets me has always been a bit of a challenge, but I'm keeping my eyes open. I have achieved many things that I have looked for in life. Well to some degree, but I thinks it's in our human nature to continuously look for more. I've got my nice and simple quiet life, and my other adventurous life.

Ideally one day I would like to be looking for a place with enough land that I can convert into a huge outdoor play ground for rescue cats and dogs and help foster them until they get their forever homes. Maybe my own no kill animal shelter. I don't really look for much right now. I don't need much to be happy. I'm actually very content with very little. I look for support, respect, and unconditional love from people around me. Company worth keeping. I don't go out of my way searching for these things. Either it happens or it doesn't, and if it doesn't I've got no problem waking away. I'm content alone and not lonely. Well I have pets though !!!

I'm looking for a new place to get my eyebrows done now and done well !! Last 2 ladies fucked them up, and over plucked. !!!! I even gave one lady a second chance, only to stop her half way walk out because she wasnt listening again.. and no I didnt pay her either !!

Still looking for that perfect pair of sexy red heels, and perfect pair of cow boy boots. I regret not grabbing the pair of boots I fell in love with in montreal they were exspensive ( more than I can imagine spending on shoes ) which is why I didn't buy them, but the art work on the leather was just so gorgeous. I've convinced myself that it would be an art purchase like one of my paintings, so next time I fall in love with a pair of boots I'm buying them.

I'm looking for a good telescope, And a decent custom made couch store.

But in the end I could be robbed of all my material things and still be ok with life. Because material items do not provide the comfort and security of unconditional love respect, and support. Inner peace and all that jazz

I'm also looking for that "treasure " if I keep frequenting garage sales and flea markets, I'm sure one day I'll find it. Until of course I'm looking for the next treasure

 

[yasmine]

I'm focused on being a rich wife. Building my empire meaning a successful business. Love will come naturally so I don't plan to look for it. I think being a woman who can bring something to the table is a valuable asset to a relationship. Happiness comes with being satisfied with your own life therefore once I have everything set I can be an equal to my partner.

 

[uncleg]

When asked that question, a wise woman told me............

 

[LADY-VIA]

thats a funny one... I used to joke around with an previous partner about the few extra pounds I put on a couple years ago.. Im sure many of you know how new relationships go sometimes.... .. lots of wining and dinning.. and desserts, sex, cake and ice cream. Snuggles in bed ect.. ( well for me at least, theres always room for dessert ) I dont indulge quite as much now as I did back then, rarely drink now, and I make sure I get excersise, as its so easy to pack it on when food tastes great. Ocassionally I got the teasing comments from him about how much more espensive I was now that I wasnt his sp any more. Well I told him that at least he could see where a chunk of his money went, as he bought every single extra pound on me.

 

[sybian]

I know what you mean about that perfect pair of Cowboy boots Lady V.
I spend most of my days in lace up work boots, and ride in Ariats, and Tony Llamas...But i do have that one 1500.00 pair of custom made carved boots, that are "For Good" wear.
I'll dance around the soft piles of cowshit, won't leave them outside on the porch for the dogs to chew on, and I'll rub the dust off them on the back of my jeans.
I don't have the chance to wear down the bootheels much, but I'm happy I bought them for myself.
I like a woman who appreciates a good pair of boots, and can fill them out just right.

 

[LADY-VIA]

YeAh these ones were so beautiful !! They were about 2000 I think. I flew all the way out there (montreal) to do that photoshoot in the mask I've got on my site. So since I was already in for the flights hotels photoshoot and all the rest... hair make up artist ect I just couldn't justify dropping another couple thousand on boots !! Even though I did manage to book a few play dates while I was there, (gave me back all the money I spent on the trip ) and I had the cash burning in my purse screaming SPEND ME!! ) One day though ........ I'll own those boots. Or a pair similar. I'll cherish them.

 

[PierreCoeur]

It's interesting how everyone seems to want happiness in their lives, as if it is a state of being. We define it. We associate it with love. We dream about it and try to measure it against some lofty goals we have. We talk about it as if we can achieve happiness if only did this or that.

The reality is happiness is a moment, and then another moment and another moment. It's not about being rich or worthy of someone. It's not about being in love, although love can create many happy moments. If you are always looking to be happy about yourself, you are going to miss a lot of special moments because you are too busy measuring something. I am not going to look at my life for the successes I have enjoyed. But I am going to take one happy moment and then another and consider myself lucky for all the people who contributed to those moments.

Be happy for those moments and you are going to be happy in life.

 

[LADY-VIA]

It's interesting how everyone seems to want happiness in their lives, as if it is a state of being. We define it. We associate it with love. We dream about it and try to measure it against some lofty goals we have. We talk about it as if we can achieve happiness if only did this or that.

The reality is happiness is a moment, and then another moment and another moment. It's not about being rich or worthy of someone. It's not about being in love, although love can create many happy moments. If you are always looking to be happy about yourself, you are going to miss a lot of special moments because you are too busy measuring something. I am not going to look at my life for the successes I have enjoyed. But I am going to take one happy moment and then another and consider myself lucky for all the people who contributed to those moments.

Be happy for those moments and you are going to be happy in life.

Really well said !! And so true. I've noticed that theres a specific "type " of person, kind of, who are constantly snapping photos of everything. As if every moment needs to be captured in selfies and pictures. Sometimes I wonder if they are even living in the moment and happily enjoying it, or are they too consumed with capturing the Moment to show that the moment existed and are forgetting to actually live it at the same time.

I used to be bad for not shutting down and being in the moment. I was always connect and by that I had my phone with me. I do so much on my phone all the time that my moments didn't have full potential of happiness as I was distracted a lot too. This summer I left my phone home lots, and disconnected completely, so I could be completely in my moments without Distractions and give my moments my undevided attention. To be completely free and happy in my hapoy moments while out with friends or out alone doing something I really love and enjoy.basically achieving the best bang for my buck in terms of quality downtime with my moments

 

[PierreCoeur]

I used to be bad for not shutting down and being in the moment. I was always connect and by that I had my phone with me. I do so much on my phone all the time that my moments didn't have full potential of happiness as I was distracted a lot too. This summer I left my phone home lots, and disconnected completely, so I could be completely in my moments without Distractions and give my moments my undevided attention. To be completely free and happy in my happy moments while out with friends or out alone doing something I really love and enjoy.basically achieving the best bang for my buck in terms of quality downtime with my moments

You my friend understand ! Enjoy your moments !

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

Great thread!
Here is a rough draft of some of my lofty hopes 'n dreams

To maybe one day find myself wonderfully tangled up with a gent who rocks salmon coloured suits - just because he can.
Who also eats his toast butter-side down ('cause that just makes sense)
Live long enough for NASA to lock down a few wormholes, reconcile Einsten's theories of General & Special Relativity, the theory of Time Dilation - and hurl me back in time so that I might:
a) Pick Carl Jung's brain for a day
b) Strongly urge Hitler's Mom to give him plenty of hugs in his formative years
c) Sit down for a bourbon (or many, many bourbons) with Kerouac and Burroughs (before they went and bent those beautiful brains of theirs)
d) Make out hard with Elvis Presley and/or Jim Morrison for AT LEAST 5 minutes
e) Give my 13 year-old self a REALLY epic pep talk

Master the practice of looking in to people - rather than looking through them.
Acquire a modest piece of land in a liberal, forward-thinking community where I could even opt to reside in a yurt, a treehouse or a bouncy castle if I so wished - and no one would really bat an eye.

Raise at least one confident, capable and compassionate little human who may one day go forth and make this already-crazy/beautiful world burn *just* a little brighter.

Oh - and the bonus round - for my breasts to not end up in my shoes by the time I'm 50. That would be extra swell

To make considerable, much-needed gains in the areas of patience for, appreciation of and general behaviour/attitude towards the important people in my life. This includes those of past, present and future. Seeking to make amends wherever possible with those whom I have failed - striving to learn from these mistakes in order to offer an even slightly better version of myself to those who bless my future - and in that spirit, pay forward the same forgiveness that I have been shown, time and time again - even when I didn't
deserve it.

I am also strongly considering becoming a vegetarian when I grow up,

And last, but not least- I would really like to one day do my Grandmother's borscht recipe some justice - but so far, this one is a bit of a long-shot!

 

[PierreCoeur]

Great thread!
Here is a rough draft of some of my lofty hopes 'n dreams

To maybe one day find myself wonderfully tangled up with a gent who rocks salmon coloured suits - just because he can.
Who also eats his toast butter-side down ('cause that just makes sense)
Live long enough for NASA to lock down a few wormholes, reconcile Einsten's theories of General & Special Relativity, the theory of Time Dilation - and hurl me back in time so that I might:
a) Pick Carl Jung's brain for a day
b) Strongly urge Hitler's Mom to give him plenty of hugs in his formative years
c) Sit down for a bourbon (or many, many bourbons) with Kerouac and Burroughs (before they went and bent those beautiful brains of theirs)
d) Make out hard with Elvis Presley and/or Jim Morrison for AT LEAST 5 minutes
e) Give my 13 year-old self a REALLY epic pep talk

Master the practice of looking in to people - rather than looking through them.
Acquire a modest piece of land in a liberal, forward-thinking community where I could even opt to reside in a yurt, a treehouse or a bouncy castle if I so wished - and no one would really bat an eye.

Raise at least one confident, capable and compassionate little human who may one day go forth and make this already-crazy/beautiful world burn *just* a little brighter.

Oh - and the bonus round - for my breasts to not end up in my shoes by the time I'm 50. That would be extra swell

To make considerable, much-needed gains in the areas of patience for, appreciation of and general behaviour/attitude towards the important people in my life. This includes those of past, present and future. Seeking to make amends wherever possible with those whom I have failed - striving to learn from these mistakes in order to offer an even slightly better version of myself to those who bless my future - and in that spirit, pay forward the same forgiveness that I have been shown, time and time again - especially when I didn't
deserve it.

I think I want to be a vegetarian when I grow up,

And last, but not least- I would really like to one day do my Grandmother's borscht recipe some justice - but so far, this one is a bit of a long-shot!

Wow what a list ! I like it, although I don't think hugging Hitler would have worked.

 

[Caramel]

"peace & quiet" my mom always said that when I asked her this type of question when I was around 5-6 years old.