As the old joke says "why do women fake orgasms? Because they think men care." In my many experiences over the years, it's not the destination, it's the journey that is most enjoyable, but that's just me. There have been times, especially in my older years, that I couldn't finish. That doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself. I've had ladies apologize for not being able to finish the job, like it was their fault. Like I said, it's the journey. I love pleasuring a lady probably more than I enjoy being pleasured. Sometimes the orgasm happens, sometimes it doesn't. I get satisfaction in knowing, if the lady is genuine, that she still enjoyed herself even if the orgasm didn't happen.
I have seen ladies who obviously fake it. Fake moans, constructed jerks, praise like out of a script. I don't see these ladies a second time. The biggest turn on for me is a lady being genuine and honest. Like I said, not everyone can get off all the time. Not even guys, especially if your older. It doesn't mean that we didn't enjoy ourselves. I have often had what I call minigasms and plenty of ladies I've talked to have experienced the same thing. It's like being 3rd and goal and you fumble.
There is a lady I've seen quite regularly who admits that she has never faked it with me. I know this because if I didn't clench her toes before I ran out of gas, she would bring out the Hitachi because she was so worked up, but still this didn't do the trick. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. This doesn't mean we both didn't enjoy the journey.