Faking Orgasm...How often do you have to fake an orgasm with DATY?

Metaxa

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A faked orgasm does absolutely nothing for me.

First, it doesn't actually help me get better at what I'm doing, which is one of the reasons I'm seeing an SP in the first place.

Second, it puts pressure on me to keep going because I don't wanna kill your buzz, even if I'd rather switch to something else.

Third, when she fakes an orgasm and then tells me in that breathy voice "you're so good at that!" I know it's a lie and it just feels cheap.

I have no use for participation trophies.
So are you saying that you wish you could give a woman an orgasm?
 

blakealridge

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A faked orgasm does absolutely nothing for me.

First, it doesn't actually help me get better at what I'm doing, which is one of the reasons I'm seeing an SP in the first place.

Second, it puts pressure on me to keep going because I don't wanna kill your buzz, even if I'd rather switch to something else.

Third, when she fakes an orgasm and then tells me in that breathy voice "you're so good at that!" I know it's a lie and it just feels cheap.

I have no use for participation trophies.
might be good to tell a provider this at the top of a session :D most guys like it when we come ALL THE TIME and like -- I GENUINELY come a lot but many women don't hahaha
 
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CapnMaynards

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So are you saying that you wish you could give a woman an orgasm?
Yeah why wouldn't I?

might be good to tell a provider this at the top of a session :D most guys like it when we come ALL THE TIME and like -- I GENUINELY come a lot but many women don't hahaha
Right now I only see one provider, who I lost my virginity to, and by this point I would feel very awkward asking her to stop faking it. But when I do venture out to other providers I will put that out there right away.
 

blakealridge

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Yeah why wouldn't I?



Right now I only see one provider, who I lost my virginity to, and by this point I would feel very awkward asking her to stop faking it. But when I do venture out to other providers I will put that out there right away.
YEAH DON'T ASK HER. oh god it would be so awkward hahahahahahah
good man for realizing this
 
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grizzly

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As the old joke says "why do women fake orgasms? Because they think men care." In my many experiences over the years, it's not the destination, it's the journey that is most enjoyable, but that's just me. There have been times, especially in my older years, that I couldn't finish. That doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself. I've had ladies apologize for not being able to finish the job, like it was their fault. Like I said, it's the journey. I love pleasuring a lady probably more than I enjoy being pleasured. Sometimes the orgasm happens, sometimes it doesn't. I get satisfaction in knowing, if the lady is genuine, that she still enjoyed herself even if the orgasm didn't happen.

I have seen ladies who obviously fake it. Fake moans, constructed jerks, praise like out of a script. I don't see these ladies a second time. The biggest turn on for me is a lady being genuine and honest. Like I said, not everyone can get off all the time. Not even guys, especially if your older. It doesn't mean that we didn't enjoy ourselves. I have often had what I call minigasms and plenty of ladies I've talked to have experienced the same thing. It's like being 3rd and goal and you fumble.

There is a lady I've seen quite regularly who admits that she has never faked it with me. I know this because if I didn't clench her toes before I ran out of gas, she would bring out the Hitachi because she was so worked up, but still this didn't do the trick. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. This doesn't mean we both didn't enjoy the journey.
 

cruefan

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Some escorts see multiple clients in a day especially if they are high volume providers and it is fully understandable that they are not going to climax with everyone that they see.
 
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