Experiences in Japan?

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I am travelling to Japan this summer and was wondering what the escort scene is like there. I know there is one, as it's very common practice for men to have affairs in Japanese culture. It's not viewed the same way as here. But, are there places where you can choose a lady and pay for services just like here? Are these places underground, or clearly labelled as massage parlours? I also don't want to be ripped off or get the upsell. I cannot really find any websites on this, or much info other than it exists, but I am there to sight-see, and just wanted an experience while I was there. I am visiting Tokyo, Osaka and Kyoto. If you have specific places would really appreciate it.
 
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If you're a foreigner with no Japanese speaking ability, I'd recommend looking up tokyohentaiclub. It's an escort agency where you book the girl, meet up with them then usually go off to a love hotel. Prices were around $300 CAD when I went a few years back and their website is in English.
 

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If you don't speak Japanese like a native, most of the massage parlours would simply say NO to you. Some that accept foreigners would require a high premium. It's not worth it. But there are two good options in my experience.

1). Soapland in Tokyo. An expensive but truly unique experience that you cannot find elsewhere. You can expect to have your JAV fantasy coming true. Don't go to the low end ones though. A good two hour package would usually cost $800 - $1000.

2). Shinchi in Osaka, including Matsushima and Tobita. Girls at Tobita are better. I was amazed by how pretty those young J girls were - some even small J idol group level. But I would NOT recommend visiting any of them there. There are no showers, more expensive, and very reserved/poor service. To actually have fun I would recommend Matsushima. Yes girls there are generally older but you can have showers there and it's cheaper. Around same price as massage parlours here.
 
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Go here and pay them… https://fuzoku.sod.co.jp/sp/jhgc/en/about_jhgc

Their concierge will take care of you and worth the price. Best to use “delivery health” service straight to your own hotel. Everything else is a PAIN IN THE FUCKING ASS, in my opinion, even when I speak the language. Do you know the language or are you familiar with Tokyo?? Not sure if this is your first time pooning in Japan or first time in Japan.

Dont go to Kabukicho in Tokyo. For everywhere else, navigating on your own will be fucked up and generally lots of weird fees. Massage parlours suck cuz the rooms are like closets at best with paper walls so I stopped trying different places. If you successfully communicate with the provider to negotiate a secret fee for FS, it’s just fucking annoying having to keep it quiet while trying to pound a little Japanese pussy and she’s going “shhh shhh” every 30 seconds.

Foreigners going to soapland or massage parlours have to at least pay a foreigner tax (10,000Y to 30,000Y), booking fee, photo fee (just to see photos of the girls with their faces when you get to the front desk), and buy a tea/pop/water and service rate upcharge. As a rough example, if you see a website listing, say, 20,000Y/hr dont be surprised if the rate for foreigner is actually 35,000Y plus bunch of weird fees. Osaka good too but top quality girls are way better in Tokyo in my opinion. If you’re thinking soapland cuz they are known for raw action, you will only get covered fs as a foreigner. If you love nuru then of course go to soapland cuz you can’t get that in your hotel room… the REAL nuru at soapland is definitely way way way better than large majority of the wannabe services locally here simply cuz you’re in a wet room!! Even when a provider or agency writes “best nuru in town” or whatever, it’s all bullshit so consider that experience in Japan. If you enjoy having your asshole played with then it’s pretty cool sitting on their little stool that spreads your ass cheeks in the wet room and letting them do their routines. Just be aware it really is extremely slippery everywhere and the deep soaker tub is always filled with continuous running water so water is always overflowing everywhere. The grey air mattress just gets ridiculously slippery during nuru!! For old farts or anyone with difficulty balancing, be VERY careful in the soapland wet room!!

Just trying to keep it real simple for you buddy. And get ready with WeChat or LINE for communication and use translator app. And be aware that there’s heavy smoking at all of these incalls and I don’t mean the light filtered cutesy cigarettes, I mean the strong as a fucking nuke kind of cigarettes depending on who’s in the waiting room with you. Just saying, in case you’re not used to smoking cuz I took a buddy there for his first time in Japan and he’s never been around this kind of smoke before and he was literally choking at all these places I took him to.
 
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For all the trouble that it’s worth I’d say save your hard earned cash for girls over here.

While it’s tempting walking down the street in Osaka and seeing cute half naked girls sitting right there at the doorstep, looking left and right, it’s like a kid in candy shop but the service absolutely sucks and you’ll get dinged with a “foreigner” fee. In Tokyo it also sucks. The “incalls” are you literally paying for a girl and then them sending you to a love hotel next door and having to pay that on top, only to receive a BJ and pussy slide, no penetration (illegal unless it’s a soapland or Shinchi), all while costing more than just hitting up a MP here for FS.

Is it entertaining? Sure
Worth it? Hell no
 

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Been to Japan a few times and as more or less stated above it's just not worth it. Japan is a very xenophobic society and the majority of the young attractive working girls are reserved solely for the pleasure of Japanese men. Numerous places I tried to enter I was met with the forearms crossed in an X meaning to say "foreigners aren't welcome here."

Try a soapy for the novelty, but even there you will probably be getting the B squad or even girls from other countries like Thailand or Cambodia.
Save your hard earned cash for a trip to another country like Thailand or the Philippines where you won't be treated like a second class citizen because you are a foreigner.
 

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https://hg-deli.com/pref/tokyo/

check this site out via safari and auto translate to English. Also there’s cityheaven.net they provide list of stores (soapland and delivery health). I’d suggest doing (delivery health) as they pretty much don’t turn down gaijins. Though beware as some stores do bait and switch just be careful and actually do you research/reviews. I’d suggest get a Line app for best communication.
 
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For all the trouble that it’s worth I’d say save your hard earned cash for girls over here.

While it’s tempting walking down the street in Osaka and seeing cute half naked girls sitting right there at the doorstep, looking left and right, it’s like a kid in candy shop but the service absolutely sucks and you’ll get dinged with a “foreigner” fee. In Tokyo it also sucks. The “incalls” are you literally paying for a girl and then them sending you to a love hotel next door and having to pay that on top, only to receive a BJ and pussy slide, no penetration (illegal unless it’s a soapland or Shinchi), all while costing more than just hitting up a MP here for FS.

Is it entertaining? Sure
Worth it? Hell no
I’d very much disagree, the service is definitely a lot better there. Though, I’d never been to a soapland and as all my experience was through DH services. I find it even cheaper as if you know where to look, they offer discounts and usually don’t turn down gaijins.

You can definitely get full service with DH (outcall), you just have to pay the gaijin tax on top of outcall price. If you’re clever, could even negotiate for a better (add on) services (filming/AF/etc. *depending on the girl and ask ahead what she offers) .

Tokyo was a blast and definitely worth it, Kyoto is a dead zone, and I even hear that Osaka is much better.
 
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I’d very much disagree, the service is definitely a lot better there. Though, I’d never been to a soapland and as all my experience was through DH services. I find it even cheaper as if you know where to look, they offer discounts and usually don’t turn down gaijins.

You can definitely get full service with DH (outcall), you just have to pay the gaijin tax on top of outcall price. If you’re clever, could even negotiate for a better (add on) services (filming/AF/etc. *depending on the girl and ask ahead what she offers) .

Tokyo was a blast and definitely worth it, Kyoto is a dead zone, and I even hear that Osaka is much better.
Maybe it was just my experience last month but it wasn’t good. The Osaka gaijin tax was about 50000 yen and when the “local” rate is only 110000 yen that’s almost a 50% markup.

in Tokyo the DH at a love hotel was the most mechanical, boring thing I’ve ever experienced. And this was from a reputable, well reviewed agency over there. No FS with most of the time eaten up with her fidgeting, making the shower warm, weird washing protocols, etc. mileage is was better here IMO.
 

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Maybe it was just my experience last month but it wasn’t good. The Osaka gaijin tax was about 50000 yen and when the “local” rate is only 110000 yen that’s almost a 50% markup.

in Tokyo the DH at a love hotel was the most mechanical, boring thing I’ve ever experienced. And this was from a reputable, well reviewed agency over there. No FS with most of the time eaten up with her fidgeting, making the shower warm, weird washing protocols, etc. mileage is was better here IMO.
most I have paid was around 50,000 yen included everything (FS, outcall price, and add on services). Yes, DH isn’t perfect and you would have to dig around for good stores (or maybe the girls wasn’t comfortable?). I’ve been there and a few bait and switch lol.

Though for the majority of cases, everything was smooth and had even gone over time as you shower before and after (which most girls actually clean you up too), never had a rush service or wasted time. Anyways, Ive had but positive interactions over there and my only complain is communications with the girls can be hard (which is on me, I need to learn my Japanese).

edit: did you ask for the secret menu?? Or she just straight up said no FS to you and did she advertise AF (which really means FS, you just have to pay extra)? I find that if you don’t directly ask her nicely, some girls they don’t offer it.
 
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Maybe it was just my experience last month but it wasn’t good. The Osaka gaijin tax was about 50000 yen and when the “local” rate is only 110000 yen that’s almost a 50% markup.

in Tokyo the DH at a love hotel was the most mechanical, boring thing I’ve ever experienced. And this was from a reputable, well reviewed agency over there. No FS with most of the time eaten up with her fidgeting, making the shower warm, weird washing protocols, etc. mileage is was better here IMO.
Yeah sorry I disagree with you as well. Maybe you’ve gotten into some crazy ripoff but i have not had any issue with FS or service quality. All of the visiting JP providers at XDS and whatever in Vancouver are all typically working at Delivery Health agencies in JP… their service here is basically the minimum you would expect in JP… the reviews here are glowing right??

so yeah, 110,000Y plus 50,000Y foreigner tax = 160,000Y is NUTS. It’s wrong. Even at the best soapload it’s max at about 100,000Y for 2 hrs inclusive of foreigner tax and misc fees. And Osaka is not more expensive, instead I find it’s mostly cheaper as they cater to mass volume of sex tourism from China, while many providers are actually Chinese girls.

DH is the easiest and most reliable as I’ve already pointed out. It’s foolish to generalize that it’s a service that’s mechanical… that’s just up to the girl, no different than pooning here or anywhere. There are TONS of DH agencies and girls and just send to your own hotel for outcall… less of a nuisance than dealing with a love hotel. FS is not a problem at all with DH girls. Service requests / “extras” are common too and Google Translate can perfectly convey “cum in mouth”, “rimming”, “kissing with tongue”, etc. Even “bbbj” gets translated perfectly but I wouldnt trust the iPhone Translate app.

so I’m sorry I really think your experience is a total outlier… like WAAAY OFF. It’s a real disservice turning our fellow perbs away from Japan cuz it’s a ton of fun but it just can be massively frustrating trying to figure it out for the first time in another language. Booking DH for about 20,000Y per hour is pretty common plus foreigner tax so in total it’s about $300-400 CAD… thats outcall and isnt it reasonable? The highest per hour I have ever paid for DH is 50,000Y including foreigner tax, fees, and FS, but that was with a “platinum level” high end JAV model who was absolutely really fucking hot… like out of this world.

if you DO research on your own and decipher the system in a foreign country then it’s awesome… or just use the concierge service I provided and there’s an upcharge about another $100 but you pay for having them take care of everything for you. You’ll love it!
 
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Yeah sorry I disagree with you as well. Maybe you’ve gotten into some crazy ripoff but i have not had any issue with FS or service quality. All of the visiting JP providers at XDS and whatever in Vancouver are all typically working at Delivery Health agencies in JP… their service here is basically the minimum you would expect in JP… the reviews here are glowing right??

so yeah, 110,000Y plus 50,000Y foreigner tax = 160,000Y is NUTS. It’s wrong. Even at the best soapload it’s max at about 100,000Y for 2 hrs inclusive of foreigner tax and misc fees. And Osaka is not more expensive, instead I find it’s mostly cheaper as they cater to mass volume of sex tourism from China, while many providers are actually Chinese girls.

DH is the easiest and most reliable as I’ve already pointed out. It’s foolish to generalize that it’s a service that’s mechanical… that’s just up to the girl, no different than pooning here or anywhere. There are TONS of DH agencies and girls and just send to your own hotel for outcall… less of a nuisance than dealing with a love hotel. FS is not a problem at all with DH girls. Service requests / “extras” are common too and Google Translate can perfectly convey “cum in mouth”, “rimming”, “kissing with tongue”, etc. Even “bbbj” gets translated perfectly but I wouldnt trust the iPhone Translate app.

so I’m sorry I really think your experience is a total outlier… like WAAAY OFF. It’s a real disservice turning our fellow perbs away from Japan cuz it’s a ton of fun but it just can be massively frustrating trying to figure it out for the first time in another language. Booking DH for about 20,000Y per hour is pretty common plus foreigner tax so in total it’s about $300-400 CAD… thats outcall and isnt it reasonable? The highest per hour I have ever paid for DH is 50,000Y including foreigner tax, fees, and FS, but that was with a “platinum level” high end JAV model who was absolutely really fucking hot… like out of this world.

if you DO research on your own and decipher the system in a foreign country then it’s awesome… or just use the concierge service I provided and there’s an upcharge about another $100 but you pay for having them take care of everything for you. You’ll love it!
Oh man, sorry, added one too many 0’s to that but still 50% markup.

I’ve had good experiences with Japanese escorts here from the typical Asian agencies so if they’re working at DH groups over there maybe those ones give decent services but the one I went to in Tokyo was straight up well reviewed over and over on the adult forums over there. I’m not really sure what happened but it just sucked all around. Their “incall” rate wasn’t even fair when the minute you pay they wrote out a slip and say go to the nearby hotel and wait 10 minutes. Go there and then pay another $30 for a room. I personally just felt it was just a way to slightly deceive the customer thinking “ok, all in its $xxx and then it’s really $xxx++”
 

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Oh man, sorry, added one too many 0’s to that but still 50% markup.

I’ve had good experiences with Japanese escorts here from the typical Asian agencies so if they’re working at DH groups over there maybe those ones give decent services but the one I went to in Tokyo was straight up well reviewed over and over on the adult forums over there. I’m not really sure what happened but it just sucked all around. Their “incall” rate wasn’t even fair when the minute you pay they wrote out a slip and say go to the nearby hotel and wait 10 minutes. Go there and then pay another $30 for a room. I personally just felt it was just a way to slightly deceive the customer thinking “ok, all in its $xxx and then it’s really $xxx++”
Let’s get this straight for everyone… that is NOT what’s supposed to happen. Sounds textbook M.O. like you’ve just gone into Kabukicho which is exactly what almost every guide and forum would tell you NOT to go cuz it’s scattered with scams by yakuza. If you only paid 11,000Y plus 5,000Y for the hour then that’s like a $150 CAD basic service at a rub & tug joint here … and probably in Kabukicho… it takes alot to fuck up this bad, son, finding like the bottom 5% of pooning options there and then prejudice the entire SW industry in Japan

Of course it was absolute shit and mechanical… this is exactly what me and the other gents are trying to help OP to avoid in Japan so he can get good service, not to just generally shit on pooning in Japan
 
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Oh man, sorry, added one too many 0’s to that but still 50% markup.

I’ve had good experiences with Japanese escorts here from the typical Asian agencies so if they’re working at DH groups over there maybe those ones give decent services but the one I went to in Tokyo was straight up well reviewed over and over on the adult forums over there. I’m not really sure what happened but it just sucked all around. Their “incall” rate wasn’t even fair when the minute you pay they wrote out a slip and say go to the nearby hotel and wait 10 minutes. Go there and then pay another $30 for a room. I personally just felt it was just a way to slightly deceive the customer thinking “ok, all in its $xxx and then it’s really $xxx++”
yea unfortunately they got you. If you would like to give a 2nd chance (which I highly recommend) book and search through cityheaven.net and do DH service. It has good legit reviews and reputable stores with fairly reasonable prices. But still do your research as reviews and photos can be faked.

I’d also join/search Japanese specific forums version like PERB, they usually provide which stores does bait and switches. They also provide info regarding different stores sending the same girls despite different pictures being listed.

stores that are legitimate will provide all the necessary information you need without hesitation: Girls list, availability, rates, list of service included in the rates, and specific “extras”/“add on” a girl might provide for extra $ (NOTE: real ones don’t confirm FS on phone but will offer “AF” and some would say it’s between you and the girl in the room). Then you would just need to confirm your hotel, room, and name. You wait and the girl would show up to your hotel room door. Personally, I prefer meeting them in the lobby or elevator just in case they bait and switch or highly edited the posted pictures which you can easily refuse. It’s hard to kick her out inside your own room and they usually say “no cancellation” but it’s not really set in stone (ie just pay for her transport cost 2000¥ to save headaches).
 
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Just hit up an indie and meet them at your hotel or a lovely hotel. Just look at the site below its their version of Perb and in English.

https://tokyoadultguide.com/
This is the only answer. I worked in Tokyo for 12 years and everything on TAG is accurate.

I'll add for anyone else reading, hit up Twitter/X and go to the girls directly. Even though I lived there and speak the language, I still got rejected sometimes at the door at the old 風俗, so skip the middle man and go direct.

Another option is the website massagerepublic - tokyo. Lots of foreign-experienced J-girls there. It's also a hidden gem for working girls from across Asia that are 19-23, hot as hell, and traveling to Tokyo to have some sex for money and go on a shopping spree at Louis Vuitton while pretending they are an influencer. You can get them for as little as 2万 (if you haggle!)

Though if you're visiting Japan, maybe you guys only want J-girls 😅
 

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Reporting back: no luck while I was there. There were plenty of massage parlours, but none that would accept foreigners. Some of the places had websites, but were clearly not catering to English speaking tourists. It's strange that in a such an extremely fetishized culture, they would not have this. I mean, all you have to do is go to the bottom floors of many shopping centres to see hundreds of young girls all dressed up in various anime/cosplay outfits looking like their favourite characters. I know they do it for themselves and to fit into a subculture there, but the Japanese people have a very strange way of expressing their perverseness. It's all white shirts, dress pants/skirts, prim and proper, holding a fan and dabbing their face with a Hello Kitty handkerchief sitting in silence on the subway, while the young girl next to them is scantily clad in a very revealing short private girl mini-skirt with make up like sailor moon. No eye contact by anyone. Trains just for women, which are mostly used by school children. Anyway, Japan is still an amazing place to visit, and some of the woman there are just incredible. There is not shortage of beautiful young ladies there, but just like anywhere, also a fair share of butter faces.
 

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I'm going to Tokyo in 2 weeks. I saw a place in Shibuya that is quite popular called Tokyo Amatuer Escorts. On their website, they seem to be fine with foreigners and the prices seem reasonable.

Am I missing something?
 

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I'm going to Tokyo in 2 weeks. I saw a place in Shibuya that is quite popular called Tokyo Amatuer Escorts. On their website, they seem to be fine with foreigners and the prices seem reasonable.

Am I missing something?
Make sure it’s not bait and switch. Meet at the lobby first and don’t say your room number. If it’s too good to be true it’s too good to be true. Also mostly the price is just for her time and transportation, the deed and extras is an additional charge.
 

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People saying to save their money for home and that Japan is not worth it is just crazy advice. I haven't had the time to read through all of this thread since I just discovered it but I plan to come back and read through. Many of my favorite experiences with providers have been in Japan. Obviously you'll have access to much more if you can speak Japanese but even if you can't There are so many great options and a decent amount more affordable than here in BC as well.
TAG (Tokyo adult guide) is the first place you should be looking for information.
 
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