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Dying in the Saddle

-Yi-

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This recent thread discussing about death reminded me of the death of one of my elder relatives, who was a widower for a long time, decided to marry with a much younger woman, then subsequently died from cardiac arrest during the first night spent with her. This recollection also reminded me of a short story I read before (Bliss, from Crime by Ferdinand von Schirach), where a client died from heart attack while receiving oral from an escort, and the chaos that followed because of his death.

I know the chance of something like this to occur is very rare, but I cannot help to imagine if I happened to die during a session with an escort. Despite it being an embarrassing way to go, I'd still feel bad to put her in such unfortunate dilemma. So I'm curious to know if there's any sort of preparation that a client can do beforehand (eg: a disclaimer note stored in wallet) that will relieve any responsibility from the escort, in order to encourage the escort to reach out to the police?
 

Miss Hunter

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If a client has a heart attack during session, the SP should call 911. Even if the person dies, an autopsy can be done to determine the cause of death. As long as the person you’re with is a decent human being there’s no need to worry.

And anyways, if they act paranoid, don’t seek help for the client and try to cover up whatever happened... they’re a piece of scum who deserves whatever they get.
 

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A few years ago I read a story about a guy in Israel(I think) who went to a massage parlor.

When he opened the door to the room where his massage-girl was waiting, it was his daughter!
Reportedly, he had a non-fatal heart attack.
I don't know if the story is true, but I guess the scenario is possible?
 

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Many years ago I had a massage session with an SP. She told me a story of a client having a heart attack during a session. Naturally, she called for an ambulance. The paramedics came and took the guy away, totally cool about it. No personal questions were asked.

Presumably the guy lived, and I suppose he would have had to explain something to his friends and family about where he was when he had his heart attack.
 

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Obviously the gal should call 911....pretty ruthless not to.I remember when I worked and was living in North Vancouver reading about how a senior had a heart attack at a Skytrain platform and he dropped to the ground writhing in pain.Nobody did anything other than step over him to get on the Skytrain to get home....fucking disgusting selfish behaviour.I know how to perform CPR and if called upon I would do so....same as if I saw some nutjob with a semi-automatic rifle shooting people I would act and use my truck as a weapon to either run the bastard over or pin him against a building regardless to the risk of my own safety.If I could save anyone from death in that situation especially if it is many people it is a rational transaction.

Sadly compassion in our Society is going the way of the dodo bird,especially with regards to veterans......just my 2 cents.

SR
 

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Obviously the gal should call 911....pretty ruthless not to.I remember when I worked and was living in North Vancouver reading about how a senior had a heart attack at a Skytrain platform and he dropped to the ground writhing in pain.Nobody did anything other than step over him to get on the Skytrain to get home....fucking disgusting selfish behaviour.I know how to perform CPR and if called upon I would do so....same as if I saw some nutjob with a semi-automatic rifle shooting people I would act and use my truck as a weapon to either run the bastard over or pin him against a building regardless to the risk of my own safety.
Talk is cheap. You do lots of it.
 

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Surprisingly, a heart attack during sex is quite rare.

I thinkI read most happen early in the morning, after waking up.
 

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Many years ago I had a massage session with an SP. She told me a story of a client having a heart attack during a session. Naturally, she called for an ambulance. The paramedics came and took the guy away, totally cool about it. No personal questions were asked.
I knew a woman who had almost the exact same experience. A guy had an attack at her incall.
911 despatcher talked her through CPR, the ambulance guys said she definitely saved his life.
 

clu

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same as if I saw some nutjob with a semi-automatic rifle shooting people I would act and use my truck as a weapon to either run the bastard over or pin him against a building regardless to the risk of my own safety.If I could save anyone from death in that situation especially if it is many people it is a rational transaction.
Even if you knew the people you saved planned to vote Liberal next month? :D
 

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If a client has a heart attack during session, the SP should call 911. Even if the person dies, an autopsy can be done to determine the cause of death. As long as the person you’re with is a decent human being there’s no need to worry.
Many years ago I had a massage session with an SP. She told me a story of a client having a heart attack during a session. Naturally, she called for an ambulance. The paramedics came and took the guy away, totally cool about it. No personal questions were asked.
Obviously the gal should call 911....pretty ruthless not to.
I knew a woman who had almost the exact same experience. A guy had an attack at her incall.
911 despatcher talked her through CPR, the ambulance guys said she definitely saved his life.
Thank you all for the responses. I must admit that I was quite caught up with the short story I read that I completely forgot about 911 as an option. In the story, the client was already dead when the escort noticed, and she was afraid to contact the police because she's illegal immigrant, that her first response was to run out and ask her other escort friend for help.

I remember when I worked and was living in North Vancouver reading about how a senior had a heart attack at a Skytrain platform and he dropped to the ground writhing in pain.Nobody did anything other than step over him to get on the Skytrain to get home....fucking disgusting selfish behaviour.I know how to perform CPR and if called upon I would do so....
If something like that happens, I'd push the emergency red button/use the emergency phone on the platform, or pressing the yellow strip/intercom if it happens in skytrain. I believe this way the help will arrive faster than calling 911, which some time might be wasted on explaining the location and waiting for dispatcher to coordinate help.

Sadly compassion in our Society is going the way of the dodo bird,especially with regards to veterans......just my 2 cents.
I don't believe that compassion is completely gone. I think that media focuses a lot more on negativity side of our society that make it seem like no one cares about anyone. When I was communting on Canada Line, I witnessed a guy just dropped down on the ground, fainted, the crowd were responsive and contacted transit police right away. They all move away to make room for the guy to lie down and clear a path for the police to help the guy away. I thought it was quite impressive, given it was jampacked during rush hour after 5pm. Does something like that get reported? Nope.

same as if I saw some nutjob with a semi-automatic rifle shooting people I would act and use my truck as a weapon to either run the bastard over or pin him against a building regardless to the risk of my own safety.If I could save anyone from death in that situation especially if it is many people it is a rational transaction.
Even if you knew the people you saved planned to vote Liberal next month? :D
It is a noble thing to be able to help and willing to help when you see others are in need of help. Not everyone is ready or had proper training to react like that. And given the urgency of the said situation, I'd assume political difference would be the least of anyone's concern.
 

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I don't believe that compassion is completely gone. [...] It is a noble thing to be able to help and willing to help when you see others are in need of help. Not everyone is ready or had proper training to react like that. And given the urgency of the said situation, I'd assume political difference would be the least of anyone's concern.
Oh I totally agree. It was just a friendly dig at SR's reputation here of lambasting us "left wing socialist/communist liberals." I was just amused that he of all people was lamenting the loss of compassion for strangers in need.
 

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1. What if the SP had a heart attack during a session?

2. Personally speaking, if I ever had a heart attack or stroke, I hope I get it at around 55 minutes mark so at least I get my money’s worth out of potentially last session of my life.

3. Also, I hope I just die if I am in such a situation because I would have a hard time explaining things to my SO.
 
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MissingOne

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...I don't believe that compassion is completely gone. I think that media focuses a lot more on negativity side of our society that make it seem like no one cares about anyone. When I was communting on Canada Line, I witnessed a guy just dropped down on the ground, fainted, the crowd were responsive and contacted transit police right away. They all move away to make room for the guy to lie down and clear a path for the police to help the guy away. I thought it was quite impressive, given it was jampacked during rush hour after 5pm. Does something like that get reported? Nope. ...
I was on a bus a few years ago, when a guy had a heart attack. The response by other passengers was superb. They got a CPR team going and saved the guy's life. I never saw that event reported in the news.
 

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I used to think dying in the saddle was the ultimate way to leave this world.

I guess seeing a few family and others die has changed my attitude about death. It can leave a permanent mark on someone’s life.

It would be quite traumatic for an SP to have a client die when with her.
 

MRGREEN

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A bit close to the bone as it were...........asymptomatic undiagnosed 8.5 AAA which was ready to blow any time. A timebomb and a bit of a walking miracle apparently. Would have sucked to have it blow while you know........... being blowed. Open surgical repair...........no erectile dysfunction but nerve damage so I no longer ejaculate on orgasm. Too bad... I had pretty good jets...

All in all no complaints... :)

Peace
MG
 

JimDandy

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It seems like this is a topic that Sybian should be commenting on. Of course in his case, his comments might refer to literally dying in the saddle :)

JD
 

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Obviously the gal should call 911....pretty ruthless not to.I remember when I worked and was living in North Vancouver reading about how a senior had a heart attack at a Skytrain platform and he dropped to the ground writhing in pain.Nobody did anything other than step over him to get on the Skytrain to get home....fucking disgusting selfish behaviour.I know how to perform CPR and if called upon I would do so....same as if I saw some nutjob with a semi-automatic rifle shooting people I would act and use my truck as a weapon to either run the bastard over or pin him against a building regardless to the risk of my own safety.If I could save anyone from death in that situation especially if it is many people it is a rational transaction.

Sadly compassion in our Society is going the way of the dodo bird,especially with regards to veterans......just my 2 cents.

SR
Same here in that nutjob shooter scenario but I'd sic my dog on the guy then hog tie him with my rope before he's able to reload.
 

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Apparently... True story.. A work colleague told me.. When he was in his late teens his father, who was a GP in St.Boniface MB., allowed him to come along on a call one evening... The call was from a young lady and she said to "Come quick, Pierre, he not feeling so good." We arrived at the door and were greeted by a very nice looking young lady in a housecoat. Pierre was on the toilet in the bathroom, a bottle of Gin on the floor beside him.... deceased.
 

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I have often wondered what if!
Let’s say I was with an Sp and something happened that required me to go to the hospital
So most of us married guys will be somewhere where we are not supposed to be.
For example I am supposed to be playing golf,
So now, where is the car! Where are my clothes
All very embarrassing.
And lots of explaining.
I have often thought of my car was broken into or I had an accident
And I am nowhere near the golf course.
Hmmmmmm
 
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