I am more curious about the ladies opinions on this, but not discouraging all input. I am in my fifties, and don't find many ladies my age attractive. I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm definitely not as pretty as I once was. I tend to gravitate to ladies over 30 as to feel less like a fool, also it's hard to find a younger lady with the maturity to be in this business. There are a few, especially the travelling girls with good reputations. I'm just wondering if the age thing plays on the younger providers minds, or just my hang up. There a few younger ladies I would like to see, but this hang up of mine is preventing me from doing so.
Does the age difference matter?
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I'm in the same boat as you. Not really attracted to many ladies my own age, and not really comfortable with those under 30. There are exceptions; Manuella was one of my all time favorites. I look at it this way, no matter the age the experience can be hit or miss. It all depends on how you and the SP connect. I'm sure there are some providers that prefer a younger clientele, but they aren't likely to turn you away because of age.
This topic has been discussed a lot. Most of the people who start such threads are older men, like myself.... 
I used to feel that way but trust me there are men above 60 who are still partaking and having a great time.
There are girls who don't mind seeing older men. In fact many of them prefer to see men over 30 or even 35. So don't worry. Keep going. No need to hang up yet.
If you ask me, as far as younger girls are concerned, best are in their late 20's to late 30's. You still get the pleasure of being with younger girls and get great service.
I used to feel that way but trust me there are men above 60 who are still partaking and having a great time. There are girls who don't mind seeing older men. In fact many of them prefer to see men over 30 or even 35. So don't worry. Keep going. No need to hang up yet.
If you ask me, as far as younger girls are concerned, best are in their late 20's to late 30's. You still get the pleasure of being with younger girls and get great service.
It's a business transaction.....I found that age is usually not a factor. Some SP's may have an age restriction...but that's like restaurants..No Shoes, No Shirt, No Service kind of a thing. Mind you when I've had SP's ask my age and I tell them that I'm wearing underwear older then they are things usually go sideways.
I do ok with the civvie 25 year olds.....I'm in my mid 40's, so I'm attracted to ladies approaching my own age.
I've noticed that women who do this for a living....and are 30 or older, don't just mount up and grab a handful of mane.
They get into your head....a 20 year old might screw your brains out with her stamina ....but a 30 + woman will study you, Understanding that the male mind, although not complex, likes to be seduced, and played with a bit.
She is experienced, and will take her time ,bringing you eventually to the place you both want to go.
She knows there is far more to it ,than just banging your brains out.....
And besides....The older the violin, the sweeter the music.
I've noticed that women who do this for a living....and are 30 or older, don't just mount up and grab a handful of mane.
They get into your head....a 20 year old might screw your brains out with her stamina ....but a 30 + woman will study you, Understanding that the male mind, although not complex, likes to be seduced, and played with a bit.
She is experienced, and will take her time ,bringing you eventually to the place you both want to go.
She knows there is far more to it ,than just banging your brains out.....
And besides....The older the violin, the sweeter the music.
That's cuz they think you've been wearing 'em that long. You gotta at least let the girls know that your underwear is clean outta the laundry
Damn!...beat me to it.That's cuz they think you've been wearing 'em that long. You gotta at least let the girls know that your underwear is clean outta the laundry
90% of the time I see ladies that are in their late 30s to early 50s I am in my late 60s BTW. However I do see a youngun once in a while. One Sp 21 Is super. loads of experience, cute, good conversation and all round good friend... then there is ine last week, Well may i suggest you see my review in the Victoria Section. She is 18 and was a real piece of work No scam but Zero everything else except not bad looks. To each his own I guess or YMMV
I used to have a personal window of say 27 to 40 something year olds and enjoyed those ladies a lot. I started seeing a few early 20 year olds and found they were accepting of me.This topic has been discussed a lot. Most of the people who start such threads are older men, like myself....
There are girls who don't mind seeing older men. In fact many of them prefer to see men over 30 or even 35. So don't worry. Keep going. No need to hang up yet.
If you ask me, as far as younger girls are concerned, best are in their late 20's to late 30's. You still get the pleasure of being with younger girls and get great service.
At the end of the day it's all about being respectful, fun, clean and being interactive with them rather than just looking to be serviced. My $0.02
I will say one thing though; seeing younger women with great bodies, facially attractive who are highly sexual has totally fucked me for any type of non - SP personal relationship with someone my age.
I've been seeing gentleman in their 50s since I was in my early 20s with no problems. I have always related much better to older people. As a child, I hated other children and preferred the company of people much older. When I started grade 9 at age 13, my friends were 21-30. I think this came from raising myself and only having exposure to adults other than the children in school. Even now, I don't find that I relate as well to people my own age as I do those 20 years older. I'm also what I'll personally consider an old fashioned person (I don't even own a cell phone) despite the fact my degree is in Technology so I relate better to people who can remember a simpler time and black and white TV.
This might not sit well with others (esp ladies) but I will say it nevertheless.
The ladies who will respond will be the ladies who have no problem seeing older gentlemen. Which is true in most cases. I'd be surprised if a younger SP responded to this thread by saying that she prefers NOT TO see us older men.
Like BBB said, just me $0.02.
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From the time I was a young adult, I've always been attracted to older men, and was actually married for 10 yrs to a man 20 yrs older than myself. Needless to say it didn't work out, but 10 years is not bad! lol... I know younger sp's in their mid-20's to mature sp's over 45... none of them have had an issue with age from what I've seen in duos and heard from mutual clients who discuss the option of duos. There has been one of my gfs who was an sp briefly who just could not get past the age difference and she was not particularly young either late 20's. She said her upper age limit is 42 or so, although she did say she'd consider even a 50 yr old if the chemistry was hot. I always ask my other sp friends these specific questions so I know what they are comfortable with or not. Its all about the mutual comfort, both ways... Obviously there are exceptions to every rule, some younger sp's are experienced and drop dead gorgeous, and some mature gents for whatever reason, may find themselves attracting younger ladies that they never thought possible, and some younger gents have most definitely been attracted to mature and experienced ladies...then there are people like my girlfriend who prefer a similar age within 5 or 6 years ideally. I know another sp 25 yrs old who is happy with all men any age, super warm and sweet no matter any age gent
I'll raise you a penny .
To a degree and not every man.
Up until my mid twenties I always went with older women. 10-20 years older.
Women my age used sex like a bargaining tool. Angling towards getting a ring.
Women with children were the best.
They wanted sex FOR the sex.
But I have to admit that back then, I doubt I could have performed with a woman 40 or 50 yrs. older. While it might be easier for a woman in that situation ... it would still be tough.
