Wanted to add this to the Jazmine thread but MOD has locked it.
I recently had a birthday meeting with a very well reviewed, respected provider.
She was having a bad day and she forgot some details (ie It was my birthday). She felt very bad and offered me a makeup session.
I took her up on it. Second session was a lot of fun.
In otherwords:
Ladies:
I get sometimes you have a bad day or you mature as a provider and finally get the business side of things (good service provides repeat business). Of course as you mature you will lose some of the appeal of being younger but gain experience and technique. Want new clients; have an occassional special. A lot of ladies I used to visit have priced themselves out of the market. Have a bad review, offer the client a make up session and apologize. Flaking out = bad reviews. Know you're about to have a flake out / bad day: respectfully reschedule the appointment with as much time as possible. Nobody likes having their time wasted. If you want to, I wouldn't say no to the occasional SP generated 'bootie call' for a favoured, sensitive, well hung client. Hey wait... are those 2 thumbs pointed at me? What about the occassional movie invite or client dinner. Business people do it all the time to show appreciation to their best clients. Even The Source has door crasher events. Hint, hint. I recently got a direct email from House of Knives to a super secret first time ever warehouse sale with really awesome mark downs.... just sayin'.
On a completely different subject ladies, visit Thailand, learn to do Soapy massage, and for God's sake, start offering it. Nuru massage has downsides. Last time I did it in Vancouver, the gel solidified on my lower back and created a gummy, hair pulling residue. Not the happy ending I expected.
Guys:
YMMV! Unlike the really cool Japanese vending machine porn (or the instant hard on generating flexi doll fun), providers are people. They take a lot of risks, work in a potentially dangerous, illegal (super stressful) environment. There is a super delicate balancing act between providing a sensual service and allowing some stranger (potential lunatic) access to the most sensitive, intimate parts of youself. This is why they have restrictions. Respect them. All situations are fluid. If you booked some greek but neglected to mention you're above average in girth don't be surprised if she balks. Remember every woman has the right to say no. AND FOR FUCKS SAKE, STOP PAYING MORE THAN $250-$260 A SESSION. YOU'RE PRICING THE REST OF US OUT OF THE MARKET. Hard enough to buy a condo in this town, I don't want to get a second mortgage to have some fun. As it is I can only afford super providers on my birthday or valentines day. Think of it this way: when will you be more upset if you paid $400 for an hour and she has a bad day or if you paid $200 per hour and she had a bad day?
Respect, professionalism and good manners are a 2 way street.
'nuff said.
I recently had a birthday meeting with a very well reviewed, respected provider.
She was having a bad day and she forgot some details (ie It was my birthday). She felt very bad and offered me a makeup session.
I took her up on it. Second session was a lot of fun.
In otherwords:
Ladies:
I get sometimes you have a bad day or you mature as a provider and finally get the business side of things (good service provides repeat business). Of course as you mature you will lose some of the appeal of being younger but gain experience and technique. Want new clients; have an occassional special. A lot of ladies I used to visit have priced themselves out of the market. Have a bad review, offer the client a make up session and apologize. Flaking out = bad reviews. Know you're about to have a flake out / bad day: respectfully reschedule the appointment with as much time as possible. Nobody likes having their time wasted. If you want to, I wouldn't say no to the occasional SP generated 'bootie call' for a favoured, sensitive, well hung client. Hey wait... are those 2 thumbs pointed at me? What about the occassional movie invite or client dinner. Business people do it all the time to show appreciation to their best clients. Even The Source has door crasher events. Hint, hint. I recently got a direct email from House of Knives to a super secret first time ever warehouse sale with really awesome mark downs.... just sayin'.
On a completely different subject ladies, visit Thailand, learn to do Soapy massage, and for God's sake, start offering it. Nuru massage has downsides. Last time I did it in Vancouver, the gel solidified on my lower back and created a gummy, hair pulling residue. Not the happy ending I expected.
Guys:
YMMV! Unlike the really cool Japanese vending machine porn (or the instant hard on generating flexi doll fun), providers are people. They take a lot of risks, work in a potentially dangerous, illegal (super stressful) environment. There is a super delicate balancing act between providing a sensual service and allowing some stranger (potential lunatic) access to the most sensitive, intimate parts of youself. This is why they have restrictions. Respect them. All situations are fluid. If you booked some greek but neglected to mention you're above average in girth don't be surprised if she balks. Remember every woman has the right to say no. AND FOR FUCKS SAKE, STOP PAYING MORE THAN $250-$260 A SESSION. YOU'RE PRICING THE REST OF US OUT OF THE MARKET. Hard enough to buy a condo in this town, I don't want to get a second mortgage to have some fun. As it is I can only afford super providers on my birthday or valentines day. Think of it this way: when will you be more upset if you paid $400 for an hour and she has a bad day or if you paid $200 per hour and she had a bad day?
Respect, professionalism and good manners are a 2 way street.
'nuff said.
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