Do you guys ever go to SPs together with a friend as a social outing?

[johnA27]

How do you usually go about it? Is it even something that people do with buddies?

I would imagine indies are quite hard to do this with, especially if they work out of a hotel. If not, still rare for them to have 2 rooms available, and for them to bring a friend.

I guess the only option is to go to agencies that have multiple rooms? I guess agencies are easier to book with too especially if you're booking only a few hours in advance.

 

[resercher]

How do you usually go about it? Is it even something that people do with buddies?

I would imagine indies are quite hard to do this with, especially if they work out of a hotel. If not, still rare for them to have 2 rooms available, and for them to bring a friend.

I guess the only option is to go to agencies that have multiple rooms? I guess agencies are easier to book with too especially if you're booking only a few hours in advance.

In answer to your question I know some sp are willing to service two men at once . If the room is a problem hotels with day rates,
As well as local sex clubs or gay man's bath houses Can be used.
If you go to either of the sex clubs or bath houses .
Be certain that you know the sp and her co worker enough .So they are not going to run off with your cash
I have seen that happen quite often .
Sex clubs and bath houses usually have a no prostitution policy in effect
. Some sp will sugest them as a place to go and once the guy has his pants off she robs him.


Never personally done it but some men do have other men with them when they visit escorts . I have seen it done.
I was visiting a local massage parlor and two employees just finishing work i from a public utility service.
In full uniform. They
parked there vehicle in front of the massage parlor and walked in .
From the looks of things one of them was much louder and seemed to know most of the women so i think it was his idea .
My guess is that either he wanted to black mail his co worker or they where real good friends.



The following is common sense and may not need to be said however just in case .

. ask yourself why you want to bring another man with you to see escorts or prostitutes. .
Think about the possible later results of your actions .
Determine that your little social outing can not be used against you .
Even just suggesting you go to see some prostitutes as a social outing could cause you trouble .
Check that that your friend does not bring along his cell phone or any other recording device with him
You do not want a permanent record that will affect you later in life and be known as
The guy from the " my friend the pimp you tube video " or the jhon visits prostitute video or whatever other derogatory label it might get .


people love to play Now I’ve Got You, You Son of a Bitch (NIGYSOB)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Games_People_Play_(book)


Good luck to you.

 

[johnA27]

Hmm I guess the blackmail thing is certainly a possibility that I'd keep in mind. Otherwise it's just to have an accomplice/enabler for an activity that's not hugely accepted everywhere. So how bout assume blackmailing is not a priority concern?

And I guess I am asking about all of the 2 men double team one lady, 2 men 2 lady same spot, and 2 men 2 lady but in separate rooms variety. Which one is usually done?

 

[Ray]

I've mentioned here before that I was introduced to this hobby by my best friend at the time. Went to a massage place in Richmond that offered happy endings. We each went into our own separate rooms where we did our own thing.

A few years later, he tried to blackmail me with this by insisting I share my wife with him. Needless to say, we're not friends anymore, and I only partake by myself.

 

[Squishy]

No way would I ever partake in this hobby with a "friend" alongside.

This is strictly a loner activity as far as I'm concerned. I wouldn't trust anyone who knew me enough to keep it a secret.

Not that they're not good friends (in all other respects) but why give someone else that kind of leverage over you - as Ray above very effectively pointed out.

 

[87112]

Never would I go to a strip club or red light district with a guy. This is not sex in the city the male version.

 

[johnA27]

Hm I wonder though... There's no way that its such a bad thing, guys go to strip clubs together all the time, some order strippers for stag together all the time, and there'd be FS at those stags.

 

[Kamloopsbc]

Hm I wonder though... There's no way that its such a bad thing, guys go to strip clubs together all the time, some order strippers for stag together all the time, and there'd be FS at those stags.

I golf, fish, hike, boat, motorcycle, have lunch with them, and more.
But no damn way am i going with my pals to get serviced.

 

[johnsmit]

I got no problem doingvthat any of the friends I have made in this business
I did a 4 some with some guy I met on the board and only met up once before we booked with the girls .
I would of been great if some of our games night that a group of us once had , would turned in to a orgy or gang bang..But it never did :-(.
Although some of the girl that attended did get a visit from a few of the guy.

 

[johnsmit]

Going with a good friend that sees escort allso
Is a great boarding experience. I think there are many young guys that do that sex in the same room stuff

 

[Cami Parker]

Great if you met your friend through this hobby, but I think the quandary lives in how to bring it up to a friend who may or may not have done this before. People can seem super cool, but then it turns out they're judgemental about the sex industry as it is a touchy subject for some. That's why I make sure to tell everyone about my life right away... So I only hang out with the super cool non-judgmental peeps

I got no problem doingvthat any of the friends I have made in this business
I did a 4 some with some guy I met on the board and only met up once before we booked with the girls .
I would of been great if some of our games night that a group of us once had , would turned in to a orgy or gang bang..But it never did :-(.
Although some of the girl that attended did get a visit from a few of the guy.

 

[johnsmit]

I also generally only have friends that know I am involved with escorts. So most are either escorts or a few guys I met from the busines
Family knew I did driving for escorts to call .

 

[johnA27]

I dont know why I have some friends that told me they've tried pooning pretty easily, and so I was able to open up to a few select friends what I have done. It just seems like its a much more common thing than I imagined, even amongst younger people (I am only in my late 20s, which if I understand, is young for a pooner).

Tho for me even the friends that might want to go together, they're not up for having me watch them or watch me. I personally wouldnt mind watching lol, since in a way if my friend is doing her then I am doing her through my friend? Live my life through my friend? I dont know. Heck I think there's SPs that have male SP friends that offer that sort of session, though I imagine its a bit expensive to be just a spectator.

Though I imagine most indie SPs would not have 2 separate bedrooms to be able to host her own client, and her friend + other client. Right?

 

[Ray]

...mentioned about a 'friend' blackmailing him if he didn't share his wife.. haha seriously? was the other man not also cheating on his wife?

He was single.
He did end up in a serious long term relationship for a number of years, and possibly stopped going to providers, but was still obsessed with my SO. Caused the break up of his relationship, and a return to SPs. His obsession made us stop hanging out when he insisted I share because I had spent time elsewhere.
Yes, he offered to swap and engage in foursomes too. His GF was ok with that idea. Mine was not.

 

[uncleg]

Yup....didn't start out that way, but the selection was slim....so,what the hell, why not.

 

[resercher]

Great if you met your friend through this hobby, but I think the quandary lives in how to bring it up to a friend who may or may not have done this before. People can seem super cool, but then it turns out they're judgemental about the sex industry as it is a touchy subject for some. That's why I make sure to tell everyone about my life right away... So I only hang out with the super cool non-judgmental peeps

Thinking about Jugmental thinking this comment made me think of another thing to be considered if your taking a friend along . He might see it an insult . I will hear the most unattractive of men who are not in any relationship with any female say "I get it for free I do not have to pay for it " If you have friend who does not have a girlfriend or wife .
I would approach the topic of prostitution in general somehow. Using a news story or whatever Just to check he does not have the "Olney losers who cant get a girlfriend / wife / one night stand go to see escorts . Idea


I unfortunately observed first hand the installation this type of sick thinking . I went to the auto show at what was then called the Winnipeg convention center

The Auto show had an male actor there who was signing autographs . In the line was what looked to be either an older relative or father and his teenage son . The younger man was repeatedly complaining To the older man. That they had missed the autograph sighing time with the playboy bunny . ( playboy used to have their latest girl go to the auto show's to sell magazines) The older relative then finally lost it he started yelling at the younger man and he said .


" Oh that's right I forgot you don't have a girlfriend you cant get one can you . How about we go to the low track on main street and get you some cheap In**** whore .For you to fuck . So you can lose your fucking virginity .
How getting the autograph from the playboy bunny . Had anything to do with using the services of A prostitute. I do not even want to think about . but there was that sentence " you cant get a girlfriend so I am going to take you to see a prostitute."



The *** is not a spelling mistake I just do not want to post racist language on this forum.

 

[sevenofnine]

sex to me seems such a personal thing,

not to share with anyone, except the person your doing it with.

I dunno it just seems class less, I mean guys talk about girls all the time, but you don't really talk about having sex with the wife, except you do it, you don't go and sit around with the guys, telling the ways you just fucked your wife.

it just seems out of bounds your wife your lover to go into a lot of detail

there is a guy at work he talks about sex all the time brags about it, but most people think he is a buffoon.

it just seems so private and personal.

its funny in some ways, like I said its so personal
this guy brags at work about all his conquests right, and I saw him the other day with this real dog. like honestly he thinks he is the best thing in the world for women and he has this stupid dumb cow as his girl.
you set your self up for a lot of embarrassment or worse.
and honestly I wouldn't even care if that was his wife or whatever, except that I had to listen to him brag and brag for years.
I couldn't stop laughing,

 

[Cami Parker]

Wow... That's really crazy! I'm so sorry you had to witness that. The young man will surely grow up to have a bucket full of issues. Thanks for being so aware, and evolved in your thinking. Thanks for being you!

Thinking about Jugmental thinking this comment made me think of another thing to be considered if your taking a friend along . He might see it an insult . I will hear the most unattractive of men who are not in any relationship with any female say "I get it for free I do not have to pay for it " If you have friend who does not have a girlfriend or wife .
I would approach the topic of prostitution in general somehow. Using a news story or whatever Just to check he does not have the "Olney losers who cant get a girlfriend / wife / one night stand go to see escorts . Idea


I unfortunately observed first hand the installation this type of sick thinking . I went to the auto show at what was then called the Winnipeg convention center

The Auto show had an male actor there who was signing autographs . In the line was what looked to be either an older relative or father and his teenage son . The younger man was repeatedly complaining To the older man. That they had missed the autograph sighing time with the playboy bunny . ( playboy used to have their latest girl go to the auto show's to sell magazines) The older relative then finally lost it he started yelling at the younger man and he said .


" Oh that's right I forgot you don't have a girlfriend you cant get one can you . How about we go to the low track on main street and get you some cheap In**** whore .For you to fuck . So you can lose your fucking virginity .
How getting the autograph from the playboy bunny . Had anything to do with using the services of A prostitute. I do not even want to think about . but there was that sentence " you cant get a girlfriend so I am going to take you to see a prostitute."



The *** is not a spelling mistake I just do not want to post racist language on this forum.

 

[johnA27]

Yeah I guess most people still can't see past the taboo. I guess I am just lucky, or have really friggin open minded friends to listen to me talk about it, or even want to share the hobby with me.

 

[Equity Market investor]

Yeah I guess most people still can't see past the taboo.

Yes. That's because the majority who still live with their heads deep inside their own asses, fail to see the bigger picture. Those are the ones, for the most part, refuse to admit that their own life choices aren't as glamorous as the pictured growing up. They'll never admit it because, to some degree, they're hypocrites.

I've had short and long-term girl-friends in the past. Now.....I am single by choice and I find nothing wrong with that. Being a bachelor isn't' all that bad. It's just that the society we now live in is beyond fucked up and think otherwise. There are things in life that are far far worse than being single.

Remember, It's easy to throw stones at glass houses......until you understand " who is in the glass house and know the situation".