Do women date guys for the size of there dicks?

[jesuschrist]

I just don't get it!!! In my 30 plus years having a bigger dick or so I am told has not landed me any ladies. If anything I have now become aware that it has turned off more than it has turned on. The wallet thing has got me some ladies but that becomes clear very fast and they move on fast. So my experience is that dick size does not play a part and we like to think that wallet size plays a part. However my experience would say they do not. I have been single for over 50 years now and dick size and wallet size did not and has not been a benefit for me. Sorry to break your bubble guys and gals.

Maybe you are the exception to the rule. Maybe there is something in my list of 3 things that isn't quite right with the ladies, that is, if my theory is even correct.

Every guy I've ever known with a big unit has had no trouble getting women interested in them. One guy I knew whose dick was so huge, any pants he wore would present a big bulge. Girls were constantly smiling and coming up to him to talk about nothing. And he was average looking, had an average body, had an average job, and an average personality. I remember going to Boston Pizza with him, and he would get up to go to the washroom, and the females sitting at the stalls nearby would crane their necks and look directly at his crotch, smile at him when he came by back from the washroom, and some would make excuses to go talk to him.

As for wallet size, I think it only makes sense that it does play a major part. While obscene wealth would be a negative for most women (because they think that he could be a playboy, or simply "buy" women too easily), some substantial wealth would be a major attraction - they could afford to not work, to raise a family without having to worry about finances, and if they divorced they would get a big bonus - which would be useful especially if the divorce happened when they are older and unable to attract another man so easily.

 

[Dickson]

Maybe you are the exception to the rule. Maybe there is something in my list of 3 things that isn't quite right with the ladies, that is, if my theory is even correct.

Every guy I've ever known with a big unit has had no trouble getting women interested in them. One guy I knew whose dick was so huge, any pants he wore would present a big bulge. Girls were constantly smiling and coming up to him to talk about nothing. And he was average looking, had an average body, had an average job, and an average personality. I remember going to Boston Pizza with him, and he would get up to go to the washroom, and the females sitting at the stalls nearby would crane their necks and look directly at his crotch, smile at him when he came by back from the washroom, and some would make excuses to go talk to him.

As for wallet size, I think it only makes sense that it does play a major part. While obscene wealth would be a negative for most women (because they think that he could be a playboy, or simply "buy" women too easily), some substantial wealth would be a major attraction - they could afford to not work, to raise a family without having to worry about finances, and if they divorced they would get a big bonus - which would be useful especially if the divorce happened when they are older and unable to attract another man so easily.

Well you are JesusChrist so who am I to disagree with you. I just want to point out it has never been that way for me. I never had a girl friend growing up. My first with a girl was a street walker by the name of Wendy. Made my money in my twenties and never looked back. Yes some ladies were attacted by the money but like I say that burns off fast. The personality side is a kicker for me. I have no personality. I just worked all the time when I was younger and all though me years.

I still believe that it is a myth that ladies are attacted to big dicks and big wallet. It is a myth that we want to beleive but the reality for me is it does not happen and has never happened for me. Where as there are a lot of guys out there who have smaller dicks and less money and they are married or they have girl friends.

But like someone said every situation is different. The girls that have looked at me over the years tend to laugh more than show interest in me. But everyone is different.

 

[InnocentBoy]

In Dicksons case of traveling all the time... makes it hard for one woman to recommend him to another due to dick size if he's never in one place long enough.

 

[jesuschrist]

Well you are JesusChrist so who am I to disagree with you.

I regret choosing this handle now, seems everyone has something like this to say about it. It was a joke for me. You know, Jesus has returned, and to an escort board even.

Anyways, it just seems like the "personality" is the problem; frankly I think there's nothing, absolutely nothing, wrong with your personality, but maybe it's just not servicing the female attitude enough. You know, females care about certain things, like protocol and a certain kind of graciousness in the way one speaks to them, patience about things they are interested in (like shoes or shopping or makeup, etc), and a lot of them like being put on a pedestal of sorts instead of being treated as a real equal (or at least the best of both worlds - as an equal and put on a pedestal). They pick up on things like that in a guy, and they go to the ones they are comfortable with - which means the ones who treat them the way they think they deserve. Maybe you're the kind of guy who thinks everyone is a real equal regardless of gender, maybe you have no time for bullshit so you're brutally frank and honest and don't give a rat's ass about small talk, and don't like to pretend to be interested when you're not. I know guys like that, the women don't care about them.

 

[the old maxx50]

Well i am convinced you are JC because you kind of just described some of my personality traits and that is why i real never dated .. and only have had a few girls as friends , mostly younger and partly because i helped them out with money and no sex . I never looked at them as GFs .. and now it is just escorts that i know and are friends with and gain partly do to money .. maybe partly do to they know i need them , care about them and even love a few but still i know they are not GF's

But getting back to the question .. I am only average .6 and weather they are escorts or not i think some like my size ,shape and stamina .. and do comment on it and mention it to other girls ... That is why i felt welcome at a resent 3 some and 4 some i had .. My dick rep proceed me. of course my inconsistency in cumming is some thing else that got around also ,, partly by my own doing .

Looks and money ,I was the one lacking confident in my looks , and women can scenes that .. Money I never had enough so i did not peruse women because i feel you should be able to pay for what ever they want and definitely be able to support a family .. i don't think i guy should trap a girl in to a relationship with love and promises you know you can;t full fill ..
And when it came to the dick i never knew how it would stand up to others guys that they knew . i never used it until 50 and that was with escorts ... But then i find it is the escort type on women that i am attracted too that is more open mined them most and know what she want in a cock .. so i am putting my self out there to be judged by a discerning potion of the female gender . but not the average girl ... so i know they are more critical of what they like .. and more tolerant. of. dick size, experience , age and personality . That said i all so know that Money , family and security are important to them and for some good sex with a hot guy Some one they are attracted to .

 

[Dickson]

In Dicksons case of traveling all the time... makes it hard for one woman to recommend him to another due to dick size if he's never in one place long enough.

I think you nailed it. Most real GF have big issues with that. SP no problem. As so many say "you love your companies more than you love me" it is the killer. But guys they are my life just like you out there with children. If a lady ask you give up your chikdren would you?

 

[Dickson]

Anyways, it just seems like the "personality" is the problem; frankly I think there's nothing, absolutely nothing, wrong with your personality, but maybe it's just not servicing the female attitude enough. You know, females care about certain things, like protocol and a certain kind of graciousness in the way one speaks to them, patience about things they are interested in (like shoes or shopping or makeup, etc), and a lot of them like being put on a pedestal of sorts instead of being treated as a real equal (or at least the best of both worlds - as an equal and put on a pedestal). They pick up on things like that in a guy, and they go to the ones they are comfortable with - which means the ones who treat them the way they think they deserve. Maybe you're the kind of guy who thinks everyone is a real equal regardless of gender, maybe you have no time for bullshit so you're brutally frank and honest and don't give a rat's ass about small talk, and don't like to pretend to be interested when you're not. I know guys like that, the women don't care about them.[/QUOTE]

JC I think it is a great handle.

Based on your concept my personality has to be the problem. The dick size I know has been a problem and the wallet thing is an issue of being taken advantage. It does attract the wrong crowd. I should point out I treat them well. Shopping for clothes, dinners at nice resturants, the theater, Opera, wine and dine, travel to nice places abd 5 star hotels, spa treatments, expensive gifts, at the end it turns good girls bad and make bad girls worst. Money corrupts. The pedestal thing does not work. Never met a lady that love me but they did love what I could give them. In the end it does not work. The big dick did not help either.

You do describe me to a fault but Innocentboy I think hit it on the head. My point was not to talk about me but to point out that those guys who have a wife or a real GF do not take it for granted. It is a gift that guys like me cannot buy. Don't say if only I had a bigger dick or a more money. The point is that is not what matters. Take it from a guy on the other side. I stll say my dick is not that big. The grass is not greener over here.

I am not complaining or wining or crying. I am telling you my life story to prove the point. Now maybe there are the Ms Sarahs' out there but in my 50 years I have met a lot of ladies inside and out of the hobby and it an't that easy. The myths are easy to hide behind. So be happy with what you got and not what you don't have.

 

[Dickson]

Well i am convinced you are JC because you kind of just described some of my personality traits and that is why i real never dated .. and only have had a few girls as friends , mostly younger and partly because i helped them out with money and no sex . I never looked at them as GFs .. and now it is just escorts that i know and are friends with and gain partly do to money .. maybe partly do to they know i need them , care about them and even love a few but still i know they are not GF's

But getting back to the question .. I am only average .6 and weather they are escorts or not i think some like my size ,shape and stamina .. and do comment on it and mention it to other girls ... That is why i felt welcome at a resent 3 some and 4 some i had .. My dick rep proceed me. of course my inconsistency in cumming is some thing else that got around also ,, partly by my own doing .

Looks and money ,I was the one lacking confident in my looks , and women can scenes that .. Money I never had enough so i did not peruse women because i feel you should be able to pay for what ever they want and definitely be able to support a family .. i don't think i guy should trap a girl in to a relationship with love and promises you know you can;t full fill ..
And when it came to the dick i never knew how it would stand up to others guys that they knew . i never used it until 50 and that was with escorts ... But then i find it is the escort type on women that i am attracted too that is more open mined them most and know what she want in a cock .. so i am putting my self out there to be judged by a discerning potion of the female gender . but not the average girl ... so i know they are more critical of what they like .. and more tolerant. of. dick size, experience , age and personality . That said i all so know that Money , family and security are important to them and for some good sex with a hot guy Some one they are attracted to .

OldMax you sound like we have a lot in common. SPs work for me. If the money runs out I know they will be gone. But at least I know where I stand. Interesting comments. We should have a drink one night and compare notes.

 

[the old maxx50]

Dickson I would not mind getting together for a drink on day if we ever find ours selves in the same town at the same time .

 

[Dickson]

The dick's gotta be around to matter. If you're a workaholic, you're not around.

Let me put it to you this way. I'll be attracted to a woman I haven't met because of physical attributes, I'll stick with her because I like what I find out when I get to know her (maybe I'll put up with her for a little while longer if she's got....talents). Same probably applies to women, something attracted them, then something makes her decide wether to keep you or not - the two decisions aren't always made from the same parameters (or as was said, maybe she strings you on a little while longer to enjoy your....endowment)

And dont forget SP's may need to have sex with someone else after they're done with you. If you wear em out that's potentially affecting their business, so no, it might not be a good selling point for them.

You have a good point if I am not around they do not know but the issue is your assumption that women think like us. The women I met do not think like you or I.

 

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[Thelyhi]

On a hot summer day, a female jogger goes by and notice a man sun tanning,drinking koolaid and listening to music while his wife mowing the lawn.The jogger comes up to the man,"Excuse me Mr?Why are you not mowing the lawn and letting your wife sweating it out. You out to be hung"!!!
The man replied," Well I am."


The truth is always in the pants.

 

[Ned Flanders]

Penis size is not a particularly relevant factor for most women. A corollary would be an abnormally small one might be a limiting factor for some guys.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

lol

 

[InnocentBoy]

Dont drink but I think it would be pretty fun to have a buncha pooners meet up somewhere in person to talk. I mean whats better than being able to open up without any fear of offending a mod or some uptight friend that could get u in trouble?

OldMax you sound like we have a lot in common. SPs work for me. If the money runs out I know they will be gone. But at least I know where I stand. Interesting comments. We should have a drink one night and compare notes.

 

[the old maxx50]

WE have an on off group in Victoria that do that ..
WE had games nights or get together some time some of the girls would show up also.. five or six guys a few girls . drink and talk .
:clap2:

i here that one of the other boards have regular get together every couple of months ..

 

[shows]

I am a stickler for details and analytical to a fault.

I took a tape measure and measured every glorious inch of it, up and down and around.

It was massive, it was awesome, it felt like he was gonna split me in two every time he penetrated and I loved it. We were married so no condom either.

Orgasming with him inside me was mind blowing because the walls of my vagina were stretched out so tight there was no room to contract.

Wow you're so hot Sarah. Instant hard on!

 

[Tugela]

Dicks are like boobs, there will be some that will pursue the biggest they can find and not pay much attention to anything else.

But for most people as long as the respective bit is not minute the size doesnt matter, there are other aspects of their partner which are much more important.

 

[NoAverageGuy75]

Just to get my two cents in... my wife claims that one of the reasons she married me is because I'm the best lover she ever had...

She also said... once.... when I asked... I could use more girth. (Please ladies, do not hold this post against me!)

I also know that when we get down to it, I lick and fuck her until she's done and *DONE*. So yeah, dick size can help but its not the be-all, end-all.

NAG75

 

[NoAverageGuy75]

WE have an on off group in Victoria that do that ..
WE had games nights or get together some time some of the girls would show up also.. five or six guys a few girls . drink and talk .
:clap2:

i here that one of the other boards have regular get together every couple of months ..

This sounds like a good idea. Something we should start in Vancouver!

NAG7