Do women date guys for the size of there dicks?
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Sorry to tell you but size has little to no impact nor does a larger walet. My experience over the years proves that these are myths women, are not influenced by these issues, only guys think that women are influenced by them.Ok we are all way talking about size ...
Have women wanted to see a guy because of the size of his dick
I am asking both the women and the men..
I know that a few of the escorts i have seen liked me a s a client because of my size and shape and i fit just right .
I think there's always an interesting distinction between what a guy thinks a woman wants, and what a woman thinks is the true size of a penis. I'm sorry to say I've asked a lot of girls to show me, roughly what they think 8 or 9" looks like, and a lot usually point out about 7" or less. Guys think having an 8" schlong will make everything become magic. It doesn't really. It's all in people's heads. If a chick is going to dump you because you're only packing 5" you're with the wrong girl.
depends on how good looking the broad is... for the hotties, the bigger a dick you are, the more likely they are to want to date you! hotties got no time for nice guys... :nod:
Yup, most chicks can't tell the difference between a guy with confidence, and a guy who's just a dick.
Just remember the Big Three (No, not Churchill, Roosevelt, Stalin)
Big Attitude
Big Dick
Big Wallet
Never helped me Ms Sarah all the women I have met both inside and outside of the hobby have not been impressed with my size or my wallet (I am no 10" and the wallet no Bill Gates but I can hold my own). There is way more to it than those issues for the majority of women. Or maybe I have been hanging with the wrong bunch of people. Just like women who say they want it and like it but in reality they leave it once they get it.
It is a myth! a fairy tail. People should not play into that concept. Even on here there are guys who are not well endowed and who do not make the bucks but they got women and some of them even have wifes and real GFs. So go figure that one. Can not hide behind the concept that having a big dick and a lot of money in your pocket gets you girls.
I pay for the ladies in my life and to be honest that is the only way it will happen.
Now you are on to something there Vancity_cowboy. Never understood that and I do not think I ever will. Figure that out and you make your self a few million.
I disagree that better looking women have worse judgement when it comes to men, but I do think that arrogance and ego can be mistaken for confidence.
Ms Sarah's ex wasn't 10" either. Women have no clue when it comes to size and even those that claim to have even measured don't know how to measure properly. There is a clip I saw where perhaps the second biggest guy in porn (ever) was measured by a woman before they did their scene and he was over 9" but not 10". In all of porn with some of the perceived massive dicks, there may be one who is 10" and more.
Ha! That's like what happened to me, though it wasn't marriage but she shacked up with me for a few months until I threw her crap onto the street of my apartment. Before that, I would keep saying these words to myself:
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
"DD titties, 95 lbs, 19 years old"
The last straw was her showing up drunk and tried to slip into bed at 4am after I looked for her all night, to find out she went to a party I knew nothing about and conveniently was not answering my calls.
I am a stickler for details and analytical to a fault.
I took a tape measure and measured every glorious inch of it, up and down and around.
It was massive, it was awesome, it felt like he was gonna split me in two every time he penetrated and I loved it. We were married so no condom either.
Orgasming with him inside me was mind blowing because the walls of my vagina were stretched out so tight there was no room to contract.
See guys... this is what I mean, read the above very carefully. There is no clearer example of why women secretly lust for big dicks though they vehemently deny deny deny it over and over. The above quote should be framed and hung up on a wall somewhere, in case any guy ever wondered if big dicks mattered. Sarah was being very honest, probably one of the few times any woman is honest about big dicks. That's the reality, and that's why the women will not let go of a big dick guy once they get a hold of one. Even more so for a guy with a big wallet.
I'd say that reply has fueled a few fantasies.................Hunka, you're not alone anymore.:eyebrows:
Anyways, to answer the OP's question directly: "YES", they do.
But any guy asking this question is asking the larger question of what women are looking for. Here is my OPINION:
Generally speaking, MOST women (and I say this because I know some female is ready to flame me for even suggesting that it applies to all women, so back off there you overly sensitive insecure women who thinks that everything is a personal attack) have these priorities when choosing a man to date or have a relationship with:
In order of importance:
1) Personality
2) Dick size
3) Wealth
If you're lacking in one, they look to see if you can compensate with another. For example, Sarah was with a guy who had a big dick and was wealthy, and apparently this compensated for when he was a jerk to her. It is very important that anything lacking is compensated by one of the other three. Another example is those very wealthy guys who are jerks and are fat and have average to small dicks, or dicks that don't work - but their wealth piques the interest of women as someone who they prospectively would date. I personally know a guy who makes a lot of women laugh, and he gets a lot of women who want to befriend him and personally date him - even though he makes not much money and he probably has an average size dick. I also know someone else who has a big dick and nothing outstanding in terms of personality and is dirt poor. The girls spread the word and he gets hit on all the time.
So if you have a big dick and/or are wealthy, you'll get to bed lots of girls, some might even shack up with you. But if you're an asshole, she'll keep putting up with you, maybe for years and years until she can't avoid feeling like shit all the time, so you just have to be nice enough temporarily (if you're that kind of asshole kind of guy) and she'll be good again for awhile.
Anything other trait just does not register, you just might have to have enough of that trait for it to make any difference. For example, are you handsome? Well it doesn't matter if you're handsome or ugly, you just have to be handsome enough (and I would say if you're a 5/10 that's probably enough). Are you smart? Doesn't matter, you just have to be smart enough (and usually that means as smart as her - which for most women average intelligence is enough). Are you handy? Doesn't matter, you just have to be handy enough (and you'll easily pass the test if you can operate a coffee machine). Are you talented? Doesn't matter, etc.
For all the b.s., let's face it... people are shallow, both men and women. Romantic love is based on attraction which is based on things like I said. Men have their list too, and it's equally shitty. That's why men don't want to fuck their wives anymore after she's gotten fat or she doesn't feel the same anymore about giving blowjobs. Yeah there is love, but that only means you don't want to hurt them. It doesn't mean you want to be with them in any real basis like what attraction would do.
But any guy asking this question is asking the larger question of what women are looking for. Here is my OPINION:
Generally speaking, MOST women (and I say this because I know some female is ready to flame me for even suggesting that it applies to all women, so back off there you overly sensitive insecure women who thinks that everything is a personal attack) have these priorities when choosing a man to date or have a relationship with:
In order of importance:
1) Personality
2) Dick size
3) Wealth
If you're lacking in one, they look to see if you can compensate with another. For example, Sarah was with a guy who had a big dick and was wealthy, and apparently this compensated for when he was a jerk to her. It is very important that anything lacking is compensated by one of the other three. Another example is those very wealthy guys who are jerks and are fat and have average to small dicks, or dicks that don't work - but their wealth piques the interest of women as someone who they prospectively would date. I personally know a guy who makes a lot of women laugh, and he gets a lot of women who want to befriend him and personally date him - even though he makes not much money and he probably has an average size dick. I also know someone else who has a big dick and nothing outstanding in terms of personality and is dirt poor. The girls spread the word and he gets hit on all the time.
So if you have a big dick and/or are wealthy, you'll get to bed lots of girls, some might even shack up with you. But if you're an asshole, she'll keep putting up with you, maybe for years and years until she can't avoid feeling like shit all the time, so you just have to be nice enough temporarily (if you're that kind of asshole kind of guy) and she'll be good again for awhile.
Anything other trait just does not register, you just might have to have enough of that trait for it to make any difference. For example, are you handsome? Well it doesn't matter if you're handsome or ugly, you just have to be handsome enough (and I would say if you're a 5/10 that's probably enough). Are you smart? Doesn't matter, you just have to be smart enough (and usually that means as smart as her - which for most women average intelligence is enough). Are you handy? Doesn't matter, you just have to be handy enough (and you'll easily pass the test if you can operate a coffee machine). Are you talented? Doesn't matter, etc.
For all the b.s., let's face it... people are shallow, both men and women. Romantic love is based on attraction which is based on things like I said. Men have their list too, and it's equally shitty. That's why men don't want to fuck their wives anymore after she's gotten fat or she doesn't feel the same anymore about giving blowjobs. Yeah there is love, but that only means you don't want to hurt them. It doesn't mean you want to be with them in any real basis like what attraction would do.
A typical refrain from a woman, I must say. Yes, you are all unique. Do we always have to resort to stereotypical statements that frankly don't advance the discussion?This would be true if all women were carbon copies of me. Every women is different. We are all built physically unique, what is pleasurable to me will be pain to another. We all have different wiring in our brains, what turns me on will disgust another.
But thank you for admiring my writing.
Yes, you are all unique. Everyone thinks they are unique, men and women. We are all unique. If every discussion was to be pared down to that statement, nothing can ever be said to apply to anyone and there would be no point in discussing, or even thinking about anything.
But all women all share a very similar physiology - that of being a woman. Maybe one that is 6 inches thick will be pleasurable for one, might be hurtful for another. Big is a relative term for each woman. One woman's "big" is another one's "not big enough". But the point is that "big", whatever that means to each woman, is what counts! It has to be big enough that when she orgasms and has contractions, it would be the biggest high if she could feel it because it's big enough to really really make a difference. After all, what's the point of having a contraction on something as thin as a pencil? She'd never feel it. She wants to feel herself contracting on something big and meaty, and therefore meaningful.
And I would go further to add that for most women, a cock that is at least 7 inches long and 5 inches thick, that would be considered big and it would be considered a big bonus enough to warrant attraction and the girl taking a big interest in the man.
If I knew how to post pics I would post this pic of one of the big boys in porn measured by his co-star. The 10" dick is a myth.
I just don't get it!!! In my 30 plus years having a bigger dick or so I am told has not landed me any ladies. If anything I have now become aware that it has turned off more than it has turned on. The wallet thing has got me some ladies but that becomes clear very fast and they move on fast. So my experience is that dick size does not play a part and we like to think that wallet size plays a part. However my experience would say they do not. I have been single for over 50 years now and dick size and wallet size did not and has not been a benefit for me. Sorry to break your bubble guys and gals.
The dick's gotta be around to matter. If you're a workaholic, you're not around.
Let me put it to you this way. I'll be attracted to a woman I haven't met because of physical attributes, I'll stick with her because I like what I find out when I get to know her (maybe I'll put up with her for a little while longer if she's got....talents). Same probably applies to women, something attracted them, then something makes her decide wether to keep you or not - the two decisions aren't always made from the same parameters (or as was said, maybe she strings you on a little while longer to enjoy your....endowment)
And dont forget SP's may need to have sex with someone else after they're done with you. If you wear em out that's potentially affecting their business, so no, it might not be a good selling point for them.
