Do women date guys for the size of there dicks?
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This! But also from my experience, and I'd assume I'm at best average in the junk department, the quantity and quality of women available to me increased as my business status or title changed and the compensation grew accordingly. Maybe it's just coincidence. Regardless, I stopped having relationships long ago since I didn't want children and had no desire for cohabitation. Sex is never free anyway, whether you have a big dick or not, so ya might as well rationalize that it's kind of like a barter system and keep things as low maintenance and uncomplicated as possible.
Ned I would say it is the reverse. I think I have been rejected more times because of my larger size than a guy being rejected because it was not big enough. I said it before and I will say it again size does not matter nor does wallet size. IT IS A MYTH!!!!!
Maybe some women are curious but that is all it is. Kinda like stopping to see a car accident. But they soon drive on by and are glad that it was not them with that guy. I can speak from personal experience. Becareful what guys wish for.
My opinion is that, while the excitement of the big dick can be fun at first, and the disappointment of a smaller dick can put a lady off of a longer-term sexual relationship, the winner will always be the average sized dick, attached to a guy with skills! 
DAM those average size dicks with all the skills!!!!!!! See I told you guys why does no one believe me.My opinion is that, while the excitement of the big dick can be fun at first, and the disappointment of a smaller dick can put a lady off of a longer-term sexual relationship, the winner will always be the average sized dick, attached to a guy with skills!
I dare say, the biggest change was when I finally learned control and I could finally last longer than 2-5min! But it has always been more about my persistence and enthusiasm (and earlier in the relationship, willingness to take direction). I love making a woman come.
I'll give her an orgasm with my fingers or tongue first, then its sex time (sometimes there is an orgasm in there if she's strumming her clit), then by the time I'm done she's usually worked up again so out comes the vibrator (or more tongue work)... By the time she reaches that orgasm I'm usually itching for another round...
Last time we did it she finally just said, "Oh god, stop! I'm done!" and finished me with a handjob.
The wife and I don't have sex often, but when we do it can be pretty damn good.
NAG75
EDIT: Oh, and I looove goin' down! Bar none, my favorite sex act period. There is nothing better than having my face buried between a woman's legs, thighs pressed to the side of my head, a hand in my hair. While my tongue is strumming her clit, a finger or three inside. When she comes, its all I can hear. All I can taste, all I can smell. My entire world is sex as every sense is filled with her orgasm.
Damnit. Now I'm all horny.
I must say, there is quite the range when it comes to preferences. Some love young, some love mature. Some prefer spinners and a few like BBWs. It's not always easy understanding others preferences but we don't need to. I never understood why men will pay to try to make a woman orgasm. I've read reviews where the guy has spent most of the session trying to make the escort orgasm and left little or no time for him to orgasm. Needless to say, she did not extend the session to accommodate that.
But to each his own.
You might be on to something there Stuffed Banana. That might be the case. However it is clear a bigger banana is not always better than a stuffed banana.
Let's not forget that women's internal spaces come in all shapes and sizes...face it, not every lady can accommodate a larger penis, even if it's not thicker than a coke can.
And it can't be much fun for the fella when she's wincing, or gritting her teeth, or displaying any other reactions that are less than excited...like ouch this, and ouch that...
Both the fella with the larger penis and the smaller penis have the opportunity to make adjustments to match their mate or, of course, shop around until the perfect fit presents itself!
That's why I don't think all ladies date guys for the size of their dick, per se. The open-minded ones will see the dick and say, 'hmmmm, ok, let's see what you've got in the skills dept!"
And one more thing, skills is more than just move here, thrust there, lick here, squeeze there... skills also refers to the willingness (on both parties, to be fair) to listen and learn what your lover seems to enjoy and want, and to do your best to deliver/share an enjoyable experience, all-around!
If a girl wants big dicks, she's not for me. I don't' want an old stretched out balloon, I want a neat little one.
This double-edged sword goes both ways. Girls shouldn't want a dude who only likes big tits, because that person would appear to be shallow too. Having said that, people have their preferences and we should look for people who desire what we have.
This double-edged sword goes both ways. Girls shouldn't want a dude who only likes big tits, because that person would appear to be shallow too. Having said that, people have their preferences and we should look for people who desire what we have.
Although this thread is a little old, I felt compelled after reading it to spend a few cents on it (smirk)
I can not doubt your word on the 10" cock, because they do exist. But something I did learn through various experiences, that many females could
not handle that full length inside of them. I dated a female once who was going through a divorce. Her husband had 5 inches, but she was more
than happy with that, as their sex life was not based on the size of their genitals (boobs or cock).
But when I first slept with her, my erection reaches 7 inches when maxed out, but she had a hard time with that because she was not used to it.
I had to pull back and go gentle. I dated other tiny females with hardships in bed because they could not take more than 5 or 6 inches without
experiencing extreme discomfort.
In a nutshell, yes, some females can and will enjoy 8, 9 or 10 inches, but when a female looks for a guy who will "fill her up", its kind of the same
as walking in to the adult store and picking the right size dildo for herself.
Most females vaginal walls can be slowly stretched wider, but depth reaching the cervix can be tricky and painful if a cock is too long. Its not like
that canal goes on forever.
The downside of a female experiencing a well endowed cock, can be devasting to a females' sex life if the two split up/divorced, its hard to replace
what she is used to.
rtkink, interesting you bring this up. Recently I met a young German SP I was kinda scared that the Agency would send over such a tiny young girl to see me. however was I shocked this young thing could take not only the 8" length but my 8" girth. She even seem to enjoy it. I asked her after if her boy friend was large and she said she has not had a boy friend for a while. So not sure if the theories floating around are true.
I also had a 4' 10" red head who took me and rode me CG and she was bouncing on me like she was in Calgary at the stamped. She had no problem, matter of fact I think she could have take guys much bigger than me. She was such a cute litte thing.
Yet I have had larger women who have issues. The less I make a deal about it less complaints do I get. The more I comment the more they back off.
I really believe that women are not turned on by a big cock. If anything they are turned off. It is a myth that guys make up. No question in my mind. Guy just think if you got a big cock girls will go crazy for you. NOT TRUE! Stop spreading terrible rumors. Ladies like what ladies like and size plays no part. I bet there is not one SP who would honestly say they enjoy a big dick.
No be honest Alix Turner! It is not the size but how they use it.
If you said you really like it I might have to arrive in VanCity and see if you really mean it or are you just BSing me. Becareful what you say.
