Do the nerves ever go away?

[Just4fun00]

I have been enjoying this recreation on and off for the past 6 years. I have enjoyed everything from a massage with an HE to a GFE. But it doesn't matter what I do; I still feel nervous and must put on extra deodorant. Do you have any tips? I feel like I set up my time to be awkward and perhaps not as enjoyable for the two of us. Help!??

 

[Newuser505]

I drink lots of water. You can be anxious, but it doesnt mean you cant be hydrated as well.

A single, small toke from a vape pen also help clear the jitters

 

[PuntMeister]

You might try scentless antiperspirant vs. deodorant. Just a dab under each pit. Then Splash on a little baby powder with your hands, over the antiperspirant to help keep things dry.

On the trip over, play some calming music, take long slow breathes, smile at everyone elso on the road. Use positive mental imagery about the upcoming session. Think about rainbow unicorns playing in the clouds.

Embrace a little nervousness. Ask yourself why are you feeling nervous? Likely because you care, and want to make a good impression. That’s a good thing, right? If I am not a little bit nervous about a date, then I would be missing the magic about it. Happy anticipation. Enjoy it.

Then knock ever so gently on the door, smile, and enjoy your magic time together.

 

[Fiona]

I have been enjoying this recreation on and off for the past 6 years. I have enjoyed everything from a massage with an HE to a GFE. But it doesn't matter what I do; I still feel nervous and must put on extra deodorant. Do you have any tips? I feel like I set up my time to be awkward and perhaps not as enjoyable for the two of us. Help!??

Some people think it’s nervousness when it’s just excitement & anticipation. Go with it. Learn calming techniques , deep breaths . Never has gone away for me after years & years 🙂it’s not a bad thing .

 

[80watts]

Ahhh... the bodies response to:
1. If I get found out
2. the neighbours know
3. Will she like me?

The secret is that nobody can read your mind, and be prepared to say visiting a friend or going to take a look at something someone is buying on ebay... But really its nobodies fucken business what you do.... Aint life full of surprizes....

 

[apl16]

I have been enjoying this recreation on and off for the past 6 years. I have enjoyed everything from a massage with an HE to a GFE. But it doesn't matter what I do; I still feel nervous and must put on extra deodorant. Do you have any tips? I feel like I set up my time to be awkward and perhaps not as enjoyable for the two of us. Help!??

When the nervousness and anticipation is gone, it will seem rather boring.

I know I'm always a little excited to see a lovely lady!

 

[Harmony-bc]

I find a long warm hug helps with nervousness. If you’re sweaty, then that’s what showers are for. It’s ok to be human 💕

 

[John Aston]

Expect some nervousness. On the day that you no longer feel excitement, you are dead.😵

 

[Harmony-bc]

I think your nervousness is endearing and I take it as a compliment. It means you’re excited to see me and maybe you think I’m pretty. Your awkwardness is cute too.

Don’t worry about what we think. I can’t speak for everybody of course but I would think most pros in this business are totally ok with your humanness

 

[GeeBeeP]

If it’s the pit sweat that's worrying you talk to your doc. I had the problem when I was younger and it’s fucking embarrassing. Do you get it at other times too? It’s likely axillary hyper hidrosis and there are some solutions, including prescription strength anti perspirants, injections, and even surgery. For years I wore a whole wardrobe of black shirts so it wasn't as noticeable, it’s why a lot of musicians wear black on stage.

If it’s the nerves you’re concerned about all of the above are correct. Some kind of anticipation and nervousness are all part of the excitement. Talk to the girl about it, perhaps in a way that you really can’t with anyone else in your life, and work with her to see if she has any tips to relax

 

[gianni lotus]

I remember Laiya putting her hand on my chest and commenting how hard my heart was beating. I was so nervous I could hardly function. She gave me a glass of water and we just talked for a while. She distracted me with her humanity and lovely personality before the fun fun fun. What a lady!

Providers are humans, some are beautiful humans. It is easy to see here who is who. I think sometimes our own nervousness can make the provider nervous if she is not skilled in this type of interaction. Maybe pick a provider who seems to be more humane like above Harmony or Fiona? I also think Rina Mood would be an exceptional choice based on her kindness and positivity on this board.

Like John Aston said, expect to be nervous. If you didn't get nervous about getting naked with someone you just met then you really are dead. Try to reframe the nerves as excitement and anticipation, then the nerves can have a positive connection to the sensations of anticipation.

Good luck!

 

[Harmony-bc]

You might try scentless antiperspirant vs. deodorant. Just a dab under each pit. Then Splash on a little baby powder with your hands, over the antiperspirant to help keep things dry.

On the trip over, play some calming music, take long slow breathes, smile at everyone elso on the road. Use positive mental imagery about the upcoming session. Think about rainbow unicorns playing in the clouds.

Embrace a little nervousness. Ask yourself why are you feeling nervous? Likely because you care, and want to make a good impression. That’s a good thing, right? If I am not a little bit nervous about a date, then I would be missing the magic about it. Happy anticipation. Enjoy it.

Then knock ever so gently on the door, smile, and enjoy your magic time together.

I might leave somebody in the hall forever if they knock gently. Don’t knock like a cop! But there’s usually music on so knock so somebody can hear you. Although my dog never misses a knock hahahaha

 

[Just4fun00]

You might try scentless antiperspirant vs. deodorant. Just a dab under each pit. Then Splash on a little baby powder with your hands, over the antiperspirant to help keep things dry.

On the trip over, play some calming music, take long slow breathes, smile at everyone elso on the road. Use positive mental imagery about the upcoming session. Think about rainbow unicorns playing in the clouds.

Embrace a little nervousness. Ask yourself why are you feeling nervous? Likely because you care, and want to make a good impression. That’s a good thing, right? If I am not a little bit nervous about a date, then I would be missing the magic about it. Happy anticipation. Enjoy it.

Then knock ever so gently on the door, smile, and enjoy your magic time together.

Thank you for your words of wisdom.

 

[Just4fun00]

I might leave somebody in the hall forever if they knock gently. Don’t knock like a cop! But there’s usually music on so knock so somebody can hear you. Although my dog never misses a knock hahahaha

I must come visit you then.

 

[Just4fun00]

I think your nervousness is endearing and I take it as a compliment. It means you’re excited to see me and maybe you think I’m pretty. Your awkwardness is cute too.

Don’t worry about what we think. I can’t speak for everybody of course but I would think most pros in this business are totally ok with your humanness

Your words are very kind. I wish I lived closer to you, as you seem the perfect provider.

 

[Just4fun00]

Some people think it’s nervousness when it’s just excitement & anticipation. Go with it. Learn calming techniques , deep breaths . Never has gone away for me after years & years 🙂it’s not a bad thing .

Thank you

 

[Once you go black]

I find I’m usually only nervous the first time seeing a provider , but usually about 10 -15 min in the nerves start to disappear and are replaced by excitement.

Partly for this reason however I always book one hr my first visit .

To minimize it I treat pre meetup like I would a date . Meaning I have a shower, Floss and brush my teeth just before leaving .
I sometimes wear some cologne for when I first arrive .
I always have gum w me .

If water isn’t going to do it for me sometimes I bring my own juice or energy drink in case I get parched .

I find for myself after the first meet the nerves go away , which is why if it goes well , I usually repeat , and much prefer repeats .

I mostly see the same ten or so ladies now and only occasionally see someone new ,

usually if one seems as though they might be stepping away from the profession, if she is moving further away
Or if our time simply seems to have run its course .

 

[MissingOne]

I drink lots of water. You can be anxious, but it doesnt mean you cant be hydrated as well.

And, there's nothing more romantic than interrupting a session because you have to pee!

 

[grusse]

Since sage advice I got in Grade 9 I can honestly say I've never been afraid of failure .

Going to a session what's the worst thing can happen?
Fake pics
Indifferent attitude
Starfish

Ok,but if she's hot I can still worship a heavenly body and possibly resuscitate?

I acknowledged long ago that it was pointless to worry about something out of my control.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Just like any athlete its pre game jitters.
I say ride that wave right onto riding that gorgeous woman that you, YOU Studly Stud YOU, are going to fuck her and yourself into blissful oblivion.