Do the nerves ever go away?

[Harmony-bc]

As oppose to what though? This is a business and theyre providers for a service. Every provider of any service will see their client as revenue. What differentiate them from similar providers is how they render that service.

The girls are human too, with real emotions. As long as theyre not jaded, i would bet a majority of them will empathize and work with anxious clients. Its in their best interest to do so.

If youre looking for deeper connections than that though, you're in the wrong place

I have deep connections with some of my clients and I’ve been around long enough to get pretty jaded haha. But I was jaded by the time I was 16. Don’t trust anybody and you’ll be fine in life. 💕

 

[Bang4thebuck]

As oppose to what though? This is a business and theyre providers for a service. Every provider of any service will see their client as revenue. What differentiate them from similar providers is how they render that service.

The girls are human too, with real emotions. As long as theyre not jaded, i would bet a majority of them will empathize and work with anxious clients. Its in their best interest to do so.

If youre looking for deeper connections than that though, you're in the wrong place

My point was that most probably don't see us as human nor do they care about anxieties, or other issues a client may have. They may try to work such issues to their advantage by running the clock or adding extra fees to try and milk the situation, or making them bust asap and then rushing them out the door. If they can take a client's money while trying to dodge sex and spending the least amount of time possible with them, they can and will take the opportunity. Worse case scenario is the client becomes an easy mark for being robbed. An inexperienced pooner with a lack of social skills who doesn't see thoroughly reviewed SPs is likely going to get taken advantage of.

Some SPs are professionals who run a good business, and the rest are sociopaths, addicts, victims of trafficking, in a desperate situation, or just terrible at dealing with people, or jaded, and really don't give a damn if you're nervous to see them.

 

[Once you go black]

My point was that most probably don't see us as human nor do they care about anxieties, or other issues a client may have. They may try to work such issues to their advantage by running the clock or adding extra fees to try and milk the situation, or making them bust asap and then rushing them out the door. If they can take a client's money while trying to dodge sex and spending the least amount of time possible with them, they can and will take the opportunity. Worse case scenario is the client becomes an easy mark for being robbed. An inexperienced pooner with a lack of social skills who doesn't see thoroughly reviewed SPs is likely going to get taken advantage of.

Some SPs are professionals who run a good business, and the rest are sociopaths, addicts, victims of trafficking, in a desperate situation, or just terrible at dealing with people, or jaded, and really don't give a damn if you're nervous to see them.

Harsh

 

[angry anderson]

My point was that most probably don't see us as human nor do they care about anxieties, or other issues a client may have. They may try to work such issues to their advantage by running the clock or adding extra fees to try and milk the situation, or making them bust asap and then rushing them out the door. If they can take a client's money while trying to dodge sex and spending the least amount of time possible with them, they can and will take the opportunity. Worse case scenario is the client becomes an easy mark for being robbed. An inexperienced pooner with a lack of social skills who doesn't see thoroughly reviewed SPs is likely going to get taken advantage of.

Some SPs are professionals who run a good business, and the rest are sociopaths, addicts, victims of trafficking, in a desperate situation, or just terrible at dealing with people, or jaded, and really don't give a damn if you're nervous to see them.

Some of them are murderers and rapists. And some of them are good people.
As far as the nerves ever going away. I can think of one, formerly known as "the famous one". The nerves never went away. Described as a Pitbull with lipstick. As cuddly as a cobra. The reward was worth the risk though.

 

[Once you go black]

Sometimes it can be a fine line between nerves and excitement!

 

[Just4fun00]

I have deep connections with some of my clients and I’ve been around long enough to get pretty jaded haha. But I was jaded by the time I was 16. Don’t trust anybody and you’ll be fine in life. 💕

Thank you for all you thoughts on this matter. The subject line almost got hijacked.

 

[fuckmerunning]

Harsh

Way harsh!

 

[Boogeryyc]

Expect some nervousness. On the day that you no longer feel excitement, you are dead.😵

Imagine how shitty this “hobby” would be if we stopped being excited and nervous. Those are good things when you’re about to fuck a stranger

 

[Bigbuddyb]

My point was that most probably don't see us as human nor do they care about anxieties, or other issues a client may have. They may try to work such issues to their advantage by running the clock or adding extra fees to try and milk the situation, or making them bust asap and then rushing them out the door. If they can take a client's money while trying to dodge sex and spending the least amount of time possible with them, they can and will take the opportunity. Worse case scenario is the client becomes an easy mark for being robbed. An inexperienced pooner with a lack of social skills who doesn't see thoroughly reviewed SPs is likely going to get taken advantage of.

Some SPs are professionals who run a good business, and the rest are sociopaths, addicts, victims of trafficking, in a desperate situation, or just terrible at dealing with people, or jaded, and really don't give a damn if you're nervous to see them.

Everyone is calling this harsh but it doesn't make it untrue. Most experiences are going through the motions. It makes the good ones that much better and this is why we have perb. To avoid the drug addicts and pimped. But I guess some guys are looking for the hotness or kink and don't care about trafficking, abuse or addiction. To each their own. I'm just looking for the diamonds that make me appreciate the experience after and look foward to seeing them again.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

I have been enjoying this recreation on and off for the past 6 years. I have enjoyed everything from a massage with an HE to a GFE. But it doesn't matter what I do; I still feel nervous and must put on extra deodorant. Do you have any tips? I feel like I set up my time to be awkward and perhaps not as enjoyable for the two of us. Help!??

Imagine yourself driving around the low and mid-tracks for hours and hours late at night in the 1990's... circling 3 and 4 times around some attractive curbside image, then getting out of your vehicle to do a walk-by, and not knowing for certain what to say upon approach... and then seeing a cop car 2 blocks away, and losing your nerve... and then repeating the same approach 45 minutes later after the fuzz is gone...

Envision yourself in that scenario, and then fast-forward back to the present, and you'll realize that today's interactions don't even warrant the amount of nerves you suggest.

The SP's know the routine, they are pretty sure you know the routine as well... and they know when they can relax, so if you get there and rid yourself of your concerns, things will go absolutely splendidly and become exponentially more comfortable.

It really is all within your control (the comfort, I mean).

We only tend to read about the encounters that go wrong in some way... in nearly all cases because someone on either side wasn't who they pretended to be. Yet another reason to just be yourself.

 

[John Aston]

Imagine yourself driving around the low and mid-tracks for hours and hours late at night in the 1990's... circling 3 and 4 times around some attractive curbside image, then getting out of your vehicle to do a walk-by, and not knowing for certain what to say upon approach... and then seeing a cop car 2 blocks away, and losing your nerve... and then repeating the same approach 45 minutes later after the fuzz is gone...

Envision yourself in that scenario, and then fast-forward back to the present, and you'll realize that today's interactions don't even warrant the amount of nerves you suggest.

The SP's know the routine, they are pretty sure you know the routine as well... and they know when they can relax, so if you get there and rid yourself of your concerns, things will go absolutely splendidly and become exponentially more comfortable.

It really is all within your control (the comfort, I mean).

We only tend to read about the encounters that go wrong in some way... in nearly all cases because someone on either side wasn't who they pretended to be. Yet another reason to just be yourself.

Dude! Do you realize the 90s were over 30 years ago? That’s a lot of sperm produced since then! 😜