Dinner date with an escort
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Food for thought -
Book into a nice hotel for the night, order room service and have multiple helpings of desert all night long
I have done this a few times and all were very memorable.
I agree bad boy has great thinking
Old pooner should know that a lot of girls are not as shallow as he thinks
I don't think Janis is shallow, quite the opposite. I think she is one of the most level headed girls I've ever known, but there are limits. The fact is I am probably in the top 5% of unattractive men is the city. It would take a mathematics grad to calculate how many times women have giggled or laughed at me while I've been walking down the street.Old pooner should know that a lot of girls are not as shallow as he thinks
In my experience many of the above posts ring true.
For a first time client, you should always expect to pay a social rate.
Don't forget the reason these girls are seeing you is for money, and the object of the game should not be to get more for less.
If the girl has nothing better to do (doesn't need to work that day/night), and likes your company it certainly doesn't hurt to hang out a bit and do something fun or go for dinner. That kind of thing usually happens after she gets to know you.
For a first time client, you should always expect to pay a social rate.
Don't forget the reason these girls are seeing you is for money, and the object of the game should not be to get more for less.
If the girl has nothing better to do (doesn't need to work that day/night), and likes your company it certainly doesn't hurt to hang out a bit and do something fun or go for dinner. That kind of thing usually happens after she gets to know you.
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about 25% of my dates are dinner dates - I have only offered a discount on one occasion (he helped me out with something else)
do you consider these men to be suckers?
I enjoy the company and conversation - and I love to visit Vancouver great restaurants! However if I went out for free with every gentleman who asked I would be having five meals a day!
Dont any of you enjoy your job? Do you still expect to be compensated?
I am a professional companion, that is my income and I take it quite seriously. I make huge efforts to be the best dinner date a gentleman has ever had.
I am confused as to why people think I should make myself available for free. Do you expect your accountant to do part of their job for free? A chef? A dentist?
of course not, so forgive me if I find this thread quite ludicrous
about 25% of my dates are dinner dates - I have only offered a discount on one occasion (he helped me out with something else)
do you consider these men to be suckers?
I enjoy the company and conversation - and I love to visit Vancouver great restaurants! However if I went out for free with every gentleman who asked I would be having five meals a day!
Dont any of you enjoy your job? Do you still expect to be compensated?
I am a professional companion, that is my income and I take it quite seriously. I make huge efforts to be the best dinner date a gentleman has ever had.
I am confused as to why people think I should make myself available for free. Do you expect your accountant to do part of their job for free? A chef? A dentist?
of course not, so forgive me if I find this thread quite ludicrous
Careful dear, they are likely to attack you for this POV, as they've already tried to discourage anyone else from pointing out the obvious.
It's more like they are trying to create false expectations for the OP. He's already said he's prepared for a dinner date rate that includes social time rate, and the majority of replies are trying to make him and anyone else who does this look like saps. It is ludicrous that they go on the attack for anyone who tells them they are ridiculous.
In the past I went out for several dinners with two different escorts. These were just dinner; there was no sex before or after (or during for that matter). One of the ladies indicated to me she would never charge to be taken out to dinner. I suspect that she did not accept every dinner request. The other lady indicated that I was the only one she had done that with. I knew both of them really well: first and last names all around and what our parents did for a living. Basically, in each case we were a well-dressed couple in a high-end restaurant having a nice relaxing meal. No expectations except a good meal and good company. In one case I paid for all the meals, and in the other case the lady and I alternated paying.
I understand that both of them charged for dinner packages which involved dinner followed by time in the bedroom. I have never partaken in that. I liked to keep the two separate. I think I might have a hard time being a good relaxed conversationist if I knew what was coming. It would be hard for me not to rush.
I understand that these things are specific to each lady. I do not judge those who charge for each hour. Escorts are paid companions and sitting for two hours in a restaurant does involve being a companion. There are exceptions and some exceptions occur when it is just dinner and nothing else.
I understand that both of them charged for dinner packages which involved dinner followed by time in the bedroom. I have never partaken in that. I liked to keep the two separate. I think I might have a hard time being a good relaxed conversationist if I knew what was coming. It would be hard for me not to rush.
I understand that these things are specific to each lady. I do not judge those who charge for each hour. Escorts are paid companions and sitting for two hours in a restaurant does involve being a companion. There are exceptions and some exceptions occur when it is just dinner and nothing else.
There is someone for everyone my friend.... seriously. I'm sure people laugh at me when I walk down the street too, but who gives a fuck what people think. There are some really good people out there, not every SP will go out and hang out with you socially but that doesn't mean there isn't one that would. You seem like a good guy, there is no reason why anyone wouldn't wanna hang out with a good guy!
I hope you are not lumping me into this group, I do not think that people pay for dinner dates are suckers. I just meant that its not a service I would regularly partake in. If I wanted to have dinner with someone I would just call up a friend or find a gal to. For the most part the girls that I have done it with for free are the ones that asked me to go out after. I never ask an SP to do that, just because I would never pay and it would get kinda awkward if at the end that is what she was expecting since i asked her to go.
FYI though this does not happen very often, out of the 50+ SP's I've seen I've only done it with 7 of them. Most was after about 3 sessions there was one that it was after the first.
There is nothing wrong with paying, Mya if you have a website please pm it to me I would love to see more of you.... hopefully one day in person
Judging by Mya's response, I would never see her based on that attitude. It's too business like. And that, for most men is a huge turn-off. It's how shall I say, very impersonal - treating all men like they are only ATM's to her. Ditto PillowTalk, subjecting yourself to being treated like a meter that constantly needs money to feed the timer. Alas...
Some guys like dinner dates and company and have this Pretty Woman complex. Cool. But paying for a chick to laugh at your jokes is just so "fake".
If a chick genuinely enjoys your company, then dinner shouldn't be an issue "off the clocks". How do you know? Maybe going for that free dinner Mya might result in him booking you as a regular from then on. Or will you always believe that 2 hours of your time is taking advantage of you? On the flip side, I think men paying $100-150/hr plus her dinner is taking advantage of the man. So where does the line get drawn?
Some guys like dinner dates and company and have this Pretty Woman complex. Cool. But paying for a chick to laugh at your jokes is just so "fake".
If a chick genuinely enjoys your company, then dinner shouldn't be an issue "off the clocks". How do you know? Maybe going for that free dinner Mya might result in him booking you as a regular from then on. Or will you always believe that 2 hours of your time is taking advantage of you? On the flip side, I think men paying $100-150/hr plus her dinner is taking advantage of the man. So where does the line get drawn?
Some dudes are traveling for business and get lonely
I don't know what the reason is, and why guys pay; but I think Sp's can charge for whatever they want for whatever service they want. I don't think they need to be judged for charging for social time, it's their right. I would never expect anyone to go out for dinner with me, no matter what the service. If they see me as a friend and someone cool to spend some time with cool. But for us to expect it, thats wrong
Why do you think no one has named any names here? Because we are all liars? No its because of responses like these
I agree I too would never pay someone to have dinner with me, but there are people that want it. Why ostracize someone because of it? It would be the same if you expected a dinner date from your Plumber
cloud_9 gets bonus points for that last post. Especially this: "If they see me as a friend and someone cool to spend some time with cool. But for us to expect it, thats wrong."
BTW, Mya is a lovely, sweet, warm, wonderful woman. I would slay dragons for her if I could.
BTW, Mya is a lovely, sweet, warm, wonderful woman. I would slay dragons for her if I could.
I wouldn't even consider posing the question unless I'd made a connection. And that would only come as a result of several vistits.
At which point, unless you are a piss poor judge of character, you'd already have a pretty good idea of what the response would be and then it would be down to a judgement call on your part.
Either way, I wouldn't ask unless I basically knew the answer anyway.
& it would also come with no pre-conceived ideas about what might or might not happen afterwards.... that, is totally up to your dinner companion.
At which point, unless you are a piss poor judge of character, you'd already have a pretty good idea of what the response would be and then it would be down to a judgement call on your part.
Either way, I wouldn't ask unless I basically knew the answer anyway.
& it would also come with no pre-conceived ideas about what might or might not happen afterwards.... that, is totally up to your dinner companion.
I think you miss the point.
Members in this thread are talking about times where they and an SP enjoy the company of one another and decide to go out for dinner "off the clock". No one is saying that all SPs should go out for dinner with all their clients for free.
I would imagine the SPs being referred to only do it with a very small percentage of their clients.
Agreed.
Besides,.... people still have to eat at some point & eating alone can be tiresome,.... SP's would be no different.
I want to qualify my response; while I have taken sps to breakfast/lunch/dinner without paying for their time, I never have done so with an escort. I would never even think about same with an escort because most have a different business model where their time is absolutely their money.
Sometimes you get hungry after sex. A couple of times I was literally getting dressed to go grab food after and he was doing the same... what can I say, I'm not going to recommend a different restaurant than the one I'm heading to if he asks.
One of the most fun dates I had was with the first client that booked me for a dinner date. I hadn't met him before. We had a great time at dinner and nearly got into it in the elevator on the way back to his room.
If you can afford to go for dinner with an escort and that's how you want it to be, then book a dinner date. If you get great rapport and you want to grab something to eat after invite her and don't judge her if she says no.
A lot of women have personal lives that dictate how they can conduct their business. All in all, it's professional, but that doesn't mean the only reason she spends time with you is the money.
It's about how you feel about your relationship, not whether or not they'll do something free of charge. Testing the limits of a relationship is a great way to fuck it up. If you're getting what you want, then you're getting what you paid for.
If you can afford to go for dinner with an escort and that's how you want it to be, then book a dinner date. If you get great rapport and you want to grab something to eat after invite her and don't judge her if she says no.
A lot of women have personal lives that dictate how they can conduct their business. All in all, it's professional, but that doesn't mean the only reason she spends time with you is the money.
It's about how you feel about your relationship, not whether or not they'll do something free of charge. Testing the limits of a relationship is a great way to fuck it up. If you're getting what you want, then you're getting what you paid for.
No a couple of mine were fox's one asked me the other I offered her a ride home and we decided to go have a meal
This is the part when you reciprocate her with utmost discreetness. :nod:If you have a great relationship with your SP and she spends free social time with you then that is great for you and you should consider yourself special, because she doesn't do that for everyone! Enjoy it
