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shoestring

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just curious, if I was to take an escort out for dinner, then after home for a little fun, how is this generally charged? Is there usually a lesser charge for dinner, or do they generally charge a standard "GFE" rate? I know I'd obviously buy dinner, but paying $400-600 for dinner, then 200 - 300 for fun time after.... well... it seems excessive. Just not sure how it works. Anyone care to enlighten me?

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Umbras

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Many of the ladies here have links in thier adverts to thier websites and profiles that have thier rate listings for various encounters. Look around and see which ones catch your fancy, then decide who you wish to spend your time with at a consideration in the range your looking to compensate.

If you have dificulty making a decision between a few ladies, you can ask for some feedback from the other members, some may be able to assist you in your final decision.
 

greatshark

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if the sp likes you (or your company), she won't charge you for dinner. I have that offered to me, but I didn't take them up on it, because I would rather keep out of the public eye. I would not pay to take her out for her to eat dinner (which I would pay for as well).
 

Ghostwalker

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if the sp likes you (or your company), she won't charge you for dinner. I have that offered to me, but I didn't take them up on it, because I would rather keep out of the public eye. I would not pay to take her out for her to eat dinner (which I would pay for as well).
I have never been charged for taking an SP to dinner and indeed it has always resulted in a markedly and sometimes embarrassing increase in quality of service.
 

CLIT COMMANDER

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i have taken a few out to dinner as well and not been charged for this social time. naturally i did buy dinner.

not sure how easy this would be for your first encounter but if you have seen her in the past and she likes your company it shouldn't be a problem.

i have seen some ladies advertise a Social Rate of say $100 an hour for non play time outings.

good luck!
 

badbadboy

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Food for thought -

Book into a nice hotel for the night, order room service and have multiple helpings of desert all night long ;)

I have done this a few times and all were very memorable.
 

old pooner

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I would love to suggest this to Janis, but when you look like I do (fat & old) and I would imagine she would expect compensation for being seen in public with me.
 

cjac7214

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if the sp likes you (or your company), she won't charge you for dinner. I have that offered to me, but I didn't take them up on it, because I would rather keep out of the public eye. I would not pay to take her out for her to eat dinner (which I would pay for as well).
I have never been charged for taking an SP to dinner and indeed it has always resulted in a markedly and sometimes embarrassing increase in quality of service.
i have taken a few out to dinner as well and not been charged for this social time. naturally i did buy dinner.
not sure how easy this would be for your first encounter but if you have seen her in the past and she likes your company it shouldn't be a problem.
i have seen some ladies advertise a Social Rate of say $100 an hour for non play time outings. Good luck!
Many ladies have a dinner date rate, a couple of hours of dinner/social and an hour or two of fun. However, like many of the guys here, it's a clumsily covered up secret that many of the ladies will have dinner or a drink without charging. I have never paid for social time, nor would I ever do so. Of course you pick up the tab, that's only reasonable. However some of the SP's out there are vehemently against this practice and speak out against their colleagues when it happens, it seems to be a matter of some passion on their part. So, often, while I am wining/dining, I am told " don't talk about the social time in your review" or other such admonishment, so they can be spared the drama. I find especially this to be the case here in Vancouver where there are several vocal ladies who deem it necessary to bash the hell out of their sisters.

If a lady insists on being paid for social time, that's her right and I support that. I just won't book any of it, only play time. Sometimes the rule relaxes when she gets to know you a bit as well. And where the hell are you going for dinner that you are paying 400-600 for dinner? I like nice upscale restaurants and good wine, but have never had a dinner bill for 2 over 250 or 300, even at Tojo's or the Blue Water Cafe. You are going to go get physical after, you should not totally gorge yourself!
I agree 100% with all the above, especially Rancid Crabtree's comments. I have had several social dates in the context of compensated playtime to follow, and like everyone else, I would not pay for the social time, just the activity (the dinner, hockey game, concert). You are unlikely to find an escort who will do this on the first date - it really only happens because there is a genuine connection and the woman in question actually enjoys your company. It is also far less likely that one can have social time when there is no compensated playtime to follow, although this can happen too. In other words, it is possible to be friends and be a client, but it means that there is a great deal of trust between the two of you, which takes time to develop.

Some escorts will not do anything that is not compensated, in which case I won't be buying them dinner. And, as Rancid Crabtree mentioned, there are escorts that will berate other escorts that break ranks, as they are screwing up their market by providing a better experience.

Can't wait for Pillowtalk to jump in....
 

stamina

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I'm only a grasshopper, so how do you smooth guys take this situation into a deeper relationship with the ladies? I'm taking notes. ;)
 

Pillowtalk

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I'm only a grasshopper, so how do you smooth guys take this situation into a deeper relationship with the ladies? I'm taking notes. ;)
They just have overactive imaginations. I suppose the threat of being perceived as antagonistic against guys who don't recognize that escorts escort, (you pay for their time, not for specific activities, haven't you read the disclaimers on websites lol? ) , heavily portrayed in above postings, will scare a few ladies off of posting here about dinner date rates.

If the OP is looking for a dinner date rate, he will find most charge the first hour at the regular rate, the additional hours at a lower social rate. You won't be paying (for most sps) the hourly rate x the number of hours normally. If her hour rate is 300, her 3 hour dinner rate might be 500 total. That of course includes play time.
 

cloud_9

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I would love to suggest this to Janis, but when you look like I do (fat & old) and I would imagine she would expect compensation for being seen in public with me.
You'd be surprised how many would do this even if you are fat and old, you don't give yourself enough credit

I'm only a grasshopper, so how do you smooth guys take this situation into a deeper relationship with the ladies? I'm taking notes. ;)
Just be yourself, joke around be a great guy and you might be lucky enough to hangout with one socially

I've seen a lot of SP's in my time and I've had the pleasure to hang out with a lot of them after our session. We would go out for dinner, have a drink

The key for me was just to be myself, Ive never had to pay for this. The only time I had to pay for social time was when I wanted to take a girl out to a hockey game and paid for two hours so she can get off work early to go. But we ended up having sex a bunch and it ended up being an overnighter


They just have overactive imaginations. I suppose the threat of being perceived as antagonistic against guys who don't recognize that escorts escort, (you pay for their time, not for specific activities, haven't you read the disclaimers on websites lol? ) , heavily portrayed in above postings, will scare a few ladies off of posting here about dinner date rates.

If the OP is looking for a dinner date rate, he will find most charge the first hour at the regular rate, the additional hours at a lower social rate. You won't be paying (for most sps) the hourly rate x the number of hours normally. If her hour rate is 300, her 3 hour dinner rate might be 500 total. That of course includes play time.
If you were to pay i would agree this is the rate for 3 hours
 

cjac7214

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I'm only a grasshopper, so how do you smooth guys take this situation into a deeper relationship with the ladies? I'm taking notes. ;)
At the end of the day, we are all clients - don't ever lose sight of that. However, despite the comments of certain posters, it turns out that escorts are human beings too, and they, like everybody else, enjoy some of their clients more than others and even enough to be friends. This can only happen over time and evolves naturally. However, many, if not most escorts, will not provide uncompensated time and keep the client line firmly in place.

They just have overactive imaginations.
Rest easy, you are right - we are all lying.:rolleyes:
 
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cjac7214

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Overactive imagination?

Pillowtalk, if you are happy paying the dinner rate, more power to you. Perhaps they don't enjoy your company? I am very discreet and would/will never name names, but I have been to dine, or to a show, or seen a movie, and/or out for a drink with an SP countless times, before, after or in between paid fun time and never once paid a dime for social time. On one occasion, took a week long vacation in Caribbean for no more than the price of the trip and an hour of fun time each day, no daily/weekly or travel rates, another time it was a weekend in Vegas. As a result, those ladies have enjoyed repeat visits, in most cases (not all), good reviews and I hope, had a great time. I find many times that ladies who are relaxed and sociable enough for outings like these are also a ton of fun in the sack. Again, this doesn't happen the first time you see someone, or in many cases even the second or the third. It's the product of developing a good relationship with a provider, being a gentleman and of course, someone whose company they enjoy. You aren't going to click with everyone.

As I said, I have seen and will continue to see ladies who insist on payment for social time, but they won't get more than a booking for the hour of fun time. If I come across a provider mercenary enough to insist on payment for social time, who I do decide to see, often (but not always) the service is just as mercenary and detached. If ladies defend the practice, that's their right and I don't begrudge them that. Better to know the rules and how to play the game. It's then up to the pooner to decide who to see and not. It's a free country, on both sides of the coin.
Rancid - Pillowtalk is a she (possibly an escort or ex-escort). She is the self-appointed sheriff of PERB and one of those types that you referred to in your initial post. It is always about the money in her posts. This post is likely to be deleted.

I agree 100% with your comments above btw. Cheers!
 

Pillowtalk

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Rancid - Pillowtalk is a she (possibly an escort or ex-escort). She is the self-appointed sheriff of PERB and one of those types that you referred to in your initial post. It is always about the money in her posts. This post is likely to be deleted.

I agree 100% with your comments above btw. Cheers!
How would you know?

Easy enough to post lies on the internets isn't it.

If anyone cares to re read what the original question was, and take a break from sp bashing (and ex-sp bashing), or common sense bashing, I'm sure there'd be no chance of a post deletion.
 

kenchorney

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Rancid - Pillowtalk is a she (possibly an escort or ex-escort). She is the self-appointed sheriff of PERB and one of those types that you referred to in your initial post. It is always about the money in her posts. This post is likely to be deleted.

I agree 100% with your comments above btw. Cheers!
She is a she, and she was an escort in the past. She has posted as FortunateOne here and a few other places in the past.
 

cjac7214

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She is a she, and she was an escort in the past. She has posted as Fortunateone here and a few other places in the past.
And was recently (July 12th) banned on PERB as well.

Members Behaving Badly - Multiple Bans

3. Pillowtalk - one month. There are some threads and conversations that are better off left alone!


PT - you started by calling us liars (They just have overactive imaginations) and now you are acting the victim. Nice one.
 

carlotta

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Can a provider reply to this ad? Or just the "Guests" of Honor? :eyebrows: I have a variety of answers and ... also am quite intrigued by this topic...
 

Umbras

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Can a provider reply to this ad? Or just the "Guests" of Honor? :eyebrows: I have a variety of answers and ... also am quite intrigued by this topic...
It is a companions personal choice, plain and simple, and asking one to respond to a thread like this will only open them to unwanted expectations. We should respect thier privacy, as what happens outside our own personal encounters is none of our damn buisness.

Encounters will vary from guest to guest, I would not be surprised if there are a few that she may find appealing and at her discretion spend time with in a public setting.

This thread is going to turn into a mess if it continues and I am stepping away from it before it does.
 

Bluboy

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Many ladies have a dinner date rate, a couple of hours of dinner/social and an hour or two of fun. However, like many of the guys here, it's a clumsily covered up secret that many of the ladies will have dinner or a drink without charging. I have never paid for social time, nor would I ever do so. Of course you pick up the tab, that's only reasonable. However some of the SP's out there are vehemently against this practice and speak out against their colleagues when it happens, it seems to be a matter of some passion on their part. So, often, while I am wining/dining, I am told " don't talk about the social time in your review" or other such admonishment, so they can be spared the drama. I find especially this to be the case here in Vancouver where there are several vocal ladies who deem it necessary to bash the hell out of their sisters.

If a lady insists on being paid for social time, that's her right and I support that. I just won't book any of it, only play time. Sometimes the rule relaxes when she gets to know you a bit as well. And where the hell are you going for dinner that you are paying 400-600 for dinner? I like nice upscale restaurants and good wine, but have never had a dinner bill for 2 over 250 or 300, even at Tojo's or the Blue Water Cafe. You are going to go get physical after, you should not totally gorge yourself!
I usually just opt to have a light salad, no alcohol, just a Red-Bull and water. Followed by something light and spicy lie a Thai veg/ rice or Veg/pasta dish for the carbs/energy. So all ready to go when we get back to her place ;-)

No I would never pay for going out on social outing. As I would be paying for the event or dinner anyway. I do not want to pay an SP to smile lamely at my talk at dinner. Maybe guys some do, but I do not. I do not mind the fact that I get the "baby oh baby" thing in the sack..But that is the business aspect of the service she provides. If I took an SP out it would be some genuine contact..It is like I/her could enjoy each others company outside of our "business arrangement". I do not think I would ever date an SP romantically, as its just a line I would not want to blur. Many brothers here have warned some guys who fell in love with SP against that pursuit. I agree.