Oh come now, Man Mountain. Warl0ck is a person who loves to push buttons and see what happens, true. Does he have an agenda, perhaps. But if he's a "troll," he's a very subtle and intelligent one. Are you saying we're all just rats in his maze, lol???? :behindsofa:
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We'll have to agree to disagree on the notion that this is even remotely "subtle."
i agree with Man Mountain because the Warlock continues to post in this thread while having a "How do I delete my profile thread". Such BS. It screams attention seeking although stealthy about the trolling. Do I need to remind you he brought numerous threads about another competing forum being hacked
Log out, go away or get the Admin to nuke his profile.
I've been thinking of Warl0ck as troll for a few days now. He always has a contrary position to any discussion and often puts out condescending statements which can be interpreted another way, therefore providing deniability. Another give away is all his "friends" who regularly discuss their lives with him. Having any kind of discussion with him would be like trying to grasp water, frustrating and ultimately futile.
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This.
I am referring to those 'man - children' who show no respect & have little self reflection. Who do I mean? It might be the pooner who writes a negative review about an SP and how felt let down but never examines what role he played in that transaction. Maybe he had terrible hygiene. Maybe he was rough and constantly pushed boundaries. Maybe he took it upon himself to harass her, set up fake appointments or destroy her business. And for my prolific comment I'm referring to just those men. Some of them may well come across as sympathetic to the women but in real life do all of what I mentioned above and more. I challenge you to spend an entire week living with a sex worker and experiencing it. I'm not troll Man Mountain. You label me a troll because you disagree with my opinions.
@BadBadBoy. I shut down my social media and disable accounts on forums all the time. I may take part in a conversation and then decide to leave so I may not want my comments indexed on Google for all of history. I simply asked what the protocol is. I've read this forum for nearly a decade. Would you like a year in review of all the names, people, debates that have taken place over the past years (and what happened to Perbatory anyway?).
This forum is a place for women to advertise their services in a centralized location. The customers are the women, not the men. It's for the women and it needs to be a safe, accepting place where they can do business. One of the routes to a safe forum is not allowing rampant misogyny and tolerate certain men who come across as alarmingly angry at women. Those are the men I'm aiming my comments at. The moderators of this site do a good job tossing out those men who trash those who service you.
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A contrarian at times? Sure. As for mentioning the lives of people I know, is it really that far out there to imagine what I'm saying is the truth? How many married couples do you know who really don't like each other? You don't need to be overly perceptive to see what's going on out there. I listen and observe the life of my friends and family and I think about it. It's all about the ability to self actualized and be introspective. You know, the trophy wife who married for comfort wondering why there is no love in her marriage or the guy who flashes his money and then ends up shacked up with a gold digger. Yeah, I got friends like that.
I think the only issue is trying to lump anyone into any particular category and assuming each category has it's own checklist of criteria. We are all individual people with our own motivation.
As a professional working sp, some gents will objectify us, some will care about us, some will look to bring us pleasure as much as they crave that for themselves, some will be selfish, some will be assholes, some will be adorable and just want to cuddle, you never know what some one's version of "seeing an sp" will be, but being called to fulfill a fantasy, need or desire is what we signed up for and on the clock, for the most part we are game for almost anything, of course ymmv as with any human being on the planet. It's called basic human rights, which should go without saying. So as an sp I do not take offence to being arm candy or the like as that is what we do, we escort a man or group to events, dinner, casual encounters, etc etc, if we dislike how we are treated we have the option to walk away, or not see that person in future.
If I was to date a person they would have to be very confident... They would also have to earn my trust, and yes, whoever mentioned trust earlier, that is # 1 for me, if you have not earned my trust, it's a no-go zone. That means being chill, not pouncing on me all the time, I just want to be treated like a "normal" person by my "partner" if I were to have one. Like an equal and with mutual respect and honesty, be comfortable letting my hair down, and enjoy sharing parts of life together. Sex happens naturally if there is a solid physical, mental and spiritual connection/understanding and is not something I schedule in my normal life, but I do enjoy it regularly but that's besides the point. To spend that much time with a person there has to be so much more than a physical attraction to me. If I had a bf I would want to hear all about Germany, Amsterdam and England escapades in great explicit detail and I would laugh hysterically and not use it as a weapon in the future, every woman is different. I don't believe in arguing or bickering. I basically approach relationships with common sense and honesty, but to get there is a huge commitment and if I do make such a commitment it's 100% sincere. I'm not dating to be arm candy or to show me off, or to keep me to serve your sexual appetite or group sex fantasies or any other selfish purpose. Around me yes sometimes kinky things do happen, but that's not to be expected or demanded, it must be organic.
Thx Bad Santa, I know you seemed like you have some tendencies when I was looking into your eyes, I felt like you could have stayed there forever. I had to shut it off as you are very receptive to suggestion and I know how powerful that can be for you, and for me as well in certain instances. I always mention to gents who feel they are getting too attached to do a rotation between 3 fun loving ladies and that way it always stays fun, with not too much emotional attachment to get in the way. Whatever works and keeps it fun.
A lot has been said on this thread and I have little time to reply to every comment but I will say I am happy you find my comments insightful, I have a lot of experience with relationships and dynamics so glad to share
Cheers
As a professional working sp, some gents will objectify us, some will care about us, some will look to bring us pleasure as much as they crave that for themselves, some will be selfish, some will be assholes, some will be adorable and just want to cuddle, you never know what some one's version of "seeing an sp" will be, but being called to fulfill a fantasy, need or desire is what we signed up for and on the clock, for the most part we are game for almost anything, of course ymmv as with any human being on the planet. It's called basic human rights, which should go without saying. So as an sp I do not take offence to being arm candy or the like as that is what we do, we escort a man or group to events, dinner, casual encounters, etc etc, if we dislike how we are treated we have the option to walk away, or not see that person in future.
If I was to date a person they would have to be very confident... They would also have to earn my trust, and yes, whoever mentioned trust earlier, that is # 1 for me, if you have not earned my trust, it's a no-go zone. That means being chill, not pouncing on me all the time, I just want to be treated like a "normal" person by my "partner" if I were to have one. Like an equal and with mutual respect and honesty, be comfortable letting my hair down, and enjoy sharing parts of life together. Sex happens naturally if there is a solid physical, mental and spiritual connection/understanding and is not something I schedule in my normal life, but I do enjoy it regularly but that's besides the point. To spend that much time with a person there has to be so much more than a physical attraction to me. If I had a bf I would want to hear all about Germany, Amsterdam and England escapades in great explicit detail and I would laugh hysterically and not use it as a weapon in the future, every woman is different. I don't believe in arguing or bickering. I basically approach relationships with common sense and honesty, but to get there is a huge commitment and if I do make such a commitment it's 100% sincere. I'm not dating to be arm candy or to show me off, or to keep me to serve your sexual appetite or group sex fantasies or any other selfish purpose. Around me yes sometimes kinky things do happen, but that's not to be expected or demanded, it must be organic.
Thx Bad Santa, I know you seemed like you have some tendencies when I was looking into your eyes, I felt like you could have stayed there forever. I had to shut it off as you are very receptive to suggestion and I know how powerful that can be for you, and for me as well in certain instances. I always mention to gents who feel they are getting too attached to do a rotation between 3 fun loving ladies and that way it always stays fun, with not too much emotional attachment to get in the way. Whatever works and keeps it fun.
A lot has been said on this thread and I have little time to reply to every comment but I will say I am happy you find my comments insightful, I have a lot of experience with relationships and dynamics so glad to share
Cheers
I haven't seen the contrary comments he's supposed to be posting in other threads, but from what I've seen him post here, I think he's legit. His insight and empathy he appears to have gained from his relationship with an ex-SP ring true to the evolution of my relationship with my girlfriend who used to be a stripper and what I know of her friends who were/are SPs. Of course you know nothing about me so you have no reason to take my word for it.
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A fair comment. I have at times put everything into a box to describe it or make a point. We are all individuals who think & do things to our own accord, but we also do follow patterns. Those patterns make us predictable & it's how we're sometimes conned and exploited. The art of human hacking. We're all individuals but in some ways we're all very much alike.
Under your feet, the power of suggestion goes up a hundred fold Miss Lalani. And yes, sometimes "kinky things do happen" around you. :nod: :biggrin1:
clu, I believe that you're legit and I know johnsmit is legit. i appreciate the insight that you, he and a number of the other members have brought to the discussion. But I stand by my belief that this thread was started as a way to troll this forum and it's membership.I haven't seen the contrary comments he's supposed to be posting in other threads, but from what I've seen him post here, I think he's legit. His insight and empathy he appears to have gained from his relationship with an ex-SP ring true to the evolution of my relationship with my girlfriend who used to be a stripper and what I know of her friends who were/are SPs. Of course you know nothing about me so you have no reason to take my word for it.
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That's your prerogative. I signed up initially to comment on the attack on a rival forum because that's my field of expertise. I created this thread because for 10 years I've sat and read with amusement (and annoyance) about "dating an escort" both here and on TERB. I shared what I've experienced and I expressed my dismay with the sometimes ugly misogynist comments I read here and elsewhere.
Let me ask you a question Man Mountain. Suppose you were walking down Granville with your hot GF. And every person that walked by ogled your SO. And every 3rd person made comments like "fucking ho, hooker, slut, disposable, damaged goods, hey baby, I got a huge cock, do I get it for free, hey baby I'm hot, will you fuck me for free, etc. etc. etc.". How would you react? Do you think you might have opinions on that?
Yah, ok, again a thread revisited 100+ times but you did bring it up for the 101st time without adding value to it.
I could care less if he stayed or not much like the 6969 guy it made no difference to me. He brought it up in a thread and anyone with as much forum experience as Warlock would know only Admins can wipe your slate clean. Again, it screams attention seeking :yawn:
You really put a lot of value on your posts don't you? WTF who would search warlock posts on perb five or more years from now and exactly what it mean if they found them?
Nadda I would say. We are all anonymous here and having BBB's posts found years from now causes me zero concern.
Though you do talk down to the population like you have some sort of pooner expertise which us minions are not aware of in the pooner world.
Hey if you want to Troll Perb, have at it. There are dozens like you though some not as skilled as you perpetuating the discussion of rehashed stuff like you are some sort of pooner expert.
Well he does have 10 years of lurker experience.....guess that makes him "some sort of" pooner expert.:hail: Anyway, while it may get him a friendly reception, all the brown nosing in the world won't get him a discount.:lol:
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You know UncleG, I'm kind of shocked at your comment. You've always been a voice of reason and respect on this forum. You're a witty guy that has dropped some real zingers in here too. You're assumption is that I'm voicing a "pro SP" in the hopes of acquiring a "freebie" is wrong. When did you get so cynical?
And we know this to be a fact supported by the SP or is it part of the forum ID he states?
Pretend you are from Missouri before throwing the approved label on it.
Good point BBB. It's hard to imagine somebody would watch the forum for 10 years, see 100 threads on dating an SP, and didn't notice even one of 100 threads on "how to delete my account". More so with the alleged technical knowledge and presumably enough intelligence to run a search.
I wouldn't mark this thread as deliberate trolling necessarily. People may have complex reasons for posting. I hope it is a real desire to share an interesting personal experience, but it could be mixed with boredom, attention seeking, and some other traits that are also common for trolls. Or the story could be made up. In any case, it's just one possible scenario and not the universal truth.
I also trust OP is younger and more categorical in his judgement than an average member. That may explain the "know-it-all" and condescending vibe some comments here refer to.
"Uncle, I cannot believe you would say that" - I recognize the line! Something my teenage nephew would say when he was full of shit. Is this you, Dominic?
Good description of ungleg though. I won't agree he's cynical in this case. His assumption is consistent with your words:
So getting something for free that other people pay for, seems to be a part of your motivation. That's ok, own it.
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Aww thanks for sticking up for me Miss Hunter. You know how I adore an alpha female. I was thinking of the duo potential here. You can peg some of these guys, ball bust them, then tie them up in a chair with with a rag in their mouth. Then they can kneel and watch while I seduce and bring their wife to orgasm. Maybe blindfold them so we heighten their other senses (smell, hearing).
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