There is an SP that used to place ads, but only uses her "regulars" now. She has mixed reviews here, lol. I hope it's not one of you guys.
I first met her last summer when I was in town. I saw her ad on leolist. After our session, she asked me to fix her computer. So, I did and she gave me a deal. Anyways, we talked a lot during this time. We agreed to meet outside of the "work." We ended up getting along very well. I had no intentions of a relationship because I just got out of a very long relationship that month. Also, I never thought dating an SP was ever a good idea. I leave Vancouver, and we had one session that she asked me not to pay. I still did because I didn't want her to get confused about where this was headed. We are similar in age, both like fitness, but that's where I want to leave it.
So, we keep in touch via text and email for months. She tells me she stopped posting ads, and only seeing regulars. I thought that was odd. I come back to Vancouver last month, so we meet up. Months of talking, I felt like she was a friend. We go out and do social things together while I was there. She wanted me to sleep over the last few nights I was there, so I did. She never asked for cash.
So, my 2nd last night someone was yelling at her from the sidewalk to her balcony. She yells back, and then says she needs to handle this outside. I am watching their argument, but can't hear the words. I ask her what that was all about when she got back, she responds that it was a disgruntled client. I didn't believe her, only a jilted lover acts that way. She wanted to use my phone because she said the guy outside doesn't have her new number. After the chat, I answered one of his calls when she was sleeping. He wanted to know why I was in his "girlfriend's" place. He then broke down, came to the realization of what she was doing to him.
I tell jilted lover boy to talk to me in the morning when I'm not at her place. That morning he tells me that he paid for her apartment, food, clothes since August. Says he has found 3 other guys she was doing this to at the same time! At first I didn't believe him, but it all made sense if heard the conversations between me and her. Jilted lover man tells me he thought she was his girlfriend. Which is kinda funny if you saw those 2 together. Obvious sugar daddy role. Saying she has regulars who take care of her. I dont confront her with this new information, but only had 2 days left to see if she slips with anything.
My dilemma before I leave is that she wants to move to the same city as me next year. Yes, in the same house, lol. Does she really want to have relationship, or does she view me as the next sucker. I do not have much of an emotional attachment to her as her "regulars." Before I leave, jilted lover man shows me evidence of others. So, I never intended to have a real relationship with this girl, but you think you know someone, and it's all lies. I am just glad I was never taken for large amounts of cash like her "regulars." She never asked me to. So, I leave never confronting her about this. I have until end of the year to speak in person about this. Who knows, I'm extremely busy, and don't need this on my mind.
This is a good example of not bringing any SP into your personal life.
