Maybe one was deleted. Deleted posts still get included in the count, I believe.The OP has 3 posts but posting history only shows 2. ..weird..does perb have a glitch?
Clients Falling In Love With Working Girls
- Thread starter Protein
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Why haven't you responded to my earlier message? It seems to me that you don't want to get into a real discussion about your original post. Or am i miss understanding you ignoring me?
At the end we are all human and we have emotion .
More you spent time with someone they have a possibility that emotionally you can connect both partie but we have also private life what make harder sometime or just impossible because of circumstances of life .
Yes they have the money exchange but for my part I don't pretend things or abuse men, it all about karma and can come back in your face if you steal or lied about things to have more, it be greedy and be greedy in my book might pay in the moment but will steal something else from you !!
Each girl have different story but I always been respect very well because I am honest and they know what to expect from day one. Sometimes can be hard but at the end we are both win win & have pleasure !!
We have just have to be realistic but sometimes you never known. I know a client date sp & they are happy and she is too and vice versa. It all about communication and honesty and if we meet love why not !!! Sometimes I find easier meet men through my business then in real life because they don't understand that part ....
More you spent time with someone they have a possibility that emotionally you can connect both partie but we have also private life what make harder sometime or just impossible because of circumstances of life .
Yes they have the money exchange but for my part I don't pretend things or abuse men, it all about karma and can come back in your face if you steal or lied about things to have more, it be greedy and be greedy in my book might pay in the moment but will steal something else from you !!
Each girl have different story but I always been respect very well because I am honest and they know what to expect from day one. Sometimes can be hard but at the end we are both win win & have pleasure !!
We have just have to be realistic but sometimes you never known. I know a client date sp & they are happy and she is too and vice versa. It all about communication and honesty and if we meet love why not
!!! Sometimes I find easier meet men through my business then in real life because they don't understand that part ....
and the ban hammer comes down on...
wait for it...
here it comes...
splat!
protein! (see what i did there? )
wait for it...
here it comes...
splat!
protein! (see what i did there?
)Good post.So far this thread makes me laugh- at how thin-skinned some of us PERBITES actually are.
Everything that Protein said is true on some level. Not for or by every SP, and not directed at every member- just some- which he clearly states.
Yet immediately some seem to take his comments personally.
Of course, as a NOOB with no history, Protein is setting himself up for attack.
It's the defensive comments like "you've got us/everything figured out" that are hilarious.
I've read enough on here over many many years to know how SOME guys- definitely far from ALL- get completely caught up in the fantasies of their own making. Lonely guys, shy guys, dudes with no self confidence craving attention etc. Heck, more than a few have come on here and admitted it.
The conversation at the bar, the openness of the bartender/exSP, or even the source- sure, could be all bullshit.
Or just a creative way of throwing something on the table for discussion that probably hits home with many.
Sure, question the source and the delivery- but the material is sound.
OK now kiddies- re-set your Phasers from 'stun' to 'kill' and let Protein REALLY have it! Or me for that matter
I've walked away from people that really cared about me in order to chase woman that didn't give a damn about me. You cannot measure how much I now miss some of those girls I've lost and the regret I have for the decisions I've made.
I believe a very small percentage of us want to be here.
But when I look down at a hot girl whose name I don't even know with my dick in her mouth 5 minutes after first meeting, how can I walk away from that. I'm torn between the life I want and the lust I crave.
Not for or by every SP?
Instead of making an assertion for debate, the troll told a preposterous story as if it were true.
If a current member wanted to debate this, fine, but don't hide behind a fake name.
Argument, fine, delivery, not.
Not directed at every member?
That doesn't sound like only some, more like a blanket generalisation.
Instead of making an assertion for debate, the troll told a preposterous story as if it were true.
If a current member wanted to debate this, fine, but don't hide behind a fake name.
Argument, fine, delivery, not.
funny,
some one is so easily dismissed, so what he has a couple of posts.
its something to discuss think about,
after being involved with an sp for a long time, you know you wonder,
not necessary about her, but about myself love,
what is love, am I even able to love a women, or anyone,
its a silly question but I have paid a shit load of money to see a women still am paying not a shit load any more. but still paying
but I'm married kids supposedly in love, involved with an sp, whispered a lot of things over a pillow with her and her back to me,
love is funny,
is it real then why do I still pay her,
do I even know what love is,
I'm just talking about me, but I know a lot about her and could comment but will not, its not fare, we have let down our personal barriers and let each other into our lives.
you know its complex,
my father was in and out of jail for rape, my mother kept telling me I was just like him
like shit, was I messed up, some would say I still am,
but like it matters now I'm sixty something. and do not give shit any more pretty much about anything.
but its an interesting question,
an sp told me once if you love yourself, you will not sell your self.
I responded if you love yourself you will not buy someone.
but I still am,
a buddy phones me up when he is pissed out of his mind and tells me he loves me man
me and my sp stay stupid things to each other and make promises
you tell me where it will all end up, I have no idea or what it means.
some one is so easily dismissed, so what he has a couple of posts.
its something to discuss think about,
after being involved with an sp for a long time, you know you wonder,
not necessary about her, but about myself love,
what is love, am I even able to love a women, or anyone,
its a silly question but I have paid a shit load of money to see a women still am paying not a shit load any more. but still paying
but I'm married kids supposedly in love, involved with an sp, whispered a lot of things over a pillow with her and her back to me,
love is funny,
is it real then why do I still pay her,
do I even know what love is,
I'm just talking about me, but I know a lot about her and could comment but will not, its not fare, we have let down our personal barriers and let each other into our lives.
you know its complex,
my father was in and out of jail for rape, my mother kept telling me I was just like him
like shit, was I messed up, some would say I still am,
but like it matters now I'm sixty something. and do not give shit any more pretty much about anything.
but its an interesting question,
an sp told me once if you love yourself, you will not sell your self.
I responded if you love yourself you will not buy someone.
but I still am,
a buddy phones me up when he is pissed out of his mind and tells me he loves me man
me and my sp stay stupid things to each other and make promises
you tell me where it will all end up, I have no idea or what it means.
This was years ago when I worked somewhere else (not in BC). My life was a mess. I was so lonely and sad all the time and the only way I could feel "happiness" was with this Asian SP. I was crazy about her. There were a few weeks during which I would visit her every day. Sometimes more than twice a day. I even brought her gifts and took her out on dates to shopping malls. She would call me sometimes and tell me that she missed me and I should go see her. She always says my name in such a sweet voice (I can't really describe it, but the voice just sounds so cute and sweet). And every time we parted, she would lower her head slightly, bite her lips lightly and gently pull my hands like she does not want to let me go. It just made me feel so special. I really thought there was something real between us.
This SP rotated around various micros in the area. One day I went to see the SP because she told me she "missed" me. It was a newly established micro. While I was waiting for the SP, I chatted with the manager. It was then that I found out that this micro was relatively new and that business had been slow. The manager thought the business was finally picking up because it was quite busy on that day. It was then that I heard the SP calling the previous client in exactly the same voice she usually addresses me at the door and pulling the guy's hand as they parted. I could see her head is slightly lowered. I could not see if she bit her lips at all but I knew the answer all the same. Everything started to make sense.
That last session with her was excruciatingly painful. I started to analyze every move and trick she made objectively. My body was moving because of the physical pleasure, but I couldn't feel anything. My mind was so overwhelmed by my new discovery. She sensed something was off and asked me about it. I told her it was the pressure from work. That was the last thing I said to her that I could remember.
I am not saying all SP's will manipulate their clients to get what they want. But I know that if there are signs an SP is falling for me, I would be extremely cautious and make sure I have enough money in my bank.
After all, for me at least, this hobby is just another business activity, and I have learned it the hard way.
This SP rotated around various micros in the area. One day I went to see the SP because she told me she "missed" me. It was a newly established micro. While I was waiting for the SP, I chatted with the manager. It was then that I found out that this micro was relatively new and that business had been slow. The manager thought the business was finally picking up because it was quite busy on that day. It was then that I heard the SP calling the previous client in exactly the same voice she usually addresses me at the door and pulling the guy's hand as they parted. I could see her head is slightly lowered. I could not see if she bit her lips at all but I knew the answer all the same. Everything started to make sense.
That last session with her was excruciatingly painful. I started to analyze every move and trick she made objectively. My body was moving because of the physical pleasure, but I couldn't feel anything. My mind was so overwhelmed by my new discovery. She sensed something was off and asked me about it. I told her it was the pressure from work. That was the last thing I said to her that I could remember.
I am not saying all SP's will manipulate their clients to get what they want. But I know that if there are signs an SP is falling for me, I would be extremely cautious and make sure I have enough money in my bank.
After all, for me at least, this hobby is just another business activity, and I have learned it the hard way.
As a fairly green hobbyist (I only ever engaged in this hobby 3 times), has any OPs ever think back why do they need to find an SP in the first place? Was it just about sex? Emotional attachment? Excitement? ETC...? Every client has their own story, same as every SP as well
I did this twice with the same girl when I was in between serious relationships 8 years ago. Then a third time recently. Obviously no one going into this hobby would be thinking about developing a lasting relationship with an SP, certainly this is the last ditch thing that i would think of.
But I think it is time to go back to the drawing board, and why people on this forum go for SPs, and certainly look at myself in the mirror.
I did this twice with the same girl when I was in between serious relationships 8 years ago. Then a third time recently. Obviously no one going into this hobby would be thinking about developing a lasting relationship with an SP, certainly this is the last ditch thing that i would think of.
But I think it is time to go back to the drawing board, and why people on this forum go for SPs, and certainly look at myself in the mirror.
Ah the client falling in love with SP story. I have one of those, still hoping I could still end up with her. The connection was undeniable, the sex was magical and my heart felt so at ease and the weight of the world seem to be lifted when I'm with her. I think she saw me as a nice good looking young guy who gave her a pretty good bang, but isn't long term dating material for her.
I remember one particular story of a girl working at SP for Maggie. I never liked her but we connected pretty well and we enjoyed talking to each other. She fell in love with a client and was trying to convince him to leave his family for her. The story got really messy when she was looking at the security feed and saw him coming to the apartment but ended up seeing another girl on another floor. I remember one session I had with her and she explained the story about him, his wife and her.
I never ended up seeing her again after that session as she ended up going back to Hong Kong for a bit but I really doubt the guy ended up leaving his wife to be with her.
I remember one particular story of a girl working at SP for Maggie. I never liked her but we connected pretty well and we enjoyed talking to each other. She fell in love with a client and was trying to convince him to leave his family for her. The story got really messy when she was looking at the security feed and saw him coming to the apartment but ended up seeing another girl on another floor. I remember one session I had with her and she explained the story about him, his wife and her.
I never ended up seeing her again after that session as she ended up going back to Hong Kong for a bit but I really doubt the guy ended up leaving his wife to be with her.
I used to feel this way until... I fell in love with a client an ex dr boyfriend we dated for 6 years and remain friends ... and then ... 2 years later I fell in love with another client ceo we were engaged to be married ...I retired I bought a tanning salon blah blah blah I never made down the aisle... This girl is Jaded you are correct how can I judge the hand the feeds me and Vice versa? Not to mention we usually meet ppl though work? Extra bonous you get to try each other out sexually before you decided to take further steps!This was a discussion at the bar last night. It was quite entertaining, as the bartender was a former escort who claims 99.9% of working girls can never actually fall in love in the truest form. She had wild stories of regulars falling for her, and her taking advantage of them for more cash. Now I am not generalizing the entire SP world, but it was a great look into a perspective that we rarely hear about. She did not hold anything back, and stated she lost her soul being a working girl. She had learned to distrust all men, and claimed even today she would only use men for money only. I didn't ask, but she was about late 20s, which is sad that her outlook on life is so jaded. I really can't blame her after her stories of her SP days. She said she cried every morning, doing it for a roof over her head and her addictions.
She overheard our conversation, and she asked to give her opinions. What an eye opener. This conversation started when I brought up a SP I have seen in the past, but now are just platonic friends. This SP shared some things about her mentality, and her life as a sex worker. I found it quite saddening, without discussing the detail of our conversation. She shared a similar mindset to our bartender friend. She said it was highly unlikely for a SP to ever develop true love for one of her clients. She said not impossible, but very unlikely.
Her stories of clients getting emotionally attached are crazy. She had her guys believing that she quit escorting, and that they were the only guy. She felt no remorse for deceiving these men. I can't say I blame her either. She mentioned some of your perb handles here by name, I'm sure you fellas know who you are. Handing over cash for not even having sex anymore, just to beg a young girl to like you. I think some of you are so starved for love, you attach it to someone you are paying to have sex with. There is a fact that elude some of you, that these girls are actresses. Some are very good at acting that some of you actually believe that these working girls like you.
One thing we all took from last night, was that the bartender and the current SP both said, "I lost my soul."
However I must confess that yes it is uncommon for ladies to date clients and honestly love them
but I am seeing more and more of it it used to be so taboo ...
You were clearly talking to a low rent scam artist. Please don't paint us all with that brush. Many girls are very respectful of the gentlemen they see and treat their feelings delicately. I don't know any lady in my personal circle that would ever take advantage of someone in that way. Not to mention that we are all very healthy physically, mentally, emotionally... I mean... Me n my other working girl friends go for green juice and yoga and talk about how to better spread love and happiness....
I also know lots of girls that have married their "favorite client" (no they weren't super rich or anything that can make you say she doesn't really care) had beautiful babies and lived happily ever after.... Like anything else, it all depends on where you shop
A girl an sp told me once, we sell emotions as much as anything.
To be perfectly honest I think us guys see what we want to see. If we want to see a gold digger that's what we find. If you want to find love that is what we find to.
I think you or we are very foolish to think because we love a girl she has to love us back. Whether she is an sp or not having a crush or a thing for a girl doesn't at all mean she feels anything for us back.
My feelings are mine and I enjoy them but that has nothing to do with the sp or what ever women I happen to be thinking about.
I pay my sp money, so to be honest I have a healthy skepticism about what she feels. She trusts me and were good friends but other then that, I have no idea of what she feels toward me. You know that is fine because I'm married and not really planning about leaving my wife and family.
But if your single and actually looking and wanting love and all that goes with it. If I was single I wouldn't be satisfied with the way things were with my sp. I would want to take it to the next level. I would want more then a part time girl friend that I have to pay for. I wouldn't actually pay her money I couldn't pay her money, money for me is a safety net. No matter how close we are I still pay her money so were still client and sp.
I respect that comment sp's marry clients, I do, if I was actually single and free I would try and go to the next level with my sp, not sure if it would work out between us.
to be frank its not out of the question her and me, not sure what will happen to us, not worried about it either.
its funny we see what we want to we feel the things what we want to. we really do.
If you want a better relationship make a better you, stop bitching about the women your involved with, be more confident be more interesting be funny people need to laugh, and people they need to be accepted,
accept the women your with for who ever she is,
its funny I have been down a long emotional road with my sp, and I have learned about myself. I have learned how to live, to love to enjoy life. thanks to a women who just happens to be an sp.
in the end it doesn't really matter what she feels about me. I have learned a lot about myself and to trust myself, to like who I am and like the relationship I have with her what ever it is.
If she is playing me its more her problem then mine. it says more about her emotions and thoughts about life then mine, and I feel sorry for her actually if that who she is an actor.
sad actually, but me, I came into this paying for sex not wanting a relationship to be honest, if your looking for a relationship your in the wrong place.
To be perfectly honest I think us guys see what we want to see. If we want to see a gold digger that's what we find. If you want to find love that is what we find to.
I think you or we are very foolish to think because we love a girl she has to love us back. Whether she is an sp or not having a crush or a thing for a girl doesn't at all mean she feels anything for us back.
My feelings are mine and I enjoy them but that has nothing to do with the sp or what ever women I happen to be thinking about.
I pay my sp money, so to be honest I have a healthy skepticism about what she feels. She trusts me and were good friends but other then that, I have no idea of what she feels toward me. You know that is fine because I'm married and not really planning about leaving my wife and family.
But if your single and actually looking and wanting love and all that goes with it. If I was single I wouldn't be satisfied with the way things were with my sp. I would want to take it to the next level. I would want more then a part time girl friend that I have to pay for. I wouldn't actually pay her money I couldn't pay her money, money for me is a safety net. No matter how close we are I still pay her money so were still client and sp.
I respect that comment sp's marry clients, I do, if I was actually single and free I would try and go to the next level with my sp, not sure if it would work out between us.
to be frank its not out of the question her and me, not sure what will happen to us, not worried about it either.
its funny we see what we want to we feel the things what we want to. we really do.
If you want a better relationship make a better you, stop bitching about the women your involved with, be more confident be more interesting be funny people need to laugh, and people they need to be accepted,
accept the women your with for who ever she is,
its funny I have been down a long emotional road with my sp, and I have learned about myself. I have learned how to live, to love to enjoy life. thanks to a women who just happens to be an sp.
in the end it doesn't really matter what she feels about me. I have learned a lot about myself and to trust myself, to like who I am and like the relationship I have with her what ever it is.
If she is playing me its more her problem then mine. it says more about her emotions and thoughts about life then mine, and I feel sorry for her actually if that who she is an actor.
sad actually, but me, I came into this paying for sex not wanting a relationship to be honest, if your looking for a relationship your in the wrong place.
I'll say this. I've met a couple of women in this industry that I could fall in love with.
Like any walk of life, you get all kinds. One thing I've learned is that there are ALL kinds of women doing this. And some of them are amazing. And some of them aren't.
Like any walk of life, you get all kinds. One thing I've learned is that there are ALL kinds of women doing this. And some of them are amazing. And some of them aren't.
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It would depend on the people involved. A lot of ladies live fast and very high lifestyles with little stability. A lot of ladies I've met over the past 15 years have lifestyles with no grounding whatsoever. It has nothing to do with being an SP. Miley Cyrus and other young stars to come into a lot of money very quickly have similar issues.
You have person with a lot of money coming in very quickly without constraints or obligations everyday people have to face. One minute she wants to start her own real estate business and has all of the school books on the table. The next time you see her 2 months later, she's trying to be a PornStar. You go and see the same lady 2 months later, she now has a life goal to become a financial constant. 2 weeks later the same SP is now trying to start her own house flipping business. 3 weeks later, she now wants to be a professional bartender.
Not all ladies are like this. Don't generalize. i've noticed hundreds of SP's over the years leading lives that would make it impossible to have a stable relationship with them. They bounce around like a ping pong ball making life altering decisions on tandem. A lot girls are pure chaos.
I dated an SP in the past. The first three months were just amazing. The last few months were Hell. I'm a business professional with a stable lifestyle. She kept trying to drag my life into her constant never ending chaos. I helped her pay for courses to help her chase a dream. 2-months later she changed her mind and tossed the 2k I loaned her for school into the flames like it was nothing.
I thought about getting into a relationship with my ATF. She crashes a car every 3 months. She buys 3 new used cars a year. She wrecks all of them. I love and enjoy my time with her dearly but I could never live like that.
So people don't freak out. I'm not saying all SP's are like this. It's been my luck over the years to run into the SP's that live fast and furious lifestyles that have no grounding. As a business professional that's impossible to deal with. It makes the ladies like that undatable. Our lifestyles and speed of life is way too far apart. It's a total blast for the first three months but there's zero hope for a real relationship when she's always living on cloud 49 while you have to live your life on terrafirma dealing with the daily grind. You can't have someone constantly trying to throw your life into chaos.
You have person with a lot of money coming in very quickly without constraints or obligations everyday people have to face. One minute she wants to start her own real estate business and has all of the school books on the table. The next time you see her 2 months later, she's trying to be a PornStar. You go and see the same lady 2 months later, she now has a life goal to become a financial constant. 2 weeks later the same SP is now trying to start her own house flipping business. 3 weeks later, she now wants to be a professional bartender.
Not all ladies are like this. Don't generalize. i've noticed hundreds of SP's over the years leading lives that would make it impossible to have a stable relationship with them. They bounce around like a ping pong ball making life altering decisions on tandem. A lot girls are pure chaos.
I dated an SP in the past. The first three months were just amazing. The last few months were Hell. I'm a business professional with a stable lifestyle. She kept trying to drag my life into her constant never ending chaos. I helped her pay for courses to help her chase a dream. 2-months later she changed her mind and tossed the 2k I loaned her for school into the flames like it was nothing.
I thought about getting into a relationship with my ATF. She crashes a car every 3 months. She buys 3 new used cars a year. She wrecks all of them. I love and enjoy my time with her dearly but I could never live like that.
So people don't freak out. I'm not saying all SP's are like this. It's been my luck over the years to run into the SP's that live fast and furious lifestyles that have no grounding. As a business professional that's impossible to deal with. It makes the ladies like that undatable. Our lifestyles and speed of life is way too far apart. It's a total blast for the first three months but there's zero hope for a real relationship when she's always living on cloud 49 while you have to live your life on terrafirma dealing with the daily grind. You can't have someone constantly trying to throw your life into chaos.
