This was a discussion at the bar last night. It was quite entertaining, as the bartender was a former escort who claims 99.9% of working girls can never actually fall in love in the truest form. She had wild stories of regulars falling for her, and her taking advantage of them for more cash. Now I am not generalizing the entire SP world, but it was a great look into a perspective that we rarely hear about. She did not hold anything back, and stated she lost her soul being a working girl. She had learned to distrust all men, and claimed even today she would only use men for money only. I didn't ask, but she was about late 20s, which is sad that her outlook on life is so jaded. I really can't blame her after her stories of her SP days. She said she cried every morning, doing it for a roof over her head and her addictions.
She overheard our conversation, and she asked to give her opinions. What an eye opener. This conversation started when I brought up a SP I have seen in the past, but now are just platonic friends. This SP shared some things about her mentality, and her life as a sex worker. I found it quite saddening, without discussing the detail of our conversation. She shared a similar mindset to our bartender friend. She said it was highly unlikely for a SP to ever develop true love for one of her clients. She said not impossible, but very unlikely.
Her stories of clients getting emotionally attached are crazy. She had her guys believing that she quit escorting, and that they were the only guy. She felt no remorse for deceiving these men. I can't say I blame her either. She mentioned some of your perb handles here by name, I'm sure you fellas know who you are. Handing over cash for not even having sex anymore, just to beg a young girl to like you. I think some of you are so starved for love, you attach it to someone you are paying to have sex with. There is a fact that elude some of you, that these girls are actresses. Some are very good at acting that some of you actually believe that these working girls like you.
One thing we all took from last night, was that the bartender and the current SP both said, "I lost my soul."
She overheard our conversation, and she asked to give her opinions. What an eye opener. This conversation started when I brought up a SP I have seen in the past, but now are just platonic friends. This SP shared some things about her mentality, and her life as a sex worker. I found it quite saddening, without discussing the detail of our conversation. She shared a similar mindset to our bartender friend. She said it was highly unlikely for a SP to ever develop true love for one of her clients. She said not impossible, but very unlikely.
Her stories of clients getting emotionally attached are crazy. She had her guys believing that she quit escorting, and that they were the only guy. She felt no remorse for deceiving these men. I can't say I blame her either. She mentioned some of your perb handles here by name, I'm sure you fellas know who you are. Handing over cash for not even having sex anymore, just to beg a young girl to like you. I think some of you are so starved for love, you attach it to someone you are paying to have sex with. There is a fact that elude some of you, that these girls are actresses. Some are very good at acting that some of you actually believe that these working girls like you.
One thing we all took from last night, was that the bartender and the current SP both said, "I lost my soul."
