Busted!
- Thread starter dipitydoo
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Read more carefully; I did say "appears". ...which it does. If you are not a deity worshiper, then I do congratulate you on that.Maybe you should read what I wrote in response to similar comments to yours here.
I think you'll find there is no religion involved in my perspective.
Integrity, honor & character - but no religion.
---Dr. Moe
Why congratulate me on NOT being religious?
Or more specifically why congratulate me on NOT being a "diety worshiper"?
Just because YOU do not believe in God does not mean there is not God.
How pretentious!
Krustee
There is nothing pretentious about it. It is the way I feel. You need not accept my congratulations and there was no implication that you wanted my congratulations. I think you meant to use the word "presumptuous", although I did offer my congratulations only IF you are not a deity worshiper. I did not proclaim you to be a deity worshiper. As a result, I am also not being presumptuous.
---Dr. Moe
There is nothing pretentious about it. It is the way I feel. You need not accept my congratulations and there was no implication that you wanted my congratulations. I think you meant to use the word "presumptuous", although I did offer my congratulations only IF you are not a deity worshiper. I did not proclaim you to be a deity worshiper. As a result, I am also not being presumptuous.
---Dr. Moe
Actually, you only believe you did based upon your own misconception and false assumption. You are making an inference which is incorrect.
---Dr. Moe
my 2 cents
Ok, so you got caught.... When in a relationship, that's the risk we take. I don't think there should be any judgement on the poor guy here. Yes It's totally wrong, and any of us who are in relationships and still poon it's wrong period!
But we have to take responsibility for our own actions too. The reasons why we do what we do are varied and many. For those in relationsips it has a great deal to do with the SO in one way or another.
I applaud dipptydo for working on his relationship, and working to move away from the hobby. I've considered telling my SO several times, but I keep coming to the same conclusion. If nothing in our relatinship changes, I'm not as likely to change. It's a lot more difficult. So if you end up back where you statrted why confess in the first place?
My advice for dippitydo is to focus on meeting your SO's needs. and she works to do the same for you. It sounds simple, but not real easy to follow through on. When you do that, you'll find that you begin to grow closer together, and Love between you starts to grow.
I wish you the best of luck.
Ok, so you got caught.... When in a relationship, that's the risk we take. I don't think there should be any judgement on the poor guy here. Yes It's totally wrong, and any of us who are in relationships and still poon it's wrong period!
But we have to take responsibility for our own actions too. The reasons why we do what we do are varied and many. For those in relationsips it has a great deal to do with the SO in one way or another.
I applaud dipptydo for working on his relationship, and working to move away from the hobby. I've considered telling my SO several times, but I keep coming to the same conclusion. If nothing in our relatinship changes, I'm not as likely to change. It's a lot more difficult. So if you end up back where you statrted why confess in the first place?
My advice for dippitydo is to focus on meeting your SO's needs. and she works to do the same for you. It sounds simple, but not real easy to follow through on. When you do that, you'll find that you begin to grow closer together, and Love between you starts to grow.
I wish you the best of luck.
I believe in God, I even go to Church on Sundays if I'm not too hung over and don't have a hot hunny that I don't feel like giving kicking out of bed early. Having said that this "deity" teaches me to take the log out of my eye before i criticize the splinter in someone else's and since i'm not without sin i can't cast the first stone.
Krustee I do agree with you that if you're in a relationship you should restrict your dick form other holes, but c'mon enough already with th moral indignation and the holier than thou"ness".
Krustee I do agree with you that if you're in a relationship you should restrict your dick form other holes, but c'mon enough already with th moral indignation and the holier than thou"ness".
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Sums you up pretty well I'd say.
Pompous, humourless, condescending, arrogant, self-agrandizing (sic),intolerant, and the list goes on....
But I would be remiss if I did not add this:
Some help please!
could anyone recommend a good counselor? someone that has more availability than your usual 9-5 hours and that is not all business?
I know it's a job for them, but it's incredibly hard to find some help! it's extremely frustrating to be in a position where you just desperately need some guidance, some help and it's nowhere to be found. I might be overreacting but it's just driving me crazy!
Thanks for your support guys.
could anyone recommend a good counselor? someone that has more availability than your usual 9-5 hours and that is not all business?
I know it's a job for them, but it's incredibly hard to find some help! it's extremely frustrating to be in a position where you just desperately need some guidance, some help and it's nowhere to be found. I might be overreacting but it's just driving me crazy!
Thanks for your support guys.
Krustee, it is probable that the vast majority of us pooners have SOs.
Don't be so judgmental. We all know we are taking a risk when we play, and we do not need your holier than thou attitude on the subject.
Don't be so judgmental. We all know we are taking a risk when we play, and we do not need your holier than thou attitude on the subject.
I would be more than happy to counsel you & the SO dipity.
Just send a PM & I will let you know my schedule.
Let us take a journey for a moment and imagine.
If you will, take a moment and imagine what might occur if you were to…
- Suppress all your desires,
- only do what others tell you to do,
- confine your inner wisdom by not contributing your ideas or insights,
- looked to others to always lead the way…
If you previously made an agreement with a soulmate to find each other, and grow and express together through the blending of your two individualities, because your individual nature has not shown up, it will be difficult to draw your soul mate to you.
Imagine a person who feels so very empty. They desperately want an individual in their life to make them feel whole. When we do this, we are actually seeking a way to learn about ourselves. Being with the other person is like looking into a mirror, and wishing that mirror to shine light back into us. Therefore, the intention and action will attract someone to teach us more about who we are through contrast. But do not judge, it is just so. This is how we learn.
Even when we are sad and lonely, and feel a deep void within our soul, this void wishes to serve us. This emptiness can be a path for discovery and eventually ignite our growth. It can lead us to create a better definition of ourselves as we transform in the void. Through the contrast of darkness, seeking the light to lead us, we can grow as long as we don't get stuck in deep self examination without taking a creative step. So please, do not judge yourself if you are feeling half full, or feeling that you are empty without the love of another comforting you. It is wise to feel the longing for another's love. Do not judge your longing. Recognize that what you are longing is pointing you to the value of love that you hold within. It is pointing you to the well of love that resides within. As you embrace this love, recognize it is your light; it will then light the way to discover your personal passion. Sometimes we must enter the dark to know the light, and then life can get very interesting.
When you eventually find the place in your nature that taps into your inner well and recognizes that you are whole, already full, and one with all that is--then all you have to do is turn your attention toward this universal love. Or whatever you wish to acknowledge this vibration as. Perhaps it will be your higher power, Love, Light, or God. Doesn't matter really, allow this to be your source of love. Then you will recognize this vibration is within. You can be grounded upon this earth and centered in your body. You can then resonate and be a full thriving being. From this place you can attract another individual that holds the same vibration. Ah, there is your passion, and there is your soul mate.
Recognize that each step and stage of life is here to serve you. It is here to bring you closer to love, closer to happiness, and closer to learning how to trust your heart, and bring more love into your life.
