Busted!
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Sorry to hear that bro, but it is an occupational hazzard. I hope everything turns out OK for you.
Panther
Panther
Why the hell -
OK so I'll keep it short. For the first time, I've been busted pooning by the SO
is it you were seeing another woman (& a hooker at that) when you are in a supposedly committed relationship with another?
I don't know about wishing you luck -
in my opinion YOU fucked up & should voluntarily quit the relationship as you have no idea what "committed' & "faithful" means.
You reap what you sow & you live & learn.
hey Krustee...Why the hell -
is it you were seeing another woman (& a hooker at that) when you are in a supposedly committed relationship with another?
I don't know about wishing you luck -
in my opinion YOU fucked up & should voluntarily quit the relationship as you have no idea what "committed' & "faithful" means.
You reap what you sow & you live & learn.
I hear ya, I hear ya. I am just starting to realize so many things that I took lightly. I am working on becoming a more honest, open and caring person. Any comment and opinion is welcome, even if it means hearing that I fucked up and that I need to stop something.
I am also thinking I should stop visiting this forum altogether, it's just that I am at a loss at the moment and just looking for support.
You don't practice being honest & having integrity -
you either are & do...
or
DON'T
Decide WHO you want to be -
then
Become who you want to be.
No compromise!
Think positive & act on those thoughts!
IMHO keep poonin and walk. Think of the variety-- you can't get that at home. If all was well and she was doing her part, you wouldn't have pooned in the first place.
"A man never got a woman back by beggin on his knees. " L. Cohen
"A man never got a woman back by beggin on his knees. " L. Cohen
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I would just dump the SO. These kinds of things are very hard to work through and she's going to grab you by the hair and rub your face in it everychance she gets. Hell she might even just keep you around to get even and make your life miserable.
I would be wwaiting for her to drop a hint of an affair or even just a one nighter to get back at you.
I would be wwaiting for her to drop a hint of an affair or even just a one nighter to get back at you.
A bit judgemental, aren't we?Why the hell -
is it you were seeing another woman (& a hooker at that) when you are in a supposedly committed relationship with another?
I don't know about wishing you luck -
in my opinion YOU fucked up & should voluntarily quit the relationship as you have no idea what "committed' & "faithful" means.
You reap what you sow & you live & learn.
Seems to me that none of us, who frequent hookers, not to mention a hooker review board, should be casting many stones when it comes to women and relationships.....eh?
thing is, this gal's a really unique and committed girl, who is willing to be open and learn as long as things are out in the open. I am sure she will not go for the "let's have an open relationship where I can bang escorts and you're fine with that", but she has surprised me with her resiliency and willingness to talk and work things out.
In other words, the gal really, really cares for me.
I think I owe it to myself and to her to come clean, to try to find a way to be honest, open and true in my intentions and if I plan on being with her, I will most definitely choose being faithful.
Things that gave me away were phone numbers that were found (I know, never keep those around) and long hours spent away from her.
Something got your goat Mars man?He suffers from a superiority complex. He's superior to everybody in what he considers the "in-crowd" in every way- just ask him.
And THEN, If you're not careful he'll start bragging about his (alleged) Beamer and expensive watch and how he gave an SP 50 orgasms on St Patrick's day just to show you how important he is
And dippitty I sympathise.
Up Shit Creek With Out a Paddle...ooooohh that sucks
When you are busted, balls deep, you are up the creek with out a paddle, hope to heck you have fucked some smart escorts that know and understand the costs and risks of dabbling in the bussines,(espescially if the SO is a PI, (private investigator)) on every angle, including your best interests most importantly.
I have been harrassed by email, threatened by phone calls with court dates, blackmail letters, and had my vehicle vandalised too, by the pissed off house wife... bless her pussy.
What I have done....as an escort, I tell myself that I have never been paid for sex, however, I do think to myself that I have been paid to shut the f-up. So the answer is "NO, I have no idea who your husband is, sorry to hear that"...."You should cut his balls off"..just kidding. Seriously, just no, no, no to her.
DISCRETION.....to my best ability always.
Sandi
When you are busted, balls deep, you are up the creek with out a paddle, hope to heck you have fucked some smart escorts that know and understand the costs and risks of dabbling in the bussines,(espescially if the SO is a PI, (private investigator)) on every angle, including your best interests most importantly.
I have been harrassed by email, threatened by phone calls with court dates, blackmail letters, and had my vehicle vandalised too, by the pissed off house wife... bless her pussy.
What I have done....as an escort, I tell myself that I have never been paid for sex, however, I do think to myself that I have been paid to shut the f-up. So the answer is "NO, I have no idea who your husband is, sorry to hear that"...."You should cut his balls off"..just kidding. Seriously, just no, no, no to her.
DISCRETION.....to my best ability always.
Sandi
Often it is the case that, if you have strayed a bunch of times, you will stray a bunch of times again.... just a matter of when.
There is a reason why you poon. Papering over it to make a relationship "work" won't work.
You have to really want whatever it is that the relationship gives you, more than what pooning gives you, or the desire to stray will rise up again.
Just make your choice... either way is okay. But it is damn hard to change your ways if you are habitually promiscuous.
There is a reason why you poon. Papering over it to make a relationship "work" won't work.
You have to really want whatever it is that the relationship gives you, more than what pooning gives you, or the desire to stray will rise up again.
Just make your choice... either way is okay. But it is damn hard to change your ways if you are habitually promiscuous.
I have to wonder how much responsibility she is willing to accept for your hobby. While I understand her anger (or whatever), if she can't (or won't) talk about what she did or didn't do that caused you to look for the services of an SP, then nothing will change and you'll end up back in the hobby.
Don't accept all of the responsibility for this.
Don't accept all of the responsibility for this.
thanks
thanks again for the words guys and gals.
I know she is not the type to go around harrassing SP's to get more information. I know she won't try to get back at me by sleeping around. As I mentioned, the gal is a class act and I royally fucked up.
I think it is not because she did or did not do something, that I looked for sex elsewhere with SP's. I believe it is a more deeply rooted issue within myself and it has happened before with other girls. I admit it that I am someone for which pooning is an escape, a comfort zone that I go to whenever issues arise, (and not just issues with my SO).
I also admit that I have been a royal asshole for behaving that way and inflicting so much pain on someone.
Right now, as Sandi Laine well put it, I am up the creek without a paddle, but I know where I have to go, so I will figure out a way to get there, as hard as it may be.
Thank you again guys, every comment I read gives me some valuable insight.
thanks again for the words guys and gals.
I know she is not the type to go around harrassing SP's to get more information. I know she won't try to get back at me by sleeping around. As I mentioned, the gal is a class act and I royally fucked up.
I think it is not because she did or did not do something, that I looked for sex elsewhere with SP's. I believe it is a more deeply rooted issue within myself and it has happened before with other girls. I admit it that I am someone for which pooning is an escape, a comfort zone that I go to whenever issues arise, (and not just issues with my SO).
I also admit that I have been a royal asshole for behaving that way and inflicting so much pain on someone.
Right now, as Sandi Laine well put it, I am up the creek without a paddle, but I know where I have to go, so I will figure out a way to get there, as hard as it may be.
Thank you again guys, every comment I read gives me some valuable insight.
