Being too picky might prevent you from having a good experience

[LC18]

Obviously, if you are looking to book an escort, you should be able to pick the woman of your dreams (or close to). It is all part of the fantasy after all, calling a girl that you’d probably be too shy to approach in a bar. Meeting up with a woman half your age. Getting a pretty girl on her knees.

However, I fear some of you are unnecessarily picky. Let me explain myself and you can agree or judge respectfully after.

Yes the looks are important when choosing a companion but there’s more to it. There are many providers that don’t exactly look like Adriana Lima in her prime time but that would give you the experience of a lifetime. An addictive personality, a magnetic charm and just amazing bedroom skills.

By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.

Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?

Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.

TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.

 

[Compton_]

😒

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Now in my 8th decade I have been following this for the past 6 of them ... and it has worked out extremely well.
Sage advice!!

 

[LC18]

😒

You may not think that I’m right but would you prefer booking a 10 with a nasty attitude/poor service or a 7 with the best attitude/service.

 

[Dick Ford]

I've said this in another thread, but I feel true happiness can be found in not being a slave to a certain type. Once I freed myself of that burden, the providers I saw were much better matches.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

Obviously, if you are looking to book an escort, you should be able to pick the woman of your dreams (or close to). It is all part of the fantasy after all, calling a girl that you’d probably be too shy to approach in a bar. Meeting up with a woman half your age. Getting a pretty girl on her knees.

However, I fear some of you are unnecessarily picky. Let me explain myself and you can agree or judge respectfully after.

Yes the looks are important when choosing a companion but there’s more to it. There are many providers that don’t exactly look like Adriana Lima in her prime time but that would give you the experience of a lifetime. An addictive personality, a magnetic charm and just amazing bedroom skills.

By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.

Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?

Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.

TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.

Did something happen to spur you to write about this?

 

[gianni lotus]

You may not think that I’m right but would you prefer booking a 10 with a nasty attitude/poor service or a 7 with the best attitude/service.

I'd rather be with a good attitude 3 than a nasty 10. The problem is that it is easy to find 3's. It is damn hard to find 10 service. That's why this board is important. 10 service is also different for everyone. There are personality clashes, bad days, overwork, bad clients, and a million other reasons why the service I got might be different from some other persons.

You can do all the research you want but at the end of the day it is always a gamble. I have had very lacklustre experiences with highly recommended ladies and the opposite. There are too many variables. I have found that the ones that give consistent outstanding service are very rare.

It is bad experiences that caused me to broaden the horizons and I agree that by searching for the "perfect one" can limit ones options and may cause one to lose out but it can also prevent the worst experience which is to get 3/10 service from 3/10 looks. I'd rather have 3 service from a 10 than 3 service from a 3. Looks aren't everything but they do play a significant part.

 

[LC18]

Did something happen to spur you to write about this?

Yes, someone in Montreal said he couldn’t find any providers that matched his criteria: white, under 25, 125lbs or less, healthy and cute

these aren’t even hard to meet to be honest

 

[LC18]

I don't think it is any worse for an older man to want a woman for her youth or beauty, than it is for a woman to want a man for his wealth or status.

You misunderstood my point. I’ve never said it was wrong, I said being too picky isn’t always good.

The same could be said about the women you’ve cited in this exemple. If they can’t find the perfect rich man, they should consider looking for someone who has just a little less money.

 

[rinamood]

Yes, someone in Montreal said he couldn’t find any providers that matched his criteria: white, under 25, 125lbs or less, healthy and cute

these aren’t even hard to meet to be honest

If the criteria are to such an extent that they cannot find anyone in the area to try spending time with next, they're shooting themselves in the foot with that one. I agree that if the client is finding zero providers of the precise type they are looking for, that's on them to either chill out and be patient, or to adjust their criteria. The list of ideals may sound limiting sometimes but if they're still pretty happy with their regular SPs, then I think it's okay.

 

[LC18]

If the criteria are to such an extent that they cannot find anyone in the area to try spending time with next, they're shooting themselves in the foot with that one. I agree that if the client is finding zero providers of the precise type they are looking for, that's on them to either chill out and be patient, or to adjust their criteria. The list of ideals may sound limiting sometimes but if they're still pretty happy with their regular SPs, then I think it's okay.

He said he couldn’t find anyone that fits those criteria at a specific agency and people gave him at least 5 names that could be a good fit. If he’s not happy then he can maybe stop being so picky

 

[Pumped]

I have the opposite problem! So many women, so little time left!

Looks have never been a really big deal for me. There has to be some attraction, obviously, but if I'm holding out for those 10/10 types I might as well up my MAID booking and just put myself out of my own misery.

Black, white, asian, everything in between is on the menu for me. Tall, short, fit, full, blonde, brunette etc. Do I have preferences? Absolutely, and I love it when I can find an SP or three who match those.

20 odd years ago there were some great looking women that I came across in this business, but they were more the exception than the rule. Nowadays, I find that great looking women in this business are the rule and it's a bit exceptional that I run into one who is not really attractive to me.

 

[Bridge]

The spice of life is variety and there are a wonderful array of spices to be savoured!!

 

[Beasting]

I only have one rule. No fat chicks.

 

[vanperb]

In response. I totally encourage everyone to be as big a slut/himbo as they possibly can and try as many partners (safely) as you can. Age, race, build, services, locations, everything under the rainbow. If you find love, or that small group of people you want to dedicate your life with, more power to you. And everything in between. Whatever floats your boat.

Problem is, time is hard to come by, opportunities pass too quickly, and groceries are more expensive everyday. I would have three-peated every provider in the lower mainland, and half the ones in Europe if I could, but I can't. So if a person with limited resources decide to focus on what they know they like, I totally understand. We can only do so much with what we each have.

 

[bruce.pepper]

Yes, someone in Montreal said he couldn’t find any providers that matched his criteria: white, under 25, 125lbs or less, healthy and cute

these aren’t even hard to meet to be honest

I dont know how easy it is to find a woman who matches those criteria in montreal,
But in Vancouver finding a provider who is: white, under 25, under 125lbs, healthy and cute is RARE.
I can only think of a handful of providers who fit that criteria.

 

[westwoody]

white, under 25, under 125lbs, healthy and cute

For an additional challenge add decent personality.

 

[Compton_]

You may not think that I’m right but would you prefer booking a 10 with a nasty attitude/poor service or a 7 with the best attitude/service.

Well yeah,
But notice how in the example you give, the girl with the best attitude/service is still a 7, which is a pretty high ranking in terms of looks.

If it was between a 10 with a nasty attitude/poor service or a 5 with the best attitude/service, I would choose neither, Id rather just go on tinder or to the club and find a girl for free

 

[LC18]

Well yeah,
But notice how in the example you give, the girl with the best attitude/service is still a 7, which is a pretty high ranking in terms of looks.

If it was between a 10 with a nasty attitude/poor service or a 5 with the best attitude/service, I would choose neither, Id rather just go on tinder or to the club and find a girl for free

I gave her a 7 because that’s my point. I am not telling people to go and book someone who’s a 3 in their opinion. Booking providers should still be enjoyable.

Also, if you can find a girl in real life good for you but not everyone can.

 

[white Ninja]

In response. I totally encourage everyone to be as big a slut/himbo as they possibly can and try as many partners (safely) as you can. Age, race, build, services, locations, everything under the rainbow. If you find love, or that small group of people you want to dedicate your life with, more power to you. And everything in between. Whatever floats your boat.

Problem is, time is hard to come by, opportunities pass too quickly, and groceries are more expensive everyday. I would have three-peated every provider in the lower mainland, and half the ones in Europe if I could, but I can't. So if a person with limited resources decide to focus on what they know they like, I totally understand. We can only do so much with what we each have.

This year for the first time I went way over my personal number . But my experience ( for myself ) was that be going more often ironically lead to losing a bit of that magic. That euphoric rush got lost . So I decided to return to dialing it way back, like when I entered this hobby .
By spreading it out again I am looking for each visit to become more meaningful and elevated once more .

Point being,
This also means I will be much pickier once again .