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RussianGuy

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Hey fellow PERBers and random guests. I know this is might be really awkward question to ask but I have been always very curious, who are you guys that go see SPs? Are you mostly family men with wifes and kids and good carriers or just single guys like me with no girlfriend or wife? Please don't hate me on this post or think it's really weird just really curious. I have been seen SPs since 2014 myself I even lost my virginity to SP so just curious about others. Thanks and stay safe out there.
 
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I started seeing SPs for full service after my divorce, about 10 years ago.

But I have to admit that in the last years of my marriage, I was sneaking away once in a while for a massage and happy ending at Asian massage parlours (that's not cheating - is it?).
 

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The answer is that there is no answer. I’ve seen people from all walks of life in all kinds of situations from a single man who owns a strip club, to a disabled drug dealer, to a well-known married politician, to a woman struggling with intimacy issues, to a middle class family man who just wants a small amount of intimacy occasionally, to a young couple my age getting each other an Xmas gift. There’s no one demographic who hires sex workers, similarly to there not being one demographic who seeks out most common services (cuz yes, it’s common). This is like asking “who goes to an RMT” or “who eats in nice restaurants” or “who goes to the symphony”.
 

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I started seeing SPs for full service after my divorce, about 10 years ago.

But I have to admit that in the last years of my marriage, I was sneaking away once in a while for a massage and happy ending at Asian massage parlours (that's not cheating - is it?).
The old saying is if you can't tell your spouse about it then its cheating.
 

masterpoonhunter

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I've been seeing SP's for 4 decades and have had LTR's MTR's and very short lived relationships at the same time.
I see them because I love having sex with a very wide variety of delectable women!
 

RussianGuy

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I started seeing SPs for full service after my divorce, about 10 years ago.

But I have to admit that in the last years of my marriage, I was sneaking away once in a while for a massage and happy ending at Asian massage parlours (that's not cheating - is it?).
Haha thanks man thats by far most honest answer? O by the way this is your wife texting now???
 

RussianGuy

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I started seeing SPs since December 2018 as a way of getting laid and wanting intimacy. I am not good at picking up woman or starting a conversation to get a girlfriend.
I hear you man. Especially in Vancouver its imposible to meet anyone at all. The competition for women is insane in this city. Time to hit good old mother Russia.
 
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nwtl

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Hey fellow PERBers and random guests. I know this is might be really awkward question to ask but I have been always very curious, who are you guys that go see SPs? Are you mostly family men with wifes and kids and good carriers or just single guys like me with no girlfriend or wife? Please don't hate me on this post or think it's really weird just really curious. I have been seen SPs since 2014 myself I even lost my virginity to SP so just curious about others. Thanks and stay safe out there.
I definitely don't have a good carrier, Telus sucks. But otherwise, I think this question may be better as a poll / survey.
 
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The answer is that there is no answer. I’ve seen people from all walks of life in all kinds of situations from a single man who owns a strip club, to a disabled drug dealer, to a well-known married politician, to a woman struggling with intimacy issues, to a middle class family man who just wants a small amount of intimacy occasionally, to a young couple my age getting each other an Xmas gift. There’s no one demographic who hires sex workers, similarly to there not being one demographic who seeks out most common services (cuz yes, it’s common). This is like asking “who goes to an RMT” or “who eats in nice restaurants” or “who goes to the symphony”.
I’ve never had an SP ask me if I’m married or not and I’ve never volunteered any personal info. It’s always been strictly business. I would have assumed that was standard operating procedure.
 

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As other have said sex isn't limited to a certain male demographic. I personally am in my early to mid 20s, still going to school, have a side hustle and not in a relationship. Although if I were to be in a relationship, I would choose to no longer partake in this hobby. For me now its a way to de-stress and try out different girls. I've also never encountered a situation where they asked if I was married, but almost 85% of the time they did ask if I had a girlfriend and a small percentage of those ladies would then follow up with a why don't you go get a girlfriend instead? It's always in a friendly manner, but I thought it was funny since if I wanted to be in a relationship I wouldn't have come pooning for some short term fun.
 
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ExpCharlee

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I’ve never had an SP ask me if I’m married or not and I’ve never volunteered any personal info. It’s always been strictly business. I would have assumed that was standard operating procedure.
Yeah. I’ve not asked. People just talk a lot ? I VERY rarely get a client who doesn’t share personal information with me.
 

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I am a sex addicted whore.

I am in my late 40s and since the end of a long-term relationship over a decade ago, I have been a purchaser of sex. I must say if you had asked me in my twenties or early thirties whether I would ever purchase sex, I would have responded with a strongly worded second wave feminist response, but I am no longer disappointed in myself.

I have met some really amazing sex workers that have shared intimacies, helped me explore my sexuality, challenged my hangups and pushed my boundaries. I have learned a lot from these women, not only about myself, but about them, which has made me a much more open minded, inclusive and sex positive person.

I found pretty early on that I was more interested in developing relationships with the sex workers that I clicked with as opposed to having serial one offs. I found the whole experience, and not just the sex was way better. Trust is very important to me.

At times I have battled with not falling too hard for a sex worker, but I have found a comfortable place where I can love without an expectation of permanence or reciprocation and I am proud to say that I have formed friendships with some sex workers that have outlasted their participation in the industry.

I am in a happy place.
 
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