Being called daddy in bed?

[LC18]

A friend sent me a screenshot of a tinder profile and the bio said something along the lines of “Please don’t call me daddy, my 3 year old calls me that”

That made me ask myself, do men even like being called daddy? (daddy or papi)

If not, what do you liked to be called?


Ladies, do you like being called mami? If not, what do you prefer?


Personally I don’t like being called mami because in French that’s a grandma. I like being called Lena (boring), good girl (so original) and other names if I’ve given you the permission.

 

[dare.devil]

A friend sent me a screenshot of a tinder profile and the bio said something along the lines of “Please don’t call me daddy, my 3 year old calls me that”

That made me ask myself, do men even like being called daddy? (daddy or papi)

If not, what do you liked to be called?


Ladies, do you like being called mami? If not, what do you prefer?


Personally I don’t like being called mami because in French that’s a grandma. I like being called Lena (boring), good girl (so original) and other names if I’ve given you the permission.

I think it's more of a personal choice. For me hearing my name during sex, even if it's my made up name is a big turn on.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I love it when women call me daddy in bed

 

[joe_c5]

I agree, it's more of a personal choice. For me, to be called "Daddy" in bed is a turn off-a big one. I'd much rather be called by my first name.

 

[apl16]

My big stud muffin works for me!

 

[lukom]

I've only been called daddy by a provider who was 10 years older than me. I've only been called Papi by Hispanic lady, as I don't speak Spanish it's not awkward. Daddy is a little weird for me though

 

[luvsdaty]

I’m The Dude. So, that’s what you call me. You know, that or, uh, His Dudeness, or, uh, Duder, or El Duderino, if you’re not into the whole brevity thing.

 

[GeeBeeP]

Daddy is a big turn off for me, for the same reason as mentioned by the OP.

I guess if you don’t have kids “daddy" has a different connotation. But to me it’s what my children called me when they were little, and it’s fucking creepy when a woman I’m with says it. The first time an SP said it when we were fucking it was an instant boner killer, she noticed immediately.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Oh Daddy, Oh Daddy, give it to me Daddy, Oh Daddy you're so Big, Oh Oh Oh, Don't stop Daddy
Always gets my motor running.

 

[Lets Review]

"Stop it Father" was common in my parish

 

[poopquiz]

“Please don’t call me daddy, my 3 year old calls me that”

Very much the same for me. Though even worse would be “Dadda” 🤢

…luckily that’s not a thing

 

[sealion of bc]

what do you think about
thats a good girl ,good little girls take the whole load little girl

 

[Mr. J]

I prefer to stick with being called by my real name in bed. The louder, the better.

 

[PuntMeister]

I prefer “That’s a Good Boy” generally.

Will accept “Big Daddy”, but just Daddy should be reserved for specific role play scenarios imho. I know some women who do get off on the whole daddy fantasy thing, and if we’re going there, we’re going to do it right. It can lead to serious Puddles and Squirts, but I’ve got to prepare mentally for the right headspace and separate fantasy from perviness. So just tossing a “daddy” or two out there is poor form if we haven’t chatted about it.

-Punt.

 

[VinVan]

“Daddy” or “baby” are both bad. For me it’s like the SP is not interested to learn your name and you’re just another bloke through the turnstile; which is in fact the truth, but we’re paying for the illusion, right?

 

[Bobert1969]

Just don't call me "babe". Cringe factor 10.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

"Daddy" kind of weirds me out though. ...probably because I took Psych electives in college, and dated someone with legit "Daddy Issues".

During my early years in college, I was dating this girl (with benefits), and while we were having sex, just as we climaxed, she just blurted out "Daddy" just out of instinct, subconsciously... Of course it was really hot how it happened. So later in the week, we were gearing up for sex again, while getting the mood on, groping and making out, I asked "You going to call me Daddy again, heh heh heh?", kinda sorta joking about it, cuz I thought it was cute how she said it that time... And she was like "Whao, wait, call you what?", so I reminded her what happened last time we had sex, and she laughed the whole thing off as if it didn't happen. She was almost angrily annoyed by it, yet we carried on; but as we were doing it, I can tell she was holding back some. As if she didn't want to 'cut loose' like we did last time, and say "Daddy" out of consciousness again. Maybe she was embarrassed, maybe it there was some deep seeded 'daddy issues'. Maybe I was over-analyzing the whole thing, but sex really wasn't the same after I brought it up, and we wound up drifting apart later.

 

[kinnsami]

Daddy all day

 

[Dick Ford]

Add me to the "good boy" list. Love when she says that after I take a while to finish. "Papi" is what the kind, older waitresses call me at Mexican restaurants (cute, but not hot).

 

[vanperb]

Not really something I like. I'll take it, but I feel like it's more a kink for them than it is for me. Thinking about it, I don't know what I like to be called. I think long lust filled eye contact works way better.

It also automatically brings up flags for potential power play scenarios in the future, but only if chemistry and consent is validated.