I have begun to wonder if that is my fate. I'm still young by most people's standards, but I've begun to question whether I will ever lose my bachelor status. I look around at all the guys much older than me, who are divorced and some never married and I wonder if that is just my fate. My job involves travel and long hours, so that hasn't helped things. I guess I am wondering is it that bad to be single for life? I know how much guys bitch about marriage here, but I often wonder what it would be like to be single in your 40's, 50's, and beyond. Any guys here still single at that age?
Being a life-long bachelor
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Been single all my life. I travel almost all the time. Never been married and never been close. In my 50's so I will be a life long bachelor. Days I wish I was married just like married guys some times wish they were single. Never found a lady willing to put up with me or my life style. Kinda married to my businesses but that does not count.
It is what it is and learn to live with it. Good and bad with everything. Not sure I call it fate. It just is. Enjoy it. Love it and it will love you back.
It is what it is and learn to live with it. Good and bad with everything. Not sure I call it fate. It just is. Enjoy it. Love it and it will love you back.
it might be just the way were wired,
to be single and free or need the company
i have never been single and free always had responsibilites and felt burdened by them.
but guess what i do go long term with an sp.
and well feel comfortable taking care of people and being in a relationship
i think its the way were wired and we shouldn't fight it.
to be single and free or need the company
i have never been single and free always had responsibilites and felt burdened by them.
but guess what i do go long term with an sp.
and well feel comfortable taking care of people and being in a relationship
i think its the way were wired and we shouldn't fight it.
For the man, there may be great rewards in long term relationships, but there is absolutely no guarantee of that.
However, for the man there will be ...
ever more obligations
ever greater responsibilities
ever greater burden
a woman who is ever older and more unattractive, and probably fatter
less and less of his own money
less sex
and these are absolutely guaranteed in a long term relationship for a man.
However, for the man there will be ...
ever more obligations
ever greater responsibilities
ever greater burden
a woman who is ever older and more unattractive, and probably fatter
less and less of his own money
less sex
and these are absolutely guaranteed in a long term relationship for a man.
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westcoast555
I'm single, 47 - have a nice girlfriend. Never married. It's fine. Don't think about whether or not you want to be married. Just do what feels right with whomever you're with. There's also lots worse things in life than being alone. Getting laid is key.
do you find faults or look for faults in the person your involved with,
just wishing you were alone.
or do you focus on the positives of being with that person the benifits you get from being with them and ignore all that is wrong with the relationship
i think its how were wired, don't fight it,
just wishing you were alone.
or do you focus on the positives of being with that person the benifits you get from being with them and ignore all that is wrong with the relationship
i think its how were wired, don't fight it,
You mean that most people experience no meaning in their lives until they find themselves to be parents? They sure don't act that way. Most people carry on with their lives with just as much self-importance as they ever had before they find out that suddenly they are going to become parents. I don't see how you can say what you do.
I used to think that way but then I did a little more thinking and realized that if that was the case then those welfare moms with a pack of kids must be the most successful people on the planet.
Tantalizme, married, gets to have FFM sessions in Canada, with or w/o the SO, go on pooning trips to Asia, fuck local AMP gals to his heart's content, and so on...doesn't sound too bad.
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Now we are free:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7NdBIA4zJg&feature=related
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Now we are free:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7NdBIA4zJg&feature=related
Time to change wives?
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Highway To Hell
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNlNZ2T9EeY
There is actually a huge movement for Child-Free Living...
http://www.nokidding.net
http://thebritgirl.com/2010/09/13/childfree-social-lives-your-tips-for-those-of-us-seeking-one
http://puzzele.com/datingsite/index.php
http://coolchildfreeguy.wordpress.com/2012/02/09/childfree-dating
http://www.nokidspassions.com
http://geeksdreamgirl.com/2011/04/05/no-kids-please-online-dating-for-the-childfree
...to name a few!
I think having kids would be great if you had the right woman. I thought I had the right woman once, but after she left me I realized maybe if was for the best. I think having kids is best when you're in your 20's. Who wants to be chasing around a teenager when you're old and should be thinking about retirement?
That being said, I wouldn't mind joining big brothers or something and having some kid to pass on knowledge to and have some kind of relationship with.
I find faults in females...and just focus on should I try to bang her or not...:thumb:
Then it's onto my cell phone SP list or ERS, Craigs, or Backpage... :clap2:....and when you strike out?
what ur lifestyle that you cant get marry or find someone
i thought u got business =money and money = more girls
Doesn't apply to all women, of course. There are those who are reasonable, but I believe a shockingly significant portion are not. Say 50% roughly (some would attest to more).
For those who are unreasonable, they want not just your time, they want all your time, and all your money. We hear so many times from them how they are smarter than we are, or stronger than we are, etc. The truth is that it's the men who usually bring home the bacon, usually the men who put up with tremendous stresses in their jobs providing for the family, etc. For these women who pronounce their superiority is just a slap in the face and a total joke. These are the ones who demand all your time and all your money because they are the weaker ones and they are the ones who have all the dependency needs.
