Asians people who hates dating Asians?
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It's probably not a conscious choice of hers to be attracted or not attracted to a certain race. Lots of people have racial dating preferences that they can't explain rationally. Sucks that she is limiting her options though. I luv Asian boys, so more for me I guess 
I know lots of CBC like that. From what I gather, it's their desire to break away from their families' traditional values and upbringing that seems to cause this. It's why the folks from their old world call them bananna, yellow on the outside but white under the skin. The sad thing is Westerners still see them as Asian which piss them off to no end. I am kind of in-between a CBC and the people from the old world, so I understand their frustration but at the same time despise their sometimes hatred towards their ancestry.
Well that is my frustration....I want to meet a nice Asian gal who is interested in a white guy and I dont care if
she is CBC or newly arrived to Canada....gotta say it is a tough thing to do though thanks to a plethora
of douchebag white guys that have put those gals on edge and leary of white guys in general.
Hell I may just have to go to Thialand or the Phillipines to find myself a decent gal...but if I dont find her at least I get to fuck my brains out looking for her LOL
SR
SR, you should definitely visit a few Asian countries, especially Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines, Hong Kong, Korea and Japan. There are girls there, who for the lack of a better phrase, have white fever. That is the desire to get to know/bang Caucasian guys. One of my cousins is half British. So be prepared if they get clingy...:eyebrows:
Yes, it's true a lot of Asians want social status so they literally ooze hate/venom toward Asians who feel might want to know them as a friend or socially. Its the only time I have felt prejudice in my life and it's fucking creepy how my own kind can be. I give up on my own race and yeah I discovered the ugly side of life.
It's a dick thing...she doesn't like the look of a small asian penis most likely...
ound:It's astute, but I wish your analysis would go further. So I'll add my two bits:
These CBC types are Asians who are born here or emigrate here early in age, such that they grow up in the 80's (or earlier) when much fewer Asians were here. All around them are whites, and on TV and movies, all are whites. They also take on western values.... yet at home, their families have Asian values. Inside they feel they are white and they find themselves attracted to who they think they are inside. That's the crux of the issue. At the same time, they feel inferior because physically they don't look white. They begin to look at their families with disdain, and other Asians with disdain even if the other Asians are CBC themselves.
Now the paradox is that they often will say, "I feel unique. These other Asians don't understand me, so fuck 'em. I don't want to be them anyway because I AM NOT them." But the truth is less than the thickness of paper away, because other CBC's are experiencing the same damn thing. In other words, they are not unique, each CBC resents the other while being in the same position even in their thoughts of themselves. Were they to honestly talk to each other without having their guard up, they would discover they have everything in common, much more in common than they have with the whites they think they are inside.
What some CBC's will discover later is that they really are not white, that in fact they don't share the same family values white people share. In fact, their white partner doesn't really even understand them because while their white partner thought they were white on the inside, they were still exoticfying the CBC. I've seen white partners of CBC run into some terrible problems with regard to observing traditions and regard for elders, etc.
There are some douche bag white guys that SR mentioned who see Asian girls as easy prey, it is in fact true. Asian girls whether CBC or not live in the world that elevates white people as higher status, so they are prone to leaving themselves open to lies and being used. I've seen this over and over again. This in turn causes CBC girls to further hate other Asian girls, because they feel these naive Asian girls are ruining it for them - they take away the white guys, they make white guys think all Asian girls are easy to fool, etc. The problem is that the CBC girl is hating the wrong people, they are hating the victim, not the offender. Some CBC girls who seem to mature out of the CBC dilemma but continue hating other Asian girls for that reason have themselves not really escaped from it - for hating other Asian girls for that reason is a tell-tale sign that hating the victim and not the offender means they side with the offender and fault the victim despite being a victim - in other words, they still consider themselves white.
The world is changing, however. With increasing wealth in Asia comes power, and power means the media will reflect Asian values. Society will eventually change, and the new standards of power, beauty, wealth, etc., will shift towards Asia. It is quickly becoming the Asian century - especially now that China and Japan have bailed out the United States and Europe, and are the primary investors in Latin America and Africa. In 10 years you will see Asian sex symbols, both male and female, grace Hollywood screens. In 20 years, Asian models will become common place. What will happen to the CBC then? Their dilemma will disappear. Today they are just a bunch of fools.
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JC, you totally got that right about the world changing. Sterotypes abound overseas and it use to be Americans were thought of as rich as can be. Now its kind of common knowledge almost all Americans are check to check cannot retire until 70 0r 75 if that and a lot of broke people. When wealth comes to mind I think of rich Shanghai people or Moscow people or Zurich people. La or NYC, most likely upside down on their homes and chocked with bills. It will be sooner rather than later that CBCs realize where the money is and all of a sudden that yellow skin is not going to stink as much anymore.
It's a dick thing...she doesn't like the look of a small asian penis most likely...
Occam's razor...
FWIW, In this thread I have overstated my emotions a bit on Asians women hating Asian men. Just cut me a break, In my job I have meet some of the nastiest cold Asian Sell outs ever known ( slave to white guys) and it has detoured my view of reality. I'm hoping it changes with just one nice Chinese gal.
Well it usually doesn't garner a response of hatred towards anyone, particularly other females. If there is any response at all, it might be a rolling of the eyes or laughter.
Would be nice to be in your workplace just to watch all this. I think these females are very sad and pathetic
not suprised at all. i met a few girls who are asian and im asian and they love white guys. even the japanese esl fobs girls i met through sarging tell me they love white guys that they are tall and blue eyed
even a lot their previous bf are white men. and they not rich or do good jobs. just tour guide or restaurant but they love white guys.
asian men have the hardest when it comes to dating. why u think we buy bmw and high end cars for
even a lot their previous bf are white men. and they not rich or do good jobs. just tour guide or restaurant but they love white guys.
asian men have the hardest when it comes to dating. why u think we buy bmw and high end cars for
I went for dim sum with some co-workers (some CBCs and Caucasians). While the CBCs knew what to order, when the time comes to order they are actually useless because they can't read or write Chinese, and you have to order from a list in Chinese. So I had to pick up the slack. They were secretly pissed because they think that the Caucasians now think less of them and they got one-upped by me.
When karaoke was all the rage, the CBCs I knew that sang would have to memorize the Chinese songs word for word. That's a pretty hard thing to do when you don't read or write and sometimes don't understand what you are singing.
What I take away from those situations is that in reality they are kind of stuck in-between which can be incredibly frustrating.
I assert that their being stuck in between is really more a feeling than a situation. They would not feel that way if they understood what it means to be a CBC but yearning to be white. If they understood themselves at all, that yearning would fall away and so would the hatred and resentment of other Asians. If they understood themselves, they would accept themselves instead of filling oneself with self-loathing, and loathing anyone who reflects that inner self in any way - which are other Asians. Some CBC's are so far gone in their self-dissonance, they even make life changing decisions based on it - imagine that, a life decision based on hate. For this reason, I have absolutely no sympathy for CBC's who hate Asians.... it is they that deserve the loathing, not those around them.
For the record, I am not a CBC, but I've known many well. I'm a SBC.
