Ashley Madison vs. Pooning

[mojoman2112]

Guys - a question. Which is better - pooning or looking for action on Ashely Madison (AM)? Considering the Rabbit-Boiler potential with AM, is pooning better? But with the spectacular women available just a phone call away who will lavish you with what you want, does Pooning trump AM?

Any experiences to relate?

 

[emilioa4]

also your time frame as well i would imagine? ive never tried AM, but i would assume that it would take a fair bit of time sifting through all the phony girls and finding one that will actually meet for some "fun times" (even then assuming you will get any on the first meeting) as opposed to pooning, you just go into a mp pick a girl you like and away you go. if your looking for action right away and not willing to put up with the wot on AM, i say pooning. thats just me though.

 

[chilli]

Why would an attractive woman with a good head on her shoulders have to go online to get a date?

All she has to do is take a dance lesson, go to the gym, go to a networking event and she can meet hundreds of men.

Online is the worst place to meet an attractive woman - unless your into BBW (Big Beached Whales).

 

[Unpossible]

Online is the worst place to meet an attractive woman

Complete bullshit.

 

[shyboy123]

I found Ashley Madison a complete waste of time. Lots of fake/scams, and plenty of girls just looking for a sugar daddy or escorts. Not many sincere married gals looking for casual hookups. The few I did connect with were def bunny boilers and I ran for the hills at the first red flags. Save your time and money and hire a professional!

 

[jnewton]

Ok, I guess I haven't been around enough but WTF is a "bunny boiler"?

 

[Gomez Adams]

Ok, I guess I haven't been around enough but WTF is a "bunny boiler"?

Remember the movie Fatal Attraction? Bunny boilers are crazy ass bitches that will ruin your life.

 

[edmontonsubbie]

Remember the movie Fatal Attraction? Bunny boilers are crazy ass bitches that will ruin your life.

wow, that's news. I didn't even know my second wife was a "type". But, I feel better now for knowing that she wasn't alone.

Hey buddy boy, meeting Jim for a beer at the new secret southside clubhouse tonight.....that song just keeps running around in my head...."oh momma, I'm coming hommmmme..."

It's been far too long a stretch of duck killing. Hope to see you there.

cheers,

eddie

 

[tontos]

wow, that's news. I didn't even know my second wife was a "type". But, I feel better now for knowing that she wasn't alone.

Hey buddy boy, meeting Jim for a beer at the new secret southside clubhouse tonight.....that song just keeps running around in my head...."oh momma, I'm coming hommmmme..."

It's been far too long a stretch of duck killing. Hope to see you there.

cheers,

eddie

how does one get into the secret club house meetings???

 

[badbadboy]

I was on AM for years. Met a few women, some great and some not so great. Some were married looking to cheat on their husbands and were WAY too nervous the whole time. One was like the definition of a great GFE in beginning and then turned into vanilla married boring sex haha.

I met a couple of real head cases too. One was a lesbian looking to get revenge on her partner and bed a man too.

In the end it was just too much for my brain and I decided since I just wanted to get laid much more regularly without any unnecessary drama; SP's would be the way to go. As far as costs were concerned the AM women that I met would only go to higher end hotels which cost roughly about the same as the hourly rate of a decent Indie. Zero sum game if you look at it from a $$ perspective. I was not looking for a relationship with any of them so it was easy just to walk away in the end.

 

[jnewton]

Women have affairs because they lack emotional fulfillment in their marriages... They instinctively think that men are the same as them or fool themselves into thinking they just want sex. Some men actually believe women are on the site to find what they are looking for-- good sex and orgasms!! Hilarious really.

The fact is, women give sex as payment for security-- physical and/or emotional. It's been hard wired into us for over 200,000 years of evolution. It was how we survived as a species. Women traded sex for food back then.

Unfortunately, many women have failed to embrace and understand their true nature. They don't understand why the guy doesn't fall in love with them when they've had great sex together. They feel used and abused when they've given the guy sex and he doesn't call again. They start out thinking they just want sex, but really they need love.

So.. This is why paying if you don't want love or strings of any kind makes sense and is the fair way to do things. Payment to a woman who can manage her understanding of herself means she can be happy giving you what you want and can feel respected.

SNL, as always your words bring enlightenment. I've always been a bit conflicted in my mind about this whole activity, always a nagging concern that even if it is a paid transaction, I'm taking part of her soul away with me. While I think that far too often, my concern is real, your words made me realize that it might be possible for a woman to realize the equation you outlined, come to terms with it, understand it, and accept it. Once she did that, I can see how it could completely change her attitude about all of it. She could accept the basic honesty of the transaction, how it satisfies one of her inner needs while satisfying her clients inner needs, and instead of feeling used or taken advantage of, she could feel empowered and lifted. I can also see how a realization of all of this would allow her to feel that men are worthy of respect and love, instead of seeing them as debased or weak.

I think you are one of the few women I have known of in this biz who I really believe enjoyed what she was doing and was at peace with herself.

 

[J.O. Henson]

SNL you should be a technical advisor / consultant to this board. just to set things straight when they go off course with us poor pooners. or offer insite like you do. My opinion but i think it's a good one.

 

[jnewton]

Thank you for getting me!

You're welcome. Once in a while I manage to figure it out for a few brief moments. lol

 

[TheEmpress]

Women have affairs because they lack emotional fulfillment in their marriages... They instinctively think that men are the same as them or fool themselves into thinking they just want sex. Some men actually believe women are on the site to find what they are looking for-- good sex and orgasms!! Hilarious really.

The fact is, women give sex as payment for security-- physical and/or emotional. It's been hard wired into us for over 200,000 years of evolution. It was how we survived as a species. Women traded sex for food back then.

Unfortunately, many women have failed to embrace and understand their true nature. They don't understand why the guy doesn't fall in love with them when they've had great sex together. They feel used and abused when they've given the guy sex and he doesn't call again. They start out thinking they just want sex, but really they need love.

So.. This is why paying if you don't want love or strings of any kind makes sense and is the fair way to do things. Payment to a woman who can manage her understanding of herself means she can be happy giving you what you want and can feel respected.

I agree! IMO marriage is also just a prostitution of ones self. It's an exchange of needs on both parts for an extend amount of time, the security of knowing where the next meal is coming from or a roof over your kids heads.
The difference is people wrap it up in a bow and deem it morally acceptable.
When really it isn't more secure, it's less. How many divorced women feel like they have been respected throughout their marriage.

Taking it back to a more clear exchange of cash for services empowers women more than a proposal ever could. Ladies if you see a ring.. run.. it's called entrapment ..lol

 

[JimDandy]

I wonder how many sex workers actually work out of AM? I was looking at a few profiles on AM and recognized a picture I have seen on ERSLIST. If I am correct, on ERSLIST she and a friend offered oral services only (no FS in other words). On AM she had very little information about herself or what she was looking for, but the quote below her name said something like "Hummer time" - subtle Also, how would the subject of financial compensation come up?

AM might be a way to find a "non pro" or a pro with low mileage, though I suspect that, as suggested in this thread already, it could get expensive. I am single and live alone, so at least I would not need to shell out for a hotel room.

JD