Just moved from SoCal - and SO glad I did, I'd never go back!
People look at me like I have 3 heads when I complained about SoCal but here are a few reasons:
- drought. I'll take 300d of rain any year to avoid $400/month water bills.
- crime. Not sure what its like in Van, but multiple killings every day. Had multiple things stolen from our yard. If it wasn't bolted or welded down, it was gone.
- traffic. Again, I'm on the island and I smile every minute I'm driving. Compare to 5 lanes bumper-to-bumper from SD to LA and beyond, its unbelievable. Lots of cities have bad traffic, but I do believe SoCal has the biggest expanse of bad traffic (rather than centered around one city, its continuous traffic over a huge region. 24/7, even when no highway is less than 3 lanes.
- Cost of living. Houses are just as expensive, or you're traveling an hour+. Similar to Van, I imagine. Good thing is groceries aren't as costly as here. Nor is beer. Electricity (and water as mentioned above) are much more.
- Schooling. Sucks (in general). I chuckled when I saw BC teachers going on strike last year - they have no idea how good they have it compare to average SoCal teachers.
- People. I found it also much harder to get to know people, develop friendships, etc. In 4 years, we were invited to someone's house for dinner maybe 3 times. First two months here, we get invited 4 times - people are just more friendly and open here. Also, there's just WAY too many people in SoCal (see traffic, crime above). Everywhere you go, you're in line, fighting for a table, fighting for space. Outings were planned around traffic, parking availability, lines - it gets old. Every corner had 4 panhandlers (some quite unstable).
Terrain - I'm just not a big desert fan, so if you want tall trees/forests, you have to go an hour away.
So overall, while I can't vouch for living in Van (the cost of housing & crowdedness ruled it out for me), the up-sides that I see far outweigh living in SoCal.
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