Actually, I'd love to dine at the Y, also.

[Pretty_Priya]

So...

I genuinely want to learn to eat pussy better.

It's something I've always wanted to master.

I mean, obviously, I can eat pussy. And it's amazing.

But I want to be really, really GOOD at it. Superstar good. I want ladies to walk away from me thinking, "Mmmmm. Damn. That was yummy."

You see, I'm confident with my man-handling skills. I know every man is different, but there are some universal techniques that really WORK.

In contrast, when it comes to ladies, I feel like I'm flailing. I'm down there, like a horny teenager lost in a forest without a flashlight. I have NO IDEA what I'm doing.

Ok--that's exaggerating-- I have some idea. But I'm not superstar excellent.

And I, being an overachieving South Asian, want to be SUPERSTAR EXCELLENT.

What better place to ask for advice on pleasuring a woman, than on a forum frequented by perverts.

*cough* Um, I mean, PERB-erts. Ha ha ha.

So here's the dealio, Lovers--I know every woman is different, and you have to ASK the lady what feels good to her, and OBSERVE her reactions, and RESPOND to her pleasure....

But in addition to that, do you have any straight up useful or innovative techniques?

What are some really AWESOME ways I can pleasure a woman?

 

[Peyton Alexander]

As simple as it sounds -- do what you like having done on yourself! I don't believe there's really any master technique but I'm sure you're quite aware of what turns you on, just replicate it! Also, I firmly believe that enthusiasm is 90% of a good cunnilingus artist.

Signed,

Another pussy eating fanatic

 

[MrBrown]

There's an app for that
https://youtu.be/5uDS-SM-65A

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

So...

I genuinely want to learn to eat pussy better.

It's something I've always wanted to master.

I mean, obviously, I can eat pussy. And it's amazing.

But I want to be really, really GOOD at it. Superstar good. I want ladies to walk away from me thinking, "Mmmmm. Damn. That was yummy."

You see, I'm confident with my man-handling skills. I know every man is different, but there are some universal techniques that really WORK.

In contrast, when it comes to ladies, I feel like I'm flailing. I'm down there, like a horny teenager lost in a forest without a flashlight. I have NO IDEA what I'm doing.

Ok--that's exaggerating-- I have some idea. But I'm not superstar excellent.

And I, being an overachieving South Asian, want to be SUPERSTAR EXCELLENT.

What better place to ask for advice on pleasuring a woman, than on a forum frequented by perverts.

*cough* Um, I mean, PERB-erts. Ha ha ha.

So here's the dealio, Lovers--I know every woman is different, and you have to ASK the lady what feels good to her, and OBSERVE her reactions, and RESPOND to her pleasure....

But in addition to that, do you have any straight up useful or innovative techniques?

What are some really AWESOME ways I can pleasure a woman?

Buy me a bottle of wine,a nice thick steak, & then for dessert, we take turns licking each other from one end to the other. I arrive tomorrow at 7 pm.

Any gentlemen who want to tag along? Make some notes? I'll be in Nanaimo all week.

On a more serious note, I agree with Peyton, in that I am a big fan of eating pussy, & of the 'do what YOU like having done to you' Golden Rule of Oral Sex.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

There's an app for that
https://youtu.be/5uDS-SM-65A

See now while I am a big fan of applied technology in education, there's just some things where direct hands-on learning cannot be beat! ;D

 

[Pretty_Priya]

buy me a bottle of wine,a nice thick steak, & then for dessert, we take turns licking each other from one end to the other. I arrive tomorrow at 7 pm.

Any gentlemen who want to tag along? Make some notes? I'll be in nanaimo all week.

hell yes!!!!!

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

As simple as it sounds -- do what you like having done on yourself! I don't believe there's really any master technique but I'm sure you're quite aware of what turns you on, just replicate it! Also, I firmly believe that enthusiasm is 90% of a good cunnilingus artist.

Signed,

Another pussy eating fanatic

Well well...another commonality shared! You're a fascinating young woman, Miss Alexander. I find i's important not to get in a rut...(hahaha!) Make sure you change it up some; varying degrees of intensity & pressure, sometimes sucking, sometimes licking, but always paying attention to her reactions!

 

[icon]

Every woman is different. I start out at the inner thighs and work in. Some woman are more sensitive than others. I always take a look at her face and see how she is postioning her hips. Her body movements will tell me. Once i have found that sweet spot and she is really moving in to me i will take one hand up and cup her breast and hold het nipple...and cup the breast. Those ate my main guide lines. Good communication is key and begin sensitive to how she is progressing.

 

[badbadboy]

Being the type that loves to give as much as I receive, the subject of daty or anything of an oral nature is highly stimulating for my libido.

I've found that its never like a quick fast wet sloppy blowjob like some we guys receive and quite the opposite where we get to enjoy the ladies enjoying themselves for prolonged periods. Many times this can take a long long time and getting myself comfortable was my priority because of neck issues etc. So Strap yourselves in Chaps!

So I like to lay on my back and have my lady hold onto the headboard. This position has many benefits such has I can tilt my head up and down or move side to side easily, the lady can apply as much or as little pressure to my lips and face. I can maul her tits, maul her ass, pull hair; you get the idea. Plus the view is amazing! My cheesy line has always been while looking up at her "best view in Vancouver!"

This position is a great way of the lady communicating how much pressure she wants at that moment and with repeat partners I've found a groove that is very mutually stimulating.

Another position for some of the more adventurous partners is imagine sixty nine but with the female partner sitting straight up. A sixty eight if you will (she owes me one!). In this position your partner can move back n forth and applying as much pressure as the previous position. Difference being if she wants DATO or DATY the position does provide the most easiest access. This really is the grail for me

 

[jgg]

Ok guys, we all want to tell of our prowess, but let's have the ladies tell us how it should be done. Listen and learn...

 

[badbadboy]

Ok guys, we all want to tell of our prowess, but let's have the ladies tell us how it should be done. Listen and learn...

You know I 100% agree and only wish a few of the ladies I have met would post. They are so in tune with their body's and share some very interesting information one on one.

Unfortunately, they rarely post in the lounge.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

It's a very complicated issue.

 

[hankmoody]

^^ haha ^^
http://rebloggy.com/post/george-cos...-the-fusilli-jerry-pleasuring-you/54500670408

 

[tiger69]

" I'm down there, like a horny teenager lost in a forest" mmmm, sounds like a good smooth shave is in order then... rofl

 

[scooner]

So on this subject what would you think of someone who indicates she does duos, you're engaged in 69 and she obviously enjoys being dined on but when you go to kiss her afterwards she says she doesn't like pussy breath?

 

[carefulone]

In keeping with the "dining" theme of DATY, one should approach a waiting pussy as one would approach an elegantly laid out buffet.

Start with the salads????

 

[paprides]

In keeping with the "dining" theme of DATY, one should approach a waiting pussy as one would approach an elegantly laid out buffet. Where to begin? A first approach, appreciating only with the eyes, assessing the feast about to be had. Then take a moment to draw close and inhale the offering, allowing the scent to intoxicate you, drawing you further in. Then exhale....your warm breath on her waiting slit gives her a hint at the heat that is soon to envelope her there. Only after looking, admiring and inhaling what will soon be your feast, it's time for the amuse bouche... the tiniest taste of deliciousness, an exploratory touch of the tongue in the most delicate of places. Go slowly. No...slower than that even. Are you comfortable? You're not? Get very comfortable because there can be no hurry here. Pussy is to be savoured, not gobbled like a fat kid eats cupcakes.

Now, if you haven't already been told....ask. What feels good? As easy as it would be to assume that everyone woman likes what I like, we are all wired differently (see: Lance Alot's very apt "safe cracker" reference). Women know if they like fast vs slow, firm vs. gentle, clit vs. vulva, internal stimulation or all external. If the meal has progressed beyond the point of holding a conversation (my mother always told me not to talk with my mouth full) then pay attention to the conversation happening between your mouth/tongue and her body. Pulling away, even minutely, means "less of that please", while moving toward you means "more of that please". We don't do it consciously (thank God, as I'm usually beyond thinking by that point). And when you feel her panting, hanging in space awaiting the next touch of your tongue, keep doing whatever it was you were just doing.

Bon appetit!

And repeat!

Those of us striving for improvement appreciate this frank, open treatise of this intimate and important pleasure!

 

[badbadboy]

In keeping with the "dining" theme of DATY, one should approach a waiting pussy as one would approach an elegantly laid out buffet. Where to begin? A first approach, appreciating only with the eyes, assessing the feast about to be had. Then take a moment to draw close and inhale the offering, allowing the scent to intoxicate you, drawing you further in. Then exhale....your warm breath on her waiting slit gives her a hint at the heat that is soon to envelope her there. Only after looking, admiring and inhaling what will soon be your feast, it's time for the amuse bouche... the tiniest taste of deliciousness, an exploratory touch of the tongue in the most delicate of places. Go slowly. No...slower than that even. Are you comfortable? You're not? Get very comfortable because there can be no hurry here. Pussy is to be savoured, not gobbled like a fat kid eats cupcakes.

Now, if you haven't already been told....ask. What feels good? As easy as it would be to assume that everyone woman likes what I like, we are all wired differently (see: Lance Alot's very apt "safe cracker" reference). Women know if they like fast vs slow, firm vs. gentle, clit vs. vulva, internal stimulation or all external. If the meal has progressed beyond the point of holding a conversation (my mother always told me not to talk with my mouth full) then pay attention to the conversation happening between your mouth/tongue and her body. Pulling away, even minutely, means "less of that please", while moving toward you means "more of that please". We don't do it consciously (thank God, as I'm usually beyond thinking by that point). And when you feel her panting, hanging in space awaiting the next touch of your tongue, keep doing whatever it was you were just doing.

Bon appetit!

And repeat!

Those of us striving for improvement appreciate this frank, open treatise of this intimate and important pleasure!

Catherine communicates very well with the written word and orally too

One can never stop learning is my motto.

 

[stick66]

I feel I am very good at heading south but it is something I have learned over time. when I was younger I was lost, lol. As stated every women seems to enjoy something different. I do have a few moves that seem to work on most women although as I hang my head I have failed once or twice in the past. Usually this is more because of the woman not truly being into the task at hand. I absolutely going down on a lady as long as she is clean, fresh and into it. Enthusiasm is definitely a key. Explore all her body with your hands and mouth. Some ladies go wild when you give there sexy asses some oral attention while you rub there clits, for others it is a no go zone. I think the most important thing is start soft and build from there. When you find something that is really doing it for her keep with it and take her over the edge.
One very good pussy licker cheat is if you can get the women to masturbate for you. Much can be learned from watching how a woman pleasures herself.

 

[tadolder]

"not gobbled like a fat kid eats cupcakes" Mike drop.... Catherine for the win!