depends on the lady, and if you want to talk or not,
and how much money you have,,
on retrospective, I always have booked supper dates. every week or every two weeks, a long supper date. fuck the money I spent.
really fucking stupid,
really fucking stupid, you get emotionally involved, when you book that long,
like someone or a lot of people have said, your a fucking looser to pay for friendship.
but in my case, it might work out, I got a friend for life, a close friend for life, we got silly once and made promises to each other, and ever so often get silly again and make promises to each other. we don't need to see each other silly for us to continue but we do. there is a bond a closeness,
if I spent all that money and time, for nothing a fake friendship or trust, I really would have hated myself.
but it worked out, continues to work out.
me and my sp got together a few days ago, and promised a whole bunch of silly shit to each other, I know it is just words.
but so far, I dunno were both older, so the silliness the bs of youth, has passed us by, we just want someone we can trust. and be there,
my bottom line, is
don't,
if you want to talk go to a bar find a shrink,
an sp is for fucking not really talking, its not about friendships and relationships. and that is what longer sessions boil down to.
I think on the whole sp.s are not relationship material neither are clients. so don't waste your time talking unless your money bags and got a lot to throw around.
but sometimes. just once in a blue moon, there is a connection.
you both have put enough miles on been around the block, more then once,
there is no right or wrong answer there is only you what you feel like,
but I would say no, don't bother,
but I dunno it worked for me,
as in,
trust friendship, a bond a relationship.
I will leave it there,
but like I said were both older and some of the foolishness of youth has passed us by.
we have both have been down some rough roads and appreciate someone who has made the journey with us.
silly to listen to single guys talking about valentines and sugar babies.
really silly.
but im fortunate I found a women who just happens to be an sp.
but in honesty its not about the woman,
its more about you, what you want what you feel, what you need.
you shouldn't ask for advice, just do it,
you are the one that is going to pay the price, right or wrong, its all on you buddy,
so man up, don't be a sissy and ask people what to do. when the shit hits the fan, are you going to blame it all on some guy on perb. or your life is wasted,
your going to face the music one day buddy, trust me make it your decision,
I say no
but it worked for me.