‘My Sugar Daddy Pays me $12,000 a Month’
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We men have two heads. One tells us how to earn and other tells us where to spend. As long as the earning head is the 'harder' of the two, when it comes to work, we are safe.
And some men have a shitload of money and wouldn't blink at 12 g's\month. Most of whom would need the brains to acquire that kind of money.
Pretty easy to discount them if you couldn't or wouldn't afford it. N'est-ce pas?
I have heard of $10 - $12K a month being spent.
There used to be an advertiser here who had $20k/mo listed on her website for exclusive engagements.
I know of a few people who invested early in Bitcoins. They have cashed out and have been spending some serious money partying.
From what I heard about them, you would call them more lucky than smart.
There used to be an advertiser here who had $20k/mo listed on her website for exclusive engagements.
I know of a few people who invested early in Bitcoins. They have cashed out and have been spending some serious money partying.
From what I heard about them, you would call them more lucky than smart.
I didn't find it unusual at all. I have been offered several exclusive arrangements over the years, ranging from 10-50K/month. The average was 30K/month, and only one offer was for 50. From a financial standpoint, it made a lot of sense, but I from a lifestyle point it didn't make any. I love the variety and freedom that having full agency of my life provides me, and signing a 1-3 year exclusive contract with somebody holds zero appeal to me.
I'm not unusual in the rates offered either. My best friend in the industry signed a contract for 2 million a year. They stayed together for 3 years. A lady who used to advertise on this board signed one last year for over 300K/year plus a large signing bonus.
Everything is perspective. What we may consider to be an exorbitant amount of money is pocket change for someone else. We do it too. Spending $30 or $50 on a meal and drinks once in a while is pretty normal for us. In other parts of the world, that is more than 2 weeks salary for a doctor....and for a regular person, just getting clean drinking water is a struggle.
In a sugar daddy relationship, you are asking somebody to put their life on hold for you. If you are hiring a companion as a sugar baby, you are asking her to put her business AND personal life on hold. It isn't the same as hiring somebody by the hour, an experience, or even an extended but finite period of time. The lady is expected to be and to remain single. She is expected to remain monogamous. She is expected to be available on his schedule. If she was a companion, she is also giving up all her regular clients, and the real and genuine relationships she has forged with them. There is a lot more involved than just how many hours of time does he get to spend with her for how much.
In the end, it really just boils down to what the individuals want. As long as both parties are happy with the arrangement, then why or how can those of us on the outside judge it?
I'm not unusual in the rates offered either. My best friend in the industry signed a contract for 2 million a year. They stayed together for 3 years. A lady who used to advertise on this board signed one last year for over 300K/year plus a large signing bonus.
Everything is perspective. What we may consider to be an exorbitant amount of money is pocket change for someone else. We do it too. Spending $30 or $50 on a meal and drinks once in a while is pretty normal for us. In other parts of the world, that is more than 2 weeks salary for a doctor....and for a regular person, just getting clean drinking water is a struggle.
In a sugar daddy relationship, you are asking somebody to put their life on hold for you. If you are hiring a companion as a sugar baby, you are asking her to put her business AND personal life on hold. It isn't the same as hiring somebody by the hour, an experience, or even an extended but finite period of time. The lady is expected to be and to remain single. She is expected to remain monogamous. She is expected to be available on his schedule. If she was a companion, she is also giving up all her regular clients, and the real and genuine relationships she has forged with them. There is a lot more involved than just how many hours of time does he get to spend with her for how much.
In the end, it really just boils down to what the individuals want. As long as both parties are happy with the arrangement, then why or how can those of us on the outside judge it?
Thanks for posting Angel.
Those are some jaw dropping numbers for sure. It's interesting to get a peek behind the curtain so to speak. We do tend to complain about local pricing but when I've heard about NYC, LAX and more distant places like Dubai and the incomes some ladies can earn it's quite something knowing Vancouver by comparison is way down the pay scale so to speak.
Knowing a few former advertisers here who went into the contracted status with one client yielded very nice condos, vehicles along with the entire lifestyle like international travel etc. Like you say, the other side is not being part of this community, colleagues and former clients.
Wow that is an amazing revelation and although I believe you it is difficult to imagine that someone would pay two million a year for the company of a beautiful intelligent lady.
I feel bad for men like that. I can't imagine they are happy with their lives.
I don't want to sound judgemental even though I likely am, but it seems a bit pathetic. I am fine with buying pleasure and occasional companionship but buying love is just so sad.
I have to agree with Angel - that type of arrangement isn't abnormal. And in the case of the article, she's not getting $12,000 per month cash...he's paying all of her expenses and student loan debt (which in the US is usually 50k+). Those things add up to 12,000. Arrangements in the ballpark Angel wrote about are more common than you'd think.
Also, think about it this way -- you are asking a sex worker to essentially only work for you. Therefore, what amounts to lost income for only seeing you is the expected standard. There are also 'semi-exclusive' arrangements that are substantially less and the provider has the freedom to be selective and see fewer people at a higher rate. I don't personally judge how any lady runs her business.
And on the client end...sure, a lot of money, and it's not for everyone but more power to them. However you want to spend your money is your freedom.
Also, think about it this way -- you are asking a sex worker to essentially only work for you. Therefore, what amounts to lost income for only seeing you is the expected standard. There are also 'semi-exclusive' arrangements that are substantially less and the provider has the freedom to be selective and see fewer people at a higher rate. I don't personally judge how any lady runs her business.
And on the client end...sure, a lot of money, and it's not for everyone but more power to them. However you want to spend your money is your freedom.
For men who can afford these arrangements, a girlfriend / wife can become way more costly than a professional companion.
Some men are both man enough and intelligent enough to know hiring a professional will not end in losing half assets.
The amount of money you pay a Sugarbabe, is all relative to the amount of money you have, and how you want to spend it.
I once saw a girl for 6 years, and when I'm lying on my deathbed she's still going to be someone I think about, in a very positive way. Trust me I will be smiling when I think about her.
So the way I look at it is, you only go through life once, and the whole idea, (or at least a very important idea) is to collect as many wonderful memories as you can. It seems to me having sex with a very attractive women who you connect with is near the top in terms of memories created.
I once saw a girl for 6 years, and when I'm lying on my deathbed she's still going to be someone I think about, in a very positive way. Trust me I will be smiling when I think about her.
So the way I look at it is, you only go through life once, and the whole idea, (or at least a very important idea) is to collect as many wonderful memories as you can. It seems to me having sex with a very attractive women who you connect with is near the top in terms of memories created.
