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Thanks for this thought-provoking contribution Excellent points. I agree: sometimes it would only take "a [well-timed] conversation to clear the air." People who know they crave sexual variety should clearly not enter a monogamous commitment in the first place. I've tried to have this...

Nice to see such lively debate Congratulations, brother! Great you don't feel guilty about pooning. That's precisely the kind of attitude I love to see among married brothers. But it's not totally clear from your comment why you don't feel guilty. Is it because you think pooning without...

No wonder our hobby has such a sordid reputation—when even pooners are judgmental of their married brothers who lie about pooning to their SO. It's a conservative guess that at least half of all pooners have a wife or GF, and most poon without their partner's consent. So we can defend our...

Interesting perspectives I don't presuppose any heavy-duty "moral code" from on high. I realize, there've got to be rules for living together in reasonable social harmony, and I try to respect those rules in my own life. Clearly, I don't think commercial sex generally undermines people's...

What is the best time for a non-monogamy conversation with an SO? Hey Strawberry, Wonderful that there're women like you in this world! Your contributions to this forum are refreshingly atypical for a female. Wish we could clone you. You're right that opening up a marriage to non-monogamy...

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?179091-Nana-s-new-girl-Yuina I was surprised about Jizz Machine`s comment in the review section. Many people, and apparently even some pooners, think it’s not all right for married men to poon behind their wife`s back. Now I’m strongly in favor of...

Thoughtful input by some of PERB's finest! Hey Lost-in-Japan, This forum lends itself to making pretty wild statements—but your confession about not wanting to marry a woman that would let you go Greek is one of the most astonishing statements I've ever read. Talk about a Madonna-whore...

Didn't mean to sound judgmental Hey brother, You're 100% right: there's a difference between renegotiating monogamy in a longstanding marriage vs. laying down expectations of non-monogamy soon after the start of a relationship. Though these situations are closely enough related that my...

Do most guys really prefer a life of lies and deception to courageous honesty? Wow, thanks Alex—you're definitely a babe after my heart. And thanks also to haymitch for nominating me for the coveted "Worst Idea of the Year" award. Glad my suggestion provokes hilarity. Sounds like a lot of...

It`s probably the most important conversation that men never have with their SO: getting the green light to have sex with other women. Most men just cheat, and when their SO finds out, an otherwise perfectly all-right relationship often goes bust. Why not rather negotiate an open...

Brilliant comment from Holly Just read the "Luxury Rental Girlfriend." The article seems to want to address the question, "Why do even highly desirable men hire escorts rather than go for freebies they're eagerly offered from civvies?" But the answer given consists mostly of worldly-wise...

Bumping into fellow pooners Over the years I've bumped into quite a few fellow pooners at micros and AMPs. I always prefer it when another pooner arrives just after I'm done with a girl than when I arrive just after he's done.:) In micros with several girls, we might bump into each other in...

Hazards of "exploring what a relationship would be like with a new wonderful lady" Hey yazoo, In anticipation of my Thailand trip later this year, I've been pondering the pros and cons of going "short term" vs. "long-term" with a lady. I know from your stories that you're big on staying with...

Interesting topic Hey yazoo, You're right—pooners' preferences differ in amazing ways. Obviously, a pooner for whom SPs are the only women he ever gets to touch intimately—and who seeks emotional as well as sexual contact—will be very differently motivated than a pooner who has an...

Bravo! Hey Sam, You sound like quite the hero—a big sports fan who enjoys throwing drinks! Throwing your drink at a micro girl is not only solid proof of your manliness, but will hopefully teach her not to let her boss misadvertise her age. I'm visualizing what supposedly happened here. So...

Hey mimi, Thank you for your advice to talk about pooning to one's children only on a "'not need to know' basis." In other words, you're saying a father should keep pooning activities just as secret from his adult kids as any kinkiness he may have enjoyed with their mother—because kids...

Hey Lost, You've amazing stories up your sleeve—and not only about picking up hotties in Japanese bars! Impressive, the way you came to your sister's rescue when needed. And great that you'll always love your daughter(s) unconditionally. But you say if a daughter of yours took up escorting...

Intriguing line of thought Hey brother JC, You've provided some articulate input here—though half the time I'm unsure whether you're serious or satirical. I agree, educators have the power to change society, and most of them certainly seem to favour equal rights for homosexuals. But I'm...

Thanks for mind-opening input Most of us pooners—myself included—rarely reflect on the price many SPs have paid in terms of strained or broken family ties. And it's so tragically needless, the result of parents' warped attitude toward sex. What I know about Holly Taylor and Miss Lux (mostly...

Melina, you've got the greatest mum. Hope you've an understanding dad too! A woman telling her parents she's an escort has probably produced some of the more dramatic conversations in human history. Here's how I imagine such a conversation between my daughter and myself might go. Me: "Wow...