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angry anderson

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Last time I tried was last summer. Was heading towards Saveon Foods when the most perfectly gorgeous Chinese Canadian woman in yoga tights and a skimpy top headed there in front of me. I was seriously checking her out. She definitely noticed. I guess I was being pretty obvious but respectful, as in non-threatening. Our paths kept crossing in the aisles. Finally stood in line at the self-checkout tills. Two or three of them were not working. She was just in front of me. She sidled up to me and remarked how most of the tills were broken. I politely agreed that it was pretty common. Didn't say another word. Was going to hit on her or ask her out. Kind of just relished the fact that she approached me. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Story of my life.
Actually, another story. Same week. Was in Safeways when some attractive little cougar started a very good-natured conversation about tequila mixes. I played along and we went our separate ways. Bumped into her going into another store a few minutes later. She laughed about how we kept bumping into each other. Didn't make a move. Winning!
 

dare.devil

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Last time I tried was last summer. Was heading towards Saveon Foods when the most perfectly gorgeous Chinese Canadian woman in yoga tights and a skimpy top headed there in front of me. I was seriously checking her out. She definitely noticed. I guess I was being pretty obvious but respectful, as in non-threatening. Our paths kept crossing in the aisles. Finally stood in line at the self-checkout tills. Two or three of them were not working. She was just in front of me. She sidled up to me and remarked how most of the tills were broken. I politely agreed that it was pretty common. Didn't say another word. Was going to hit on her or ask her out. Kind of just relished the fact that she approached me. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Story of my life.
Actually, another story. Same week. Was in Safeways when some attractive little cougar started a very good-natured conversation about tequila mixes. I played along and we went our separate ways. Bumped into her going into another store a few minutes later. She laughed about how we kept bumping into each other. Didn't make a move. Winning!
Sounds like a healthy and respectful human interaction. Ofcourse there is opposite sex energies involved, and I love these kind of interactions.
 
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Last time I tried was last summer. Was heading towards Saveon Foods when the most perfectly gorgeous Chinese Canadian woman in yoga tights and a skimpy top headed there in front of me. I was seriously checking her out. She definitely noticed. I guess I was being pretty obvious but respectful, as in non-threatening. Our paths kept crossing in the aisles. Finally stood in line at the self-checkout tills. Two or three of them were not working. She was just in front of me. She sidled up to me and remarked how most of the tills were broken. I politely agreed that it was pretty common. Didn't say another word. Was going to hit on her or ask her out. Kind of just relished the fact that she approached me. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Story of my life.
Actually, another story. Same week. Was in Safeways when some attractive little cougar started a very good-natured conversation about tequila mixes. I played along and we went our separate ways. Bumped into her going into another store a few minutes later. She laughed about how we kept bumping into each other. Didn't make a move. Winning!
ARGGGHHHHHHH!
I sincerely cringe at reading this. And in grocery stores too. One of my favourite spots to hit on milfy types.
 

islander1-1

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How to pick up chicks ?? When you see what your looking for, standing on the corner, drive around the block, slow down when passing her, make eye contact and pull around the corner and park. Roll down the passenger window, and most likely she will walk up to your car. If you like what you see ask her is she needs a ride. I bet she will get in.
 

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When I was in university as a handsome, young, fit, funny, witty, charming, outgoing man, being able to read social cues and knowing how to have a fun time got me laid a ton despite having no money.

As a now older man who is overweight, stressed, depressed, with thinning hair and very little free time to do anything fun, BUT with a wallet full of cash, my pickup game is now "Hey are you free for a 1 hour GFE session today at 4 pm?"

Works fine for me!
Love the honesty.
 

Zoot Allures

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I find women will stand near me if interested and they stand quietly giving off a vibe .
Now that I think of it, a man can do the same.

Find way to be near her and NOTICE her SIGNALS. But give her space.


SHE DOES NOT SEE YOU AS A NICE GUY, THAT IS HOW YO SEE YOURSELF. SHE SEES YOU AS A POTENTIAL THREAT.

As I said, peole remember how you made them feel. You need to put yourself in her shoes a nd give her space.


I have had women hug me when I would have never initiated it. They hugged because wanted to but needed to feel safe first.
 
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Once you go black

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I get that this guy is into “Pickup”.

I honestly have zero issues w anyone who actually wishes to improve their social skills or dating life and is actually willing to put in the time and effort to improve , well , really , ANY area of their life really .

But seriously what is the point of this post ?

It just kind of jumps right in without any context . Seems out of context. Did someone ask ?

Also dude , no offence but honestly, this site is the wrong place for that audience .

Seriously though good luck on your journey , may you meet lots of smart interesting woman and have a mutually enjoyable experience w each of them .
 
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Zoot Allures

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I get that this guy is into “Pickup”.

I honestly have zero issues w anyone who actually wishes to improve their social skills or dating life and is actually willing to put in the time and effort to improve , well , really , ANY area of their life really .

But seriously what is the point of this post ?

It just kind of jumps right in without any context . Seems out of context. Did someone ask ?

Also dude , no offence but honestly, this site is the wrong place for that audience .

Seriously though good luck on your journey , may you meet lots of smart interesting woman and have a mutually enjoyable experience w each of them .
I disagree. It is needed here. Some PERBs are here because they do not have these skills but your point is valid as this is not discussion forum
centered on this particular topic but it fits in as this forum is wide open for ay topic, is it not?
 
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I disagree. It is needed here. Some PERBs are here because they do not have these skills but your point is valid as this is not discussion forum
centered on this particular topic but it fits in as this forum is wide open for ay topic, is it not?
No there’s actually a fairly long list of topics that will be removed or get you banned! PERB isn’t a social media platform it’s a business and PERB’s business is selling advertising.
 
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No there’s actually a fairly long list of topics that will be removed or get you banned! PERB isn’t a social media platform it’s a business and PERB’s business is selling advertising.
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