What are some hobbies that women have that you find unattractive?

[LC18]

I saw that question online and thought it was interesting.

So men, what are some hobbies that women have that you find unattractive?

 

[Goldj]

I have to say smoking! I am sure a lot of people would agree

 

[GeeBeeP]

Smoking for me as well, big turn off.

Also, and I think this has been mentioned on one of your posts before LC, showing off/bragging about gifts and expensive dates on social media. And I think I’d classify that as a hobby / habit for some women and not just advertising.

I’m pretty well off and can afford a bit of an extended time with a “higher end” escort, but I can’t take a girl shopping at Prada and fly her to Europe for the weekend. So when I see this kind of stuff it looks like she’s not interested in even a few hours with an average guy like me. I get the feeling that if I were to contact her I’d be a pretty low priority.

 

[YaletownFuckboi]

turn offs in the context of a possible romantic relationship:
-being any form of sex worker, in the past or present
-having a high body count
-being rude, unpleasant or a misandrist
-being a modern day feminist
-being masculine
-smoking
-obesity

turn offs in an escort:
-bragging about gifts or money they make, flexing.
-excessive photoshop
-lying about age
-alluding too or showing pictures of them with other clients
-excessive self promotion
-arguing, being passive aggressive, or misandrist towards men on perb or twitter
-spending too much time on perb
-feminism
-acting like they have high standards
-smoking
-obesity

I get alot of these arent necessarily hobbies, but I see alot of woman spending alot of their spare time doing some of the above

 

[masterpoonhunter]

shopping as a sport ...
For Fucks Sake, talk about working out the credit cards.

And I agree about the showing off things. Recently communicated with an early 30's very hot woman about investments. She was working the insurance angle which is of interest to me to preserve what wealth I have. When it got to her 'presentation' it was all about her doing extravagant shit like flying in a private jet, exotic places, designer stuff etc. Not just a turn off but a hard stop on further communication. Despite the fact that I may have been able to bang her.

 

[sexpanther69]

turn offs in the context of a possible romantic relationship:


"-being any form of sex worker, in the past or present
-having a high body count"

Lollll, but it's ok for your bodycount to be high and have been with escorts yourself tho....

Thnx for the laugh this mrng

 

[VanCityNewb]

Around these parts, talking about the high standards they have for men being "generous" and whatever else, and then turning around and posting on Twitter or wherever else basically begging for men to give them stuff for free while they're making hundreds of dollars an hour. It just seems very silly and dumb.

Edit: Ugh, I just piggybacked on what everyone else said, ignoring that it's not even a hobby, lol. Oh well!

 

[luvsdaty]

I saw that question online and thought it was interesting.

So men, what are some hobbies that women have that you find unattractive?

Not just women and not a hobby ,people in general who are rude to service workers. I literally always tell them to shut the fuck up and show some respect. Hobbies? Can't really think of any? Maybe Amazon addiction?

 

[westwoody]

showing off/bragging about gifts and expensive dates on social media. And I think I’d classify that as a hobby / habit for some women and not just advertising.

Flaunting excessive consumption just to show off.
BIG turnoff.
Look at me! I have an expensive purse! And I eat at super expensive restaurants!
Maybe that makes them feel good about themselves or impresses other girls. It doesn't impress many guys.

I did meet with a woman who does this because she was pretty hot in her ads. And she was every bit as vacuous and self important as she could be. Lesson learned.

 

[Ray]

Smoking.
Out of control shopping habit, unnecessary accumulation of material things.

 

[X302Z]

Think y'all getting off course and just looking for turn offs

I'm not entirely sure anyone smokes for fun/hobby, unless weed, which is common and harmless enough these days

Shopping can be considered a hobby, might be a red flag but doesn't seem to correlate to flashy materialism off the bat

For the most part, I think almost any and all hobbies can enrich a person's personality and its endearing to see a woman excitedly engaged in a hobby too.

I can't think of a hobby that would be judged as a quick redflag like a woman would find gaming or dungeons and dragons a turn off in men

As for that dude on about feminism

 

[YaletownFuckboi]

"-being any form of sex worker, in the past or present
-having a high body count"

Lollll, but it's ok for your bodycount to be high and have been with escorts yourself tho....

Thnx for the laugh this mrng

Wow, it looks like you really took that one personally!

So, according to your reasoning, for a person to desire a certain trait in a long-term partner, that person must also have that trait themselves? I dont think we would see many relationships in that case.

Let me ask you this: based on your reasoning, if a woman is attracted to tall men, does that mean she must also be tall? If she prefers wealthy men, does she need to be wealthy herself? If she likes funny men, must she also be funny?

While it might be frustrating for you to hear, men and women generally tend to be drawn to different qualities. Additionally, there are plenty of hypocrisies and double standards in dating that exist on both sides.

I hate to break it to you, but women are typically much more forgiving of men when they are promiscuous than men are of women who engage in the same behavior

Do you feel upset when women have standards and preferences, or is it only an issue when men do? Or is the real reason you’re upset because you’re developing feelings for the woman you’re paying to be with?

 

[BULLZ]

I agree with most of these

I believe that anyone who is familiar with or has spent time around a woman who is addicted to or obsessed with social media would certainly consider it a hobby for them.
Consequently, what they share on social media counts as a hobby, particularly since many of them dedicate hours to perfecting each post through editing and sorting through countless photos. Thus, their boasting about their "wealth" or how "spoiled" they are can be viewed as a hobby.
I’ve always found it strange when they do this, as it’s not only a turn off but also quite common for providers to flaunt things that someone with a low six-figure or high five-figure income can afford. It’s not particularly impressive, especially to high-earning men.

I’ve also know how unappealing and gross some of the guys these providers sleep with can be; anything that reminds me that those men are involved with her is a major turn-off.

 

[BULLZ]

As for that dude on about feminism

To be fair, he specifically mentioned "modern feminism," which differs from classical feminism. Many women don’t even support modern feminism.

 

[ChrisAYC]

You must be referring to that poll of hobbies that women find unattractive in men.
RIP Gaming/Taxidermy Bros

Things like smoking or drug-use are a turn off for sure. But don't know if that can be classified as a "hobby".
So I can't think of any hobbies that I find "unattractive", weird/awkward maybe. Unless they mega-obsessed with it (i.e. Deranged K-Pop Stans).

Weird choice, but Vtubing would that most "unattractive" hobby for me.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

I have to say smoking! I am sure a lot of people would agree

I’m not sure that I would categorize smoking as a hobby, it’s a habit.

But as a guy with a smoking fetish (despite being a non-smoker), I’m always on the look out for a sexy babe who smokes (and has a place to do it). I welcome PMs from any lady who would indulge me in this and can almost guarantee a booking out of it 😁

People are mixing personality traits with hobbies in this thread.
My thoughts on Unattractive hobbies: excessive consumerism, malicious gossip, overuse of social media.

 

[LC18]

turn offs in the context of a possible romantic relationship:
-being any form of sex worker, in the past or present
-having a high body count
-being rude, unpleasant or a misandrist
-being a modern day feminist
-being masculine
-smoking
-obesity

turn offs in an escort:
-bragging about gifts or money they make, flexing.
-excessive photoshop
-lying about age
-alluding too or showing pictures of them with other clients
-excessive self promotion
-arguing, being passive aggressive, or misandrist towards men on perb or twitter
-spending too much time on perb
-feminism
-acting like they have high standards
-smoking
-obesity

I get alot of these arent necessarily hobbies, but I see alot of woman spending alot of their spare time doing some of the above

Do you know what a “hobby” is?

 

[LC18]

Not just women ,people in general who are rude to service workers. I literally always tell them to shut the fuck up and show some respect.

But is that a hobby? Has anyone ever told you “my hobby is to be rude to service workers” ?

 

[vanperb]

You must be referring to that poll of hobbies that women find unattractive in men. RIP Gaming/Taxidermy Bros
Things like smoking or drug-use are a turn off for sure. But don't know if that can be classified as a "hobby".

Semi-related side note. I've known women who stick loyally by partners with drug-use problems, so drug-use might be a "turn off" but sadly it is not by far a "deal-breaker".
On the flip side, I've known women who have abandoned men because of video gaming hobbies. The two points actually have overlap in a couple of women I know.

I can't tell if it's because video gaming is something they don't understand, or because rampant drug use is something they can.

 

[MB Mod]

Do you know what a “hobby” is?

It should be obvious by now that his hobby is being a troll, that’s all he contributes here, nothing. And he keeps the moderation team in steady employment.