Lol, just bringing out all of the trolls today. I was just wondering about this guy.
What are some hobbies that women have that you find unattractive?
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A turn off for me is the constant need to photograph everything, instead of just enjoying the moment and putting the selfie stick away for a day. This is in the case of partners during travel and forcing me to pose and smile for a picture and then making me do it 10 times cause she doesn't like the way she looked and can't get her pose or smile right (by her standards).
On one occasion I had a partner who got us lost cause she wanted to stray from our tour group, cause she wanted to do a selfie with me in a spot that caught her eye. The tour guide instructed us to follow her at the the start of the tour until everything was done where then we'd all be able to go off on our own do our thing and take pics...etc she made me stay behind to take a Pic for a moment and ruined the rest of the day cause she didn't want to follow instructions. Whole day wasted for me.
On one occasion I had a partner who got us lost cause she wanted to stray from our tour group, cause she wanted to do a selfie with me in a spot that caught her eye. The tour guide instructed us to follow her at the the start of the tour until everything was done where then we'd all be able to go off on our own do our thing and take pics...etc she made me stay behind to take a Pic for a moment and ruined the rest of the day cause she didn't want to follow instructions. Whole day wasted for me.
You got me ! Guilty as charged Mr Watson
Don't worry the moderators can handle the junk and the trolls on perb without back up accounts or any help from us . The amount of people going through the perbatory for infractions, misbehavior or lack of social skills is the best example ...Don't you agree ?
Ok I finally though of 2 hobbies I would find "unattractive" in a girl.
1. Golf: I think girls find this attractive on guys, specially on older gentleman (Silver fox-vibe). But I find unattractive if a girl did it, makes me feel like I'm dating a middle age guy lol.
2. Bird-Watching: Literally the most boring activity known to man.
1. Golf: I think girls find this attractive on guys, specially on older gentleman (Silver fox-vibe). But I find unattractive if a girl did it, makes me feel like I'm dating a middle age guy lol.
2. Bird-Watching: Literally the most boring activity known to man.
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She's hot no doubt.
But is she a golfer-golfer, or some guys side-candy or just tagging for fun
Lot guys bring their GFs/Wives/Escorts to golf, but they're not true golfers themselves.
Just to add to the convo. Here a real hot golfer.
Golfers can be hot, but they're not hot cuz golf is attractive. They're just naturally hot.
Golfers can be hot, but they're not hot cuz golf is attractive. They're just naturally hot.
Hobbies are things you do with other people that is not your work/prime income. Although in the above comments, I think some people are confused as to what the difference is between a hobby and personality trait are.
Excessive gaming (more than 4 hours a day-unless a professional gamer) I would look at as a bad time waster when you can be doing more constructive activities (like meeting new people, sport, hobby, upgrading schooling). Gaming with your friends online for a couple hours a week is okay. Gaming with your GF is okay. Gaming with your friends and your GF giving you a BJ is awesome.... Your GF gaming and you giving her DATY is awesome too....
As for a women just talking about money, conquests, talking down about other people, these are not things customers want to hear about. Have to talk about positive things that include the customer, making them feel welcome. Feed back is the work I'm looking for here.
As for unattractive hobbies; if a women likes a certain hobby, and she is happy about doing it, it dosen't matter what other people think.
Excessive gaming (more than 4 hours a day-unless a professional gamer) I would look at as a bad time waster when you can be doing more constructive activities (like meeting new people, sport, hobby, upgrading schooling). Gaming with your friends online for a couple hours a week is okay. Gaming with your GF is okay. Gaming with your friends and your GF giving you a BJ is awesome.... Your GF gaming and you giving her DATY is awesome too....
As for a women just talking about money, conquests, talking down about other people, these are not things customers want to hear about. Have to talk about positive things that include the customer, making them feel welcome. Feed back is the work I'm looking for here.
As for unattractive hobbies; if a women likes a certain hobby, and she is happy about doing it, it dosen't matter what other people think.
So a combination of willful blindness, and savior complex?
That's just right back to high school. My guess it has to do with attention. With gaming, a person's attention is 100% taken by the game, for long stretches at a time. With things like drug addiction, even in a toxic situation there's some level of interaction, and even if that interaction is hateful, abusive, or manipulation, it's better than nothing.
Whew glad nobody is hating on gamers as I’m sitting here playing video games at 3am with my high body count. Sex is fun. Variety is the spice of life. And video games is better than tv.
Paige Spiranac is gorgeous and a real golfer.
A day golfing in the outdoors with any lady is better than sitting in a bar with some lounge lizard.
I’ll admit that when I first read the headline of this thread I saw, “what are hobbies a woman has that make her more attractive?” Not “unattractive.” And I had a few to share. I don’t want to derail LC’s thread, but like others have said there aren’t a lot of hobbies that would make someone unattractive to me as folks are free to do what they want in their spare time. Hobbies are where folks tend to pursue their passions and as long as it’s not breaking the law, have a good time. I know a few women who do taxidermy in their spare time because they’re fascinated by it - NMCOT, but no harm, no foul.
Traits and habits, however, that’s another story….
Traits and habits, however, that’s another story….
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Biggest turnoff is no hobbies at all. I believe we all need our passions, not just sitting around watching tv.
One red flag I've seen is women who co-opt the hobbies of their person they are dating (giving up what they've done previously). I like strong women with their own identity. I am however all for a couple to have a shared hobby for something to do together.
One red flag I've seen is women who co-opt the hobbies of their person they are dating (giving up what they've done previously). I like strong women with their own identity. I am however all for a couple to have a shared hobby for something to do together.
It's worse when they're dating for entertainment. Like it's their partners job to entertain them.
I have my grandmas jade and ivory elephants that she collected from various countries. Which would be horrifying to collect them today but hopefully I can keep them forever
